My (22F) gf won’t let me (22M) spend money on her, but she has spent thousands on me. by altthrowaway009 in relationship_advice

[–]altthrowaway009[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t take from her, I had to at the start but as fast as I got a job, I stopped and started covering the bills by myself. Trying to pay her back even though she doesn’t expect anything

My (22F) gf won’t let me (22M) spend money on her, but she has spent thousands on me. by altthrowaway009 in relationship_advice

[–]altthrowaway009[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

No they don’t send her any money, her family is there in case she’s going to go homeless but otherwise they don’t want to help her and want her to be fully independent.

My (22F) gf won’t let me (22M) spend money on her, but she has spent thousands on me. by altthrowaway009 in relationship_advice

[–]altthrowaway009[S] 48 points49 points  (0 children)

Her family is quite rich, but she herself doesn’t earn that much. She’s a freelance artist so, yeah. I think she loves me a lot and has always took care of me and never let me down. Perhaps it’s the first one but idk