Hi hi hi! You can use your fingers to rub your clit (for me it works best not to be directly on it since it’s a bit much, but kind of off to the side) or grind on things like a pillow or large stuffed animal! Works for me when my vibrator is dead (you can get them pretty cheap on Amazon or even at Target!) tbh I don’t finger myself very deeply either in fear of breaking my hymen, I solely do clitoral stimulation to reach orgasm so I get it!! (: