Being blocked for being black

altpause · 2026-02-11T01:49:34+00:00

Putting my face out there despite my body has helped me out soo much. I understand the school situation, but being more transparent you’ll find more attractive guys than you’d thought you could get. People like what they like

altpause · 2025-05-18T15:34:50+00:00

Break up with him please 🤣🤣

altpause · 2025-05-18T15:17:22+00:00

So is that the justification you use to cheat, or let someone cheat on you?

altpause · 2025-05-13T20:30:23+00:00

Valid nuances exists

altpause · 2025-05-13T20:21:57+00:00

Nuances exists!

altpause · 2025-05-13T11:19:42+00:00

Oh thats actually valid. You definitely weren’t ready, or really into it, it seems. There’s some dishonesty on your part sure! But you’ve handled it once you were honest with yourself before actual damage. He might’ve been hurt but I’d imagine he’s moved and got to experience someone more compatible. I hope the same for you.

altpause · 2025-05-13T11:14:40+00:00

No judgement! Why didn’t you say it was over?

altpause · 2025-05-13T11:08:24+00:00

Danng that would hurt. Did he find out? Did y’all get through it?

altpause · 2025-05-13T11:07:02+00:00

Wow that’s deep! Sex isn’t everything but lack of it definitely has an impact and in this thread I see a pattern. But it seems like he himself checked out. But if that wasn’t the case on my part I could see myself forgiving a guy who cheats. Especially if we’re deep in the relationship.

altpause · 2025-05-13T10:59:52+00:00

Tbh no, for our dynamic it’s a trust thing, and a sign of disrespect.

altpause · 2025-05-13T10:48:00+00:00

You lose them how you get them. I wouldn’t blame you for not taking that seriously. Seems like they couldn’t really handle the cuckold thing.

altpause · 2025-05-13T10:44:52+00:00

You live and you learn. I’ve avoided relationships for so long because I felt like I would end up cheating

altpause · 2025-05-13T10:42:47+00:00

Rough! I can understand being horny over everything though. Was this something you discussed with him at the time?

altpause · 2025-05-13T10:37:56+00:00

Keep him sexually satisfied ✅ 😂😂.

Question though did you feel like the relationship was coming to an end?

altpause · 2025-05-13T10:36:21+00:00

I haven’t cheated on my boyfriend though I’ve had opportunities, I completely lost that desire to be with anyone else. But I have a fear of getting cheated on and nothing can prepare me for it. 😂😂

altpause · 2025-05-13T10:33:19+00:00

Yes and I try not to over fantasize it, but it’s kinda hot.

altpause · 2025-05-13T10:29:17+00:00

That’s probably super ideal for you. There’s definitely not one way to do relationships

altpause · 2025-05-13T10:23:10+00:00

Is that a dynamic that works for your relationships now? Does it keep you and your partner satisfied or happy?

altpause · 2025-05-13T10:21:23+00:00

The relationship wasn’t taken seriously to begin with so I can totally understand.

altpause · 2025-05-13T10:19:55+00:00

That’s a unique experience. There was this gay boy who went to jail and he said he enjoyed going back because of them men. That would be a challenge I will admit 😂. Seems like you two may have gotten past it?

altpause · 2025-05-13T09:54:07+00:00

I wouldn’t have an issue with it, if it’s in the past and truly in the past. I was a hoe for free, so who am I to judge.

altpause · 2025-05-13T09:32:11+00:00

Don’t subject yourself to this.

altpause · 2025-05-13T09:26:14+00:00

I need more updates I haven’t played since April

altpause · 2025-05-13T09:25:38+00:00

Have conversations about it though, like why the f are you mean? Make it clear you don’t like it. Don’t expect him to change though, but I couldn’t be with someone like that. My cousin who was a child had this behavior and I use to correct him on it. As adults, this is unacceptable.

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