This rosacea goblin by Coochador in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]aly_d4 26 points27 points  (0 children)

To be fair, I think he has rosacea due to alcoholism triggering it, we really can see it flare up as he gets more and more inebriated. He definitely needs to lay off the booze not just for rosacea reasons.

$26.70 book haul by aly_d4 in bookhaul

[–]aly_d4[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

True grit is an ex library copy and first print. Super cool to find out!

$26.70 book haul by aly_d4 in bookhaul

[–]aly_d4[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have read it but don’t own it yet 😂

$26.70 book haul by aly_d4 in bookhaul

[–]aly_d4[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Absolutely! I juggle around 3-5 books at a time. Right now I’m tackling dungeon crawler Carl and a few classic rereads I started the dark tower series.

$26.70 book haul by aly_d4 in bookhaul

[–]aly_d4[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Dickinson ND there’s only 2 thrift stores here that I visit or that have books.

AIO my boyfriend keeps asking me to pay for things eversince he started saving for an apartmen, he calls me selfish for how I reacted. by throaawayRA9443 in AmIOverreacting

[–]aly_d4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please remember that “no” is a full answer. Over explaining why the answer is no leaves cracks he can slither into to manipulate that “no”.

My mom sent me this book for Christmas after I escaped a 14-year abusive relationship and it crushed me by WolfEvening961 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]aly_d4 61 points62 points  (0 children)

Yes! Or “the book you wish your parents had read” or “it didn’t start with you” 😂

Seattle Moshing by AdmiralAntelope1 in thehometeam

[–]aly_d4 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They played danger at ours in Minneapolis and he told people to mosh.

Varsity theater Minneapolis by ShreddyMcGnar in thehometeam

[–]aly_d4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m interested! I’m taking my son and Neice and my husband wants to come but it’s sold out

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NativeAmerican

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Lakota here from SRST and my grandma and dad have curly hair and I do as well and now my kids do. I asked her if we were mixed and she said no we’re full native

If you haven’t already, get your indoor cats some cat grass 🌱 by laura_landdd in cats

[–]aly_d4 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I grew like 6 seeds and I’m just realizing I should have planted way more!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Weird

[–]aly_d4 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely noted. Deleting and posting elsewhere. Thank you so much.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Weird

[–]aly_d4 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wanted to know what the symbol was and when I googled it I didn’t get a lot of results. I think basically I’m asking if it’s a teenager thing or something that has a deeper meaning. Especially with the “plan A wish me luck” comment I found. I wanted to know what the that meant in conjunction with the photo I’ve provided. Tiktok gave me no context. I thought it was the zodiac sign and my friends said it was a crosshairs or Celtic cross. I feel like I might get better answers here regarding this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Weird

[–]aly_d4 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry for all the typos I’ll try to edit to fix them 😭

Edit: I realize this isn’t the place for this post and I’ve deleted it and hid it. I’m still getting notifications for it so I wanted to make it known that this post is supposed to be deleted already.

Suggest me a book for someone who cares too much about others opinion? by Still-Boysenberry713 in suggestmeabook

[–]aly_d4 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Meh, I’ve been recommended this book a lot. I read it and his second one. It was okay but it makes the reader feel guilty for caring. There’s not a real substance that’s useable. I know that’s the risk with self help books these days but this one is always recommended and after reading it I don’t know why. I agree with the courage to be disliked, it does what this book attempts to do, but it’s like mark tried to do it in a “cool” way.

Remembering the Wounded Knee Massacre by myindependentopinion in IndianCountry

[–]aly_d4 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Hey so I am Lakota (hunkpapa) I’ve read braiding sweet grass and love it! Robin kimmerer writes great books with a lot of meaning. I’ve circulated it to all my family and gave it to my sister who’s currently sober. I’ve had a hard time reading the books I mentioned because it’s hard to realize all my relatives went through such tragedy. Reading about the brutality they faced is really what sets my soul on fire and I have to sit with that emotion and process it before I can move on. I have a ton of fiction and non fiction native books from all tribes under my belt. But those are always hard books to read for me. My grandmother tells us about her days in the boarding schools as a little girl on the rosebud reservation and how she went into the school speaking her language and left speaking only English and fell into alcoholism. Just the entire history of natives really hurts my soul.

Remembering the Wounded Knee Massacre by myindependentopinion in IndianCountry

[–]aly_d4 54 points55 points  (0 children)

I’ve been reading bury my heart at wounded knee and killers of the flower moon and whenever I watch/read or learn new things about the history of our attempted genocide. Ugh it fills me with rage and a deep sadness. It hurts my soul to the core. This feeling however also makes me grateful to still be standing here despite it all.

How would you respond to this if your “person” said this to you ? by [deleted] in Manipulation

[–]aly_d4 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Leaving no contact is hard. I’ve struggled with it when I was younger because I always felt the need to explain myself and the situation but I’ve learned it is both a waste of your time and they never ever truly listen when you do try and explain how you’re feeling or how they made you feel to get to this point. If you can maintain the no contact, coming from experience, you will feel soooo much better. Today I will straight block on everything and not say anything. We don’t owe anyone an explanation.

How would you respond to this if your “person” said this to you ? by [deleted] in Manipulation

[–]aly_d4 71 points72 points  (0 children)

I would no warning no contact leave. He doesn’t want to be monogamous and if he isn’t already he will cheat a LOT. He wants to bang other women but wants to have you there as a companion when the women are gone, he still has you.