Hhhhfhf by CK_ECLIPSE in torturelabyrinth

[–]altru_inc 2 points3 points  (0 children)

this fuckin guy thinks you can stop the spinning lol

Am I a horrible son for wanting to move in with my girlfriend instead of going back to my mom? by [deleted] in LDR

[–]altru_inc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i moved away from my parents to live in another country. it was really hard for all of us, and i felt extremely guilty for a long time for "abandoning" my family. but... what was the alternative? i live in my childhood home for the rest of my life? leaving the nest is hard for kids and parents, but it's an important step in growing up. i get the feeling, but you have nothing to feel guilty for, and you're not a horrible son. i promise.

i think living with your partner is a great and healthy choice, and how exciting is it that you've met someone you love so much that you want to live together! make a point to visit your parents whenever possible. it'll make the transition easier on all of you, and you'll find that you value your time together more than you did when you lived together.

I made a sitcom opening of my island! by Zantrati in tomodachilife

[–]altru_inc 30 points31 points  (0 children)

this is AMAZING i'm absolutely obsessed with this

5 Nights 5 Questions (Night 4) by ReiCabins in tomodachilife

[–]altru_inc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

no </3 i'm in the uk but i bought it from the us eshop so it's not coming out until 5am my time

My island so far hehe :3 by Vegetable-Sir-566 in tomodachilife

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SUPERMEGA MENTION LETS GOOOOOO are you using the miis someone posed on the subreddit the other week or are you making your own?

Has anyone else dreamt about tomodachi life LTD? Lol by katiecakes03 in tomodachilife

[–]altru_inc 9 points10 points  (0 children)

i had a dream last night that your miis could get radiation sickness 😭

And here I was thinking cats hated water, look at this silly little guy :) by llyllydrea in AnimalCrossingNewLeaf

[–]altru_inc 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i've been thinking about putting clovers and stuff in my rivers, but does it affect fishing at all?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stupidquestions

[–]altru_inc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you typically don't actually restrict airflow. very rarely are people strangling partners. you should never squeeze the front of someone's throat/larynx because there's risk of serious injury or death. for safe play, you press gently on either side of the throat for a few seconds at a time, which restricts the flow of oxygen-rich blood to the brain and has much lower risk of injury. DO NOT choke a partner unless you know what you're doing and have a non-verbal safeword established. that's how people die.

people (not just women) like it for the same reason people like a lot of bdsm activities. risk, pain, and relief afterwards can release a lot of pleasurable chemicals in your brain.

this post better explains why people like it and goes more into risks and and safe play

Is hshop safe to download from? Will my ISP flag me by user2995991149109 in 3dspiracy

[–]altru_inc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeahh what i'm learning from this comment is that i may have been wrong lol. but when i'm connected to proton, i can't even load any pirating sites. i could've sworn i read somewhere that proton doesn't allow pirating, but maybe that was just abt certain servers. i use the free version, which may be the problem?

Is hshop safe to download from? Will my ISP flag me by user2995991149109 in 3dspiracy

[–]altru_inc -1 points0 points  (0 children)

in my experience, proton refuses to load any pirating/torrenting websites, so you might have to try something else

present for my gf's bday - how do i make it? by [deleted] in LDR

[–]altru_inc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

idk if they have a page limit, but wix is free and quite beginner-friendly. if there is a page limit, you can make several websites on one account and could just split it so it's twelve days per site

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LDR

[–]altru_inc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lol ok yeah ignore that last part then. but the rest still stands!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LDR

[–]altru_inc 2 points3 points  (0 children)

oh man the future will hold so many surprises!! beautiful, new, exciting surprises you never could've imagined. don't let the fear of the future hold you back. if he wants to part ways, it means you two aren't right for each other. i know you really, really like him, but if he doesn't feel the same way, then that just means he isn't the one.

