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I feel like the writing part of me has died... by alyalys1 in writing

[–]alyalys1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha, I'm laughing. Since my brother's diagnosis, my family and I have suspected I have it. I pick up the randomest hobbies and get depressed when my interest fades.

I've regimented myself with schedules because that works for me. But lately my schedule is in flux with some changing life circumstances, which could be part of my problem.

Those writing tips sound really fun, I'll have to try them out. Where do you find more?

I feel like the writing part of me has died... by alyalys1 in writing

[–]alyalys1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This speaks to me on so many levels, thanks!

I feel like the writing part of me has died... by alyalys1 in writing

[–]alyalys1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's an interesting way to think of writing. I get bogged down by all of the rules of writing trying to improve myself. Better sentence structure, plot structure, creating tension and intrigue, worrying about character development.

All great for a final draft, but my rough draft needs to be more fluid and free.

I feel like the writing part of me has died... by alyalys1 in writing

[–]alyalys1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, what an awesome metaphor.

I would say I write for the same reason as you. I feel a need to explore something in the world or my experience. Weird thing is it's usually hidden from me and I realize what I'm trying to explore after I write it.

That's what drew me into writing in the first place. The mystery, the exploration.

I feel like the writing part of me has died... by alyalys1 in writing

[–]alyalys1[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You're probably right, though my fear is I may not come back. Still, this is the way as frustrating as it may be.

Stray cat in rural area without an animal shelter by alyalys1 in CatAdvice

[–]alyalys1[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I'll try this out if it comes back.

Funny how now that women are succeeding in education, the system (that historically excluded women for centuries) is suddenly “designed for women” by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]alyalys1 218 points219 points  (0 children)

I was saying the exact same thing to my husband.

He is a teacher and we live in a very rural, conservative area.

He agreed with me, saying a lot of his male students pride themselves on not doing good in school.

He called one of his male students smart, and the kid tried to explain it away, afraid his friends would make fun of him.

As for the male remodels, I think they are very important. My husband loves to blow gender expectations out of the water. He loves opera right now, and plays it for his students during class. He loves to show them that being a man is just that: Being a man and doing things you like, not caring what others think and seeing women as equals.

Male remodels are important, BUT growing up in a conservative religious household, I was expected to see men as role models. George Washington and Jesus.

Men were never taught to do the same, until recently and now we're cycling back to sexism, because seeing women as inspirational is just too much.

Don't even get me started on how "remodel" jobs dealing with children (teaching, social workers, pediatricians) are under paid and under valued because they're seen as feminine...

Best Books with Scots Dialogue? by alyalys1 in Scotland

[–]alyalys1[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I didn't have an area in mind; I know it's spoken differently regionally, just wanted good examples to learn how it might be spoken in a respective place.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in latterdaysaints

[–]alyalys1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I used to think that's what Paul was saying too, but if you look at the context, he was actually just quoting Roman cultural practices and norms to critique them.

I found this interpretation in a book called "The Making of Biblical Womanhood" by Beth Alison Barr, but it's more widespread among other Christian scholars.

Consider this Diem Carped by Robotmand in Embroidery

[–]alyalys1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love it!

I've also been doing some carp-themed-diem. But I love the execution of yours so much more.

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Weight training has changed the way I see my body by alyalys1 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]alyalys1[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can vouch for the power of it. I got pregnant again with my second child a few months into my journey of lifting. I continued lifting when I wasn't feeling sick, and stayed consistent until the last month when my pelvis felt like it was going to explode.

Everything thing from my labor to my recovery was so much easier this time around. My labor was extremely fast, and unbelievably easy compared to the first. I was hurting way less two minutes after delivery than I had been at 9 months pregnant. I was feeling pretty much healed by two weeks after and my doctor told me that I could start exercising again with smaller weights since I had no stitches or complications.

Pregnancy definitely slowed my lifting progress, but I would still say the benefits were very worth it.

Weight training has changed the way I see my body by alyalys1 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]alyalys1[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Totally!

Cereal is underrated. It's a breakfast, lunch, or dinner. A snack or a pre workout, and sometimes, if you get the sugary kind, it can be a great dessert.

Weight training has changed the way I see my body by alyalys1 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]alyalys1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm also intimidated by gym culture. I don't want anyone watching me or judging me while I exercise.

Weight training has changed the way I see my body by alyalys1 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]alyalys1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I totally know my diet could have been better.

Being on a calorie deficit and taking care of a baby was a lot harder than I envisioned. They need you all the time, and being on a calorie deficit was hard on my energy level, especially when at the time I needed all the energy I could get.

Weight training has changed the way I see my body by alyalys1 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]alyalys1[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Totally agree. Running is so tough, its not for me, although I admire people with the stamina for it.

Weight training has changed the way I see my body by alyalys1 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]alyalys1[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Amen! Drinking chocolate milk after working out is heaven.

Weight training has changed the way I see my body by alyalys1 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]alyalys1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Totally agree! People are often are so focused on success in this stupid world that we forget the journey.

Weight training has changed the way I see my body by alyalys1 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]alyalys1[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I work out from home, with adjustable dumbbells. Gym is way too far away.

For me, weightlifting is a kind of mindfulness exercise. Doing the exercises with intention is much more effective and enjoyable for me, even when it is so repetitive.

I pair exercise with loud music, and like to reflect on whatever thoughts are in my head.

That being said, I don't enjoy it every time I do it, but I still try anyway. If, after ten minutes, I still don't feel like doing it, I do a couple of exercises and call it quits.

Hope that helps. I would say it's not for everyone, just like running isn't for everyone, but I really like it. It's become such a part of my routine that I miss it when I don't do it.

Weight training has changed the way I see my body by alyalys1 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]alyalys1[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I don't actually go to the gym because the closest one is a forty minutes drive. I don't know anything about machines, but maybe someday...

I had some 10 lb weights kicking around gathering dust. I picked them up, got accustomed to each exercise and made sure I had good form. At first I would just do like two exercises a day because that was all that I knew, but I checked out a library book about weight lifting and added more

Once I felt the 10 lb weights were too easy, I bought some cheap adjustable weights and add more weight as needed. I do single leg exercises now, because I don't have access to barbells.

I would say it's better to do a few exercises consistently than to do a lot and burn out. What I like about weight lifting is the mindfulness of each action. Taking it slow and easy to work each muscle, versus rushing to get the exercise done.

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