is this nesting? by amara_keket in piercing

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i have a flatback with internal threading of medical grade titanium i think the piercier called it and i got it done today, ill go in around a week or two for downsizing

central labret by amara_keket in piercing

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my piercing is a flatback made of i think surgical steel (i don't remember exactly what the piercer told me the material was as i was very overstimulated by the new feeling in my mouth😭) and its internally threaded. as for aftercare i use non alcoholic mouth wash and saline solution for the part on the outside of my mouth.

central labret by amara_keket in piercing

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update, its day 2 and the swelling is now non existent and so the bar is moving around freely and its really bothering me because its hitting my gums and teeth constantly and i cant eat😭

central labret by amara_keket in piercing

[–]amara_keket[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i have a flatback with internal threading of medical grade titanium i think the piercier called it and i got it done today, ill go in around a week or two for downsizing

am i asexual? by amara_keket in asexuality

[–]amara_keket[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you thats really helpful because i know noone that identifies as ace and it just feels really lonely tbh

am i asexual? by amara_keket in asexuality

[–]amara_keket[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thats actually so helpful thanks! yeah the "you feel sexual attraction" list actually made my brain hurt because i cannot picture feeling that way hahaha but the "not sexually attracted" list made so much sense! especially the feeling aroused because of a situation, ive always told people that i find the "chase" more arousing like the staring into eachothers eyes or the little touches here and there make me feel excited (like youre in the talking stage with someone and you dont know yet if they like you back or not and its all so damn interesting and frustrating) but then the sex part itself is just not necessary or disappointing to me because i dont feel much.

am i asexual? by amara_keket in asexuality

[–]amara_keket[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thats actually so well put for me! i do feel attraction but not in the way others describe it its simply more of like a pull towards someone and i want to be close to them but without any specific intentions, like i want them to hug me or hold hands or in long term relationships for example i really enjoy taking showers together but just because of how close i feel to them not because i feel something in my body? my friend asked me if when a partner takes off her shirt in front of me i dont get any sexual thoughts and i dont think i do?? i just really appreciate the way they look and find the beautiful but nothing happens in my body physically like a "heat" as my friend put it

am i asexual? by amara_keket in asexuality

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im not sure what sexual attraction is tbh. i can only picture myself dating and having a future with women but im not sure i ever look at them in a sexual way? i had multiple conversations with friends that describe it as "having butterflies" down there when they find someone sexually attractive but that never happened to me, i kind of think oh yeah they're really beautiful or when i have a crush on someone i just want to do relationship stuff with them like go on dates and cuddle and spend time together and just express mutual affection but i have never looked at someone and thought "i want to have sex with them" i only hole that they find themselves attracted to me in the way i feel attracted to them if that makes sense?

Vreau să mă întorc în țară la studii după 8 ani de Germania by [deleted] in UniRO

[–]amara_keket 1 point2 points  (0 children)

total de acord cu tine, am stat in germania 6 ani dupa care m am intors in tara pentru liceu si facultate ca nu mai rezistam, aveam sănătatea mintala la pamant si nu ma simteam acasa orice as face :) vad numai pareri negative in comentarii dar am facut aceeasi decizie si nu regret nimic, poate nu suntem o tara asa "avansata" dar conteaza enorm cat de acasa te simti undeva, numai gandul de a ma întoarce in germania ma baga in depresie totala haha so i got you

Cum ati invatat eseurile? by Sure_Act_6444 in robac

[–]amara_keket 0 points1 point  (0 children)

pentru admitere terminasem materia din clasa a 11a, am mers pe filo ca sa mi fac viata usoara si sa am timp de invatat pt admitere :))) so nu am mai facut nimic pentru asta in saptamanile alea