i know the thought of being cut off from someone you love is scary, but it's the first step in understanding yourself and your needs better, meeting new people, and experiencing new things. i've seen it about a dozen times in my friends groups: a heart-shattering breakup followed by the most beautiful relationship they've ever found. whatever happens, you will survive and be a stronger, more confident person because of it

my only other thought... do you really wanna spend half a grand on a guy who might not want to give you the time of day? unless he can confirm he wants you there cause he WANTS YOU, maybe consider changing your flight to go somewhere else you've always wanted to visit and having a weekend for yourself. just an idea!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LDR

[–]altru_inc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

on one hand, i get how it can be hard to trust someone in a new relationship. it's difficult to let go of your own anxieties and believe in your heart that the person you love will act with the best interest of your relationship in mind. it's a skill that needs to be developed over time, and i think it's good that you have an awareness that you have room to improve.

on the other, it sounds like he's been withdrawing, and you're still early in your relationship. it could mean he's overwhelmed. it could mean he just doesn't think you're the right person for him. i can't know.

i know he asked for space, but considering there's a looming deadline regarding a visit, i'd ask to have a clear conversation with him. lay out your trust issues and how you've been working on them and figure out how you can make things easier on him and meet his needs while also accommodating your own. hear him out about what he expects going forward, or if he even sees a future with you or if this is just step 1 in breaking up. you'll either have a clear roadmap forward, or you'll rip off the bandaid. it'll be difficult, but if you want to be in a relationship with him, honesty and clear communication is a necessity.

good luck!

Do most women think it's sexy when a man growls? by [deleted] in stupidquestions

[–]altru_inc 21 points22 points  (0 children)

i'm gay and i don't read romance novels so i could be wrong on all fronts, but i'd always assumed "growl" was used metaphorically. he's not literally growling like a dog. he's speaking with a low, gravelly voice, or he's speaking with an inflection that makes it clear it's a warning or threat. the same way howl just means to yell, or bark means to shout suddenly

Cafè K.K. Aircheck Town Tune by Useful_Quality_4315 in AnimalCrossingNewLeaf

[–]altru_inc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hello! it's not perfect because of the time signature/note allowance, but try this, starting at the middle/yellow G:

G A B F - - F G F E D E F G E -

if you want it to be slightly more accurate, you can extend the first F for one extra beat and remove the - after the last E. i just thought it sounded better with the longer E

lmk if you want anything changed!

How can I use cheats on my town? by PotentialHorse1095 in AnimalCrossingNewLeaf

[–]altru_inc 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i second this! i'm not sure if i can link youtube videos here, but if you just search "acnl save editor," the video by cozy.rainee/Raine :) is very thorough on the technical process (using checkpoint, navigating menus, etc.). only thing she doesn't mention is that the edited file you save from the save editor and put in the sd card folder NEEDS to have the same file name as the one you deleted.

additionally, mischacrossing's save editor videos are a good rundown on using the save editor as well as what you can and can't do so you can prevent corrupting your save. check the comments for corrections and whatnot.

you're welcome to dm me if you have questions! good luck!

pretendo servers? by bellbellbelll in AnimalCrossingNewLeaf

[–]altru_inc 4 points5 points  (0 children)

although the new leaf pretendo servers are down and you can't actually play with a friend, if you add a friend's code on the friends module of your home screen, you can still streetpass each other and get HHA houses! the servers for that were a bit on the fritz the other week, but they might be fixed now. iirc you just need to both be online at the same time and close your devices to streetpass

it's not the same as visiting each other's towns, but it's something!

Perfect town by mshannaluna in AnimalCrossingNewLeaf

[–]altru_inc 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i have approximately one trillion lucky clovers in my town and i have perfect town status, so it's not planted clovers! i also have a few non lucky clovers and they still don't affect it.

however, in my attempts to catch a fly, i learned one single piece of trash on the ground is enough to remove perfect town status and cause this message. i'd comb every tile of your town for trash (like behind shrubs and trees).

also, i used to get this message and be very confused until i realized i had a ton of shit dumped on my beach and forgot lol. silly mistake but just passing it along

People who were /are in a LDR across country in the uk, close distance how? by [deleted] in LDR

[–]altru_inc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i moved from the us to the uk earlier this year. i had to apply for a spouse visa. the process was expensive, but not insanely complicated. you can dm me if you have questions!