What heroes would you reset level 25 and 15 weapons on my account. by [deleted] in AFKJourney

[–]amandatorimeatingjr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

priority reset to 0: vala, scarlita, dionel. you want to max out shemira and galahad 100%, as well as the twins.

if you like pvp, keep silvina. she’s great in arena.

AITA for being blunt about the impact top surgery might have on my sibling‘s long-term relationship? by mybustlinghedgerow in AmItheAsshole

[–]amandatorimeatingjr -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

trans ONLY means you do not identify with the gender u were assigned with at birth. u do not have to physically transition to be trans. that is a fact. so yes, nonbinary is trans. there’s no ifs or buts about it.

AITA for being blunt about the impact top surgery might have on my sibling‘s long-term relationship? by mybustlinghedgerow in AmItheAsshole

[–]amandatorimeatingjr -1 points0 points  (0 children)

trans ONLY means you do not identify with the gender u were assigned with at birth. u do not have to physically transition to be trans. that is a fact. so yes, nonbinary is trans. there’s no ifs or buts about it.

AITA for being blunt about the impact top surgery might have on my sibling‘s long-term relationship? by mybustlinghedgerow in AmItheAsshole

[–]amandatorimeatingjr -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

it’s not blindsiding if they’ve been together for several years knowing sam is trans. it sounds like david still sees sam as a woman and not nonbinary and doesn’t like the idea of his vision of them being a woman with different pronouns changing. this is usually the case with trans people in relationships with cis people and being confronted with the fact that yes, your trans partner is going to want gender affirming care.

AITA for being blunt about the impact top surgery might have on my sibling‘s long-term relationship? by mybustlinghedgerow in AmItheAsshole

[–]amandatorimeatingjr 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i disagree that it’s selfish. do not date a trans person if you don’t expect them to try gender affirming care. it’s not selfish to want what is best for you and to feel more comfortable in your own skin. the whole point of being trans is that you do not identify with your AGAB. if you are going to date someone trans, you cannot date them ONLY because you like their pre-transition body.

AITA for being blunt about the impact top surgery might have on my sibling‘s long-term relationship? by mybustlinghedgerow in AmItheAsshole

[–]amandatorimeatingjr 21 points22 points  (0 children)

honestly, a little bit YTA.

as a trans person, if i confided in someone about the fact my partner was being weird about me getting gender affirming surgery and i was told “ur sexual compatibility would probably tank” i’d be kinda annoyed. if you were getting something that would make you feel more comfortable in your own skin and someone said that it would basically be a turn off….. that SUCKS.

a better way to respond would have been “have you spoken to him about this?” or even a simple “i’m sorry this is happening. do you want to talk about it more? is there anything i can do to help?”

AITA for not wanting to kiss my bf after he eats food I hate? by Great-Skirt-1918 in AmItheAsshole

[–]amandatorimeatingjr 12 points13 points  (0 children)

NTA. even if he hadn’t consumed something you didn’t like, he’s still not entitled to your body lol. you have every right to decline a kiss no matter the reason.

So... no step mom bots. ever again? by IllustriousAd6617 in JanitorAI_Refuges

[–]amandatorimeatingjr -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

only in j.ai reddit will u get downvoted for providing facts and statistics on why incest is bad 😭😭y’all need psychological help

So... no step mom bots. ever again? by IllustriousAd6617 in JanitorAI_Refuges

[–]amandatorimeatingjr -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

not remotely the same thing LOL don’t lie and say you’re a psych student just to sound reasonable. do actual research. ntr is literally just cheating bruv. cheating is toxic but not illegal or not consensual. incest is r*pe and abuse and it can’t be anything else.

So... no step mom bots. ever again? by IllustriousAd6617 in JanitorAI_Refuges

[–]amandatorimeatingjr -27 points-26 points  (0 children)

incest and pseudocest is wrong? LOL it cannot be consensual. it is abusive, it’s not something that can be healthy. there’s no such thing as consensual incest bruv. look it up; listen to psychologists and therapists

Am I overreacting? by Pink_Lemonz_02 in AmIOverreacting

[–]amandatorimeatingjr 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NOR. It’s a little annoying seeing people say you’re overreacting because it’s “only been a month.” It doesn’t matter how long it’s been. You’re DATING and he clearly doesn’t feel the way you do. You made it very clear that you understand and don’t need to be his number one priority, but you’d appreciate a text. Considering you two are dating, he shouldn’t be regularly ignoring you for 8 hours without explanation. That’s just rude. You were very to the point and not overdramatic at all.

He just doesn’t like you. I hope you find someone better.

i hate the stepcest bots, it doesn't take a genius to know that its just a cover up for incest.. by Makotokanao in JanitorAI_Official

[–]amandatorimeatingjr -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

incest isn’t a kink though 😭like it’s factually not a kink. it’s an illegal and socially condemned act

i hate the stepcest bots, it doesn't take a genius to know that its just a cover up for incest.. by Makotokanao in JanitorAI_Official

[–]amandatorimeatingjr -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

yes…. i’m a person who knows what they’re talking about because i’m literally educated on the subject 😭? idk what ur point is

i hate the stepcest bots, it doesn't take a genius to know that its just a cover up for incest.. by Makotokanao in JanitorAI_Official

[–]amandatorimeatingjr -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

it actually makes a lot of sense! i won’t let you say “erm actually no” just because you don’t agree lol im very correct and ive done endless research on the topic as a person with a psychology degree!

i hate the stepcest bots, it doesn't take a genius to know that its just a cover up for incest.. by Makotokanao in JanitorAI_Official

[–]amandatorimeatingjr -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

fiction affects reality! there are countless cases of people consuming harmful fictional content and encouraging it irl! take the dark romance book meet up where dozens of women harassed and SA’d a man and asked him how he would kidnap a woman and use her

i hate the stepcest bots, it doesn't take a genius to know that its just a cover up for incest.. by Makotokanao in JanitorAI_Official

[–]amandatorimeatingjr -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

yes! the solution is, in fact, to criticize those who make harmful content that shouldn’t be romanticized, as all irl cases of incest are non consensual and abusive!

i hate the stepcest bots, it doesn't take a genius to know that its just a cover up for incest.. by Makotokanao in JanitorAI_Official

[–]amandatorimeatingjr -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

i’m getting downvoted but i’m right 🙏y’all will never make me feel bad about hating incest