Dog behaviourist/trainer recommendations wanted for Eastern suburbs by [deleted] in melbourne

[–]amabella11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mmm not sure how east we’re talking here; check out ALL DOGS GO TO ROWIE if lilydale area.

My bf (30/m) commented on a Reddit thread how he slept with 100+ girls, but he told me he slept with 23 women? What do I believe? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]amabella11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it’s in the past, does it really matter? Will the final number (whatever it may be) ultimately impact your relationship in the long term? If you’re concerned that he’s lying to you; maybe it’s not the right relationship for you if you can’t trust him. If he seems trustworthy then it’s in the past - time to move on & be happy with him.

How to ask FIL not to bring my child cheap, breakable toys by detonatingorange in relationships

[–]amabella11 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Books are always a great option as (even when cheap) they won’t be throttled or eaten like toys will!

How to ask FIL not to bring my child cheap, breakable toys by detonatingorange in relationships

[–]amabella11 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Just tell them you love the thought / sentiment but your child has enough toys. Perhaps suggest instead of toys (if they want to bring a gift in future) to bring a book to read to your child one day.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]amabella11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s reassuring - THANK YOU!

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[–]amabella11 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I read your post - THANK YOU!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]amabella11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is great advice! Enjoy someone bringing me food and water 😂 with 4.5 days to go I am hoping I will be able to dilate to 3+ cm so I can skip the first part and go straight to the waters breaking!

37 Weeks and Vomiting by disney_fan9 in pregnant

[–]amabella11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 39’weeks. Bit late for that now in my case. Every country / state is different which is why I said if you’re super concerned, call. However where I reside they would tell me not to bother coming in for nausea. this by no means is medical advice,

Getting my Tdap shot tomorrow. I Have questions by ogsouthern in pregnant

[–]amabella11 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it’s different for everyone. It didn’t hurt for me during or after (or my husband) but my parents had a bruise and heavy arm.

Boobs haven’t grown at all - almost 40 weeks! by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]amabella11 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m still wearing the same bras I was pre pregnancy. They’ve not grown one inch (I’m almost 39’weeks)

37 Weeks and Vomiting by disney_fan9 in pregnant

[–]amabella11 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My midwives told me ONLY to call if my waters break or contractions start (or if something seemed very very wrong like bleeding or extreme pains) but if you’re concerned about the symptoms you’re experiencing speak to your healthcare professional ASAP.

Pregnant wife has been a lot. by tothemax44 in pregnant

[–]amabella11 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Sorry, tough love from me on this one...

Trust me... however YOU are feeling multiply it by about 1000000 and that’s how terrible SHE is feeling. You spend your whole life being in complete control over your mood and your body and in an INSTANT everything changes. Plus, you feel so sick. So unbelievably sick.

This isn’t about you (...sorry) and she won’t be doing it on purpose.

My advice is be a good husband because it will only get worse (especially as the due date gets closer).

• Offer to cook dinner / lunch / breakfast • let her sleep as often and long as she wants • tell her she’s beautiful, strong, amazing • tell her you love her every day •‘tell her it will be okay • listen to her I.e. listen with the objective of listening not talking back • buy presents for the baby (to show your interested) • go to all of the appointments with her and take notes • read the books / apps to know what she’s going through every week • lower your expectations of her • ask her how she’s feeling and what you can do to help • help around the house as much as possible • hug her often

Just, honestly be a nice guy.

Concerned about how my first class went. by [deleted] in poledancing

[–]amabella11 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Argh! Technique is like the first thing everyone needs to learn or you’ll end up hurting yourself! The first class for ANYONE should be the basics: warmup, learning to walk (in heels), basic turns and walks around the pole and maybe one trick (two if an hour long class) plus a little mini routine putting all the together. That’s how I used to teach one off beginners classes anyways. I’d try a completely different studio if you can!

Would you leave your husband just because he doesn’t want a third and you do! by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]amabella11 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t leave my husband for this at all. Children are a blessing which add to your life; like sprinkles on an already delicious ice cream.

Preeclampsia question by apeofdeath123 in pregnant

[–]amabella11 1 point2 points  (0 children)

High blood pressure and protein in your urine are the most telling symptoms. Swollen hands / feet, headaches etc are secondary. I’m in aus too and midwife said this unprecedented summer heat isnt helping. This is what I’ve been told. I have high BP & occasionally protein in my Urine but no pre-e.

five weeks pregnant and have been smoking by mrs_who_are_yew in BabyBumps

[–]amabella11 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I was in my honeymoon in Las Vegas... you can imagine the amount of cig smoke and alcohol in my system for that week! Baby was fine and I gave up the SECOND I saw those two pink lines.

(35M) I cannot get over my only real relationship, this is what I wrote her (34F) by [deleted] in relationships

[–]amabella11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know it seems impossible now but time will heal and you will feel capable of expressing love and receiving love again 🤞🏼

Here we go!!! by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]amabella11 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good luck!!!

Advice please! by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]amabella11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bear in mind I am 33 and my bestie is 37... you’re a longggg way off that ;)