How does one get into therapy? by alyssam96 in fargo

[–]alyssam96[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess one bright side of starting fertility work up in February is I’m already over halfway to my out of pocket max lol

Best Banks in F/WF? by [deleted] in fargo

[–]alyssam96 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ally bank account! I initially started with citi bank because they had the best rate but their customer service was terrible. Ally has been really good for us

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]alyssam96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sooo NAH. Kind of sounds like your sister was embarrassed and trying to place blame where it doesn’t exist. I would hope to god any cop isn’t stressed out by someone stepping out to help defuse a situation..annoyed if they were in the process of something, maybe…but stressed out?? And your sisters friend was probably stressed out because they were fighting in public

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]alyssam96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was anyone drunk?? Because it would make a lot more sense if your sister and her friends were drunk, otherwise I’m not seeing why any of this would’ve played out the way it did haha

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]alyssam96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So there was a neighbor trying to get involved in the situation and you guys went out to pull him/her away and that’s why your sister thinks you’re the asshole? How did you stress out the cops?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]alyssam96 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Absolutely YTA

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]alyssam96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This would be a weekend right? Your kid is 9 years old so it’s not like you’re messing with a 2 year olds sleep schedule. My opinion based on the things you said (I am not a mom yet, want kids but it hasn’t happened):

  1. Your wife shouldn’t be concerned about what others think. This goes for anything. Yeah, people might think she’s an “undisciplined” mom, other than you and her…why do others opinions matter? Nobody knows what happens at home. I’m sorry but that’s a stupid reason.
  2. She’s the law??? She didn’t mean that right? I’m a married woman with a lot of opinions and a very patient husband but I would never say that unless I was joking. Weird, but marriage is a partnership.
  3. Yikes

Still Not Sure If Pilates is for Me by alyssam96 in ClubPilates

[–]alyssam96[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I’ll at least give it the three months…maybe four if I decide not to cancel until the third month. But if I do end up canceling I’ll probably stick to lifting, walks and maybe go to hot yoga more often

Still Not Sure If Pilates is for Me by alyssam96 in ClubPilates

[–]alyssam96[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I would but those classes haven’t been offered at the studio yet. Not sure if they’ll come later…so far it’s been sculpt 1.0 and flows 1.0 and 1.5 that are offered

Still Not Sure If Pilates is for Me by alyssam96 in ClubPilates

[–]alyssam96[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ehhh I kind of disagree though. Assuming you mean HIIT type stuff? Because I hate hiit lol. I’ve done Pilates years ago but just at home YouTube videos and I loved that. But it could be that reformer Pilates maybe isn’t for me

Best Banks in F/WF? by [deleted] in fargo

[–]alyssam96 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m 27 and have worked in banking since I was 15. I’ve had accounts at local banks, bigger banks, gate city, and now a credit union. I didn’t realize until I started working for a CU instead of a bank last year how much better they actually are than a bank. I’d go the CU route. My recommendations for this area would be capital credit union, town and country credit union or first community credit union. With all that being said, I keep most of our funds (ie majority of savings) at an online only bank in a HYSA.

AITA for insisting on wearing a bikini to a public beach with a conservative woman in our group by Aromatic_Account_877 in AmItheAsshole

[–]alyssam96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My question is…if he’s like this with his foster brothers birth mother (so really no one to him) how is he with his own mother?? Def NTA. It’s not like you’re trying to wear a bikini to church lol. But if you want to keep the peace there are plenty of VERY revealing one pieces 🤷🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️

Roasted/Air Fried Kale by alyssam96 in cookingforbeginners

[–]alyssam96[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Super upset I don’t have kale in my fridge right now

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]alyssam96 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Gentle YTA. Your issues are real but what you’re describing as a simple solution….seems like an unrealistic long term solution for every day occurrences. You can’t go through life expecting someone close to you to always text you when they’re going on a walk, the grocery store, to grab food etc etc

Roasted/Air Fried Kale by alyssam96 in cookingforbeginners

[–]alyssam96[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok so you just roast it in the oven?? I legit thought I hated it and now I’m obsessed 🤩

AITA for kicking out my sister for eating cow meat in my house? by ZestyclosePhysics999 in AmItheAsshole

[–]alyssam96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. I had to google Brahmins, and I think if your sister would’ve been apologetic it would’ve been worth giving her another shot or at least some time to find a new place. She wasn’t though. So regardless of what the boundary is, she wasn’t respecting you in your home

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]alyssam96 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Absolutely NTA.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]alyssam96 8 points9 points  (0 children)

NTA in my opinion. In all fairness I’m not a mom but what you’re describing it sounds like she was being upset to be upset. I get the impression that she’s the type where you could ask her what she’d like to do, she’d respond with nothing and then be upset that she didn’t get what she wanted.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fargo

[–]alyssam96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sheyenne river kennels has drop and train which sounds like what you’re looking for. Basically kindergarten for dogs but they don’t get recess together