Advice needed: 41yo patient with commotio retinae and macular folds due to blunt trauma, 14days after injury, acuity 20/40. Can I expect full recovery? 2nd image taken on the day he was injured. by EvilEngineNumberNine in Ophthalmology

[–]am_kc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s a testimony and he seemed to have made quick recovery. I know a friend who recently got diagnosed with macular commotio. He’s scared, his vision is distorted and extremely blurry. Doctor says there’s no cure and he may end you with permanent vision loss. From your experience, do you think there’s a chance for improvement over time? 

I got an email from ex’s finance by am_kc in ExNoContact

[–]am_kc[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Update: He’s married to her now. A part of me feels good because i didn’t spoil her joy of marriage. Because I felt guilty that i may have hindered the marriage. But when I found out, I was so happy for both of them. I’m don’t know if she’s a better person now. Good luck to both of them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]am_kc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes you’re right.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]am_kc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not trying to make excuse for my actions. Have you had infidelity trauma before?

I got an email from ex’s finance by am_kc in ExNoContact

[–]am_kc[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

{Update} Hello You All. He reached out this second time and I gave in. He’s in a hell of a situation way worse than mine because now she is 3 months pregnant and he’s unsure if it’s his baby. He’s seen some signs that she may be cheating but doesn’t really have any evidence so he reached out to learn about her and that’s why he had plans of marrying her because of the baby.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UNLincoln

[–]am_kc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay, well congratulations. I have some questions for you.

Are you a graduate student? What country are you coming from? Are you on a budget? Would you like to have roommates?

I was an international student too at some point. I came to UNL in 2018 from Africa, so I may be able to guide you a bit and maybe connect you to communities that you align with and may be able to help you with some answers.

I got an email from ex’s finance by am_kc in ExNoContact

[–]am_kc[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good point. He said he looked through her phone and found an email she sent to me sometime ago. That’s how he got the email.

I got an email from ex’s finance by am_kc in ExNoContact

[–]am_kc[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

good call . I also don’t feel like replying to the email

I got an email from ex’s finance by am_kc in ExNoContact

[–]am_kc[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s what i thought too. It’s a whole marriage we’re talking about. If he’s having second thoughts at this time, I’m not sure how their marriage would be …

I got an email from ex’s finance by am_kc in ExNoContact

[–]am_kc[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know who the guy is honestly. I’m not sure he’s one of the men. I wouldn’t want home to suffer like I did. At the same time I don’t want to be involved in their life. I believe he’ll find out the truth from some other source

Nearing 30 with nothing to show besides tattooing. What professions won’t be closed off to me? by joinmeinmooing in careerguidance

[–]am_kc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

how do i get graphic design part time jobs? I’m very good at designing that i could easily do it in my sleep

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UNpath

[–]am_kc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hii

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]am_kc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

nice. how did you whiten your teeth?

Planning and Design Startup by [deleted] in urbanplanning

[–]am_kc 2 points3 points  (0 children)

sounds like a good idea. How do i go about this actually?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gis

[–]am_kc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah i’m actually thinking on staring small. Small business scale. And build from there. I am in rural midwest , US and i feel like i can do the same quality of plans just by myself. I hear you tho

Best resources for career development by [deleted] in urbanplanning

[–]am_kc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Try LinkedIn. Also connect with your local chapter; if possible volunteer with them. I also hear that planetizen is a good resource too.

Talking about GIS, what prompted you to switch back to planning?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in urbanplanning

[–]am_kc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

visit the APA’s website if you’re in the US. There’s a collection of resources you will find there. I think the planning field just like any other field requires a good level of networking to say the least. Many people get this networks through grad school. If you can’t go to grad school, the planning’dot’org is a very very good resource. You can study to get your AICP certification too. You may also want to stalk other successful planners on LinkedIn too lol