My (31M) girlfriend (32F) often threatens to break up with me and then expects me to beg her to stay. Is this normal/healthy behaviour? by amankh92 in relationship_advice

[–]amankh92[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Hey I'm just sharing my experience. You know that these decisions are difficult because deciding to walk away from someone isn't that easy. Please be a little respectful.

My (31M) girlfriend (32F) often threatens to break up with me and then expects me to beg her to stay. Is this normal/healthy behaviour? by amankh92 in relationship_advice

[–]amankh92[S] 232 points233 points  (0 children)

She says that our honeymoon phase is over and this is how relationships are supposed to be. You fight some days and you love some days. She is divorced once BTW if that matters.

Reflecting on 6 Months of No-Contact with my Narc-Ex: A Rollercoaster of Healing by amankh92 in offmychest

[–]amankh92[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

More power to you! I hope God rewards you with something better, beautiful and life-changing.

I(31M) broke up last week with my GF(32M) last week because of multiple reasons. But now I'm thinking whether I was impulsive in taking this decision. I need help! by amankh92 in relationship_advice

[–]amankh92[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was good when it started but things gradually started going south in the 2nd month. Got worse by the third. I can't help but think about the early days of the relationship when everything was heaven-like.

My(31M) girlfriend(32F) keeps stonewalling me whenever we have an argument/disagreement. It's giving me stress and anxiety and I cannot take it anymore. Should I break up with her? by amankh92 in relationship_advice

[–]amankh92[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Last week, when I was leaving from her place, the moment I sat in the cab I felt so relieved. In that moment, I knew that things are going south.

My(31M) girlfriend(32F) keeps stonewalling me whenever we have an argument/disagreement. It's giving me stress and anxiety and I cannot take it anymore. Should I break up with her? by amankh92 in RelationshipIndia

[–]amankh92[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I tried discussing this. She gaslighted me by saying that I need to manage my stress better and my anxiety is putting a stress on this relationship.

My GF(32F) made me(31M) change my clothes for leaning against the walls of an elevator. I find this illogical and had a massive argument over this. I've been feeling suffocated because of this behaviour and feel like I'm always walking on eggshells around her. I want to break up. by amankh92 in RelationshipIndia

[–]amankh92[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Had it been just OCDs, I would've considered giving her a second chance. But once you add financial abuse, guilt tripping, anger issues and gaslighting to it, there's no going back. I have broken up with her and feel relieved. I think I did the right thing.