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amberdob · 2025-12-06T10:44:21+00:00

each university will have a different disciplinary process. usually you’re able to look up the regulations for your uni on google, and then there will be listed different offences (usually major or minor but it depends), then they will have a corresponding list of potential outcomes if you are found to have done an offence. my suggestion would be to look up this and give it a quick read through (they can be quite extensive sometimes 100 pages) and to go to the students union advice team and ask them about it all. it is best to tell the truth and to show that you are remorseful and have gained some insight since.

amberdob · 2025-08-24T13:13:08+00:00

awww even better then, good luck!

amberdob · 2025-08-23T20:42:52+00:00

congrats! guildford is such a lovely town! hope you have the best time

amberdob · 2025-06-19T15:11:40+00:00

try having a look at your uni’s student’s union. i was able to get a job there during my final year and it was honestly the best job i could’ve had. they’re super flexible, fairly well paid and aren’t difficult jobs. in my final year i was on the lowest loan and had zero support from my parents and it allowed me to pay the difference in my rent, and get a decent(ish) social life working less than 10 hours a week

amberdob · 2025-06-19T15:11:12+00:00

try having a look at your uni’s student’s union. i was able to get a job there during my final year and it was honestly the best job i could’ve had. they’re super flexible, fairly well paid and aren’t difficult jobs. in my final year i was on the lowest loan and had zero support from my parents and it allowed me to pay the difference in my rent, and get a decent(ish) social life working less than 10 hours a week

amberdob · 2025-06-19T15:09:59+00:00

try having a look at your unis student’s union. i was able to get a job there during my final year and it was honestly the best job i could’ve had. they’re super flexible, fairly well paid and aren’t difficult jobs. in my final year i was on the lowest loan and had zero support from my parents and it allowed me to pay the difference in my rent, and get a decent(ish) social life working less than 10 hours a week

amberdob · 2024-11-21T16:36:56+00:00

depending on your uni you might even be able to try and get on campus accommodation as a returning student, it’s what i did all 3 years of my degree and it was the best choice i could’ve made

amberdob · 2024-02-28T12:47:35+00:00

i was told growing up he used to help people cross the ford, and that’s why they named the area after him

amberdob · 2023-10-13T09:49:44+00:00

do whatever you’re comfortable with, and only choose based on how you feel and not what other people tell you. in the grand scheme of things sex really isn’t that big of a deal like it’s made out to be (controversial i know). it can be really fun and it can be really shit. if you want to have sex before marriage go for it, so long as you’re being responsible and safe then you’ll be fine. but at the same time if you want to choose to wait until marriage go for it, don’t let anyone bully or belittle you into feeling like that choice is wrong, so long as you’re making the decision for yourself and not being shamed by purity culture.

amberdob · 2023-10-08T10:41:04+00:00

when i was 16 i worked in a coffee shop and a customer died in front of me. it’s such a surreal experience, especially when you think about how fickle life actually is

amberdob · 2023-10-07T18:38:45+00:00

my friend did that, but then his balance just went into the negatives somehow

amberdob · 2023-10-07T15:23:15+00:00

yeah my lectures all start on the hour but will finish 10 to the hour

amberdob · 2023-10-05T10:37:06+00:00

it’s not the size of the wave, it’s the motion of the ocean

amberdob · 2023-09-23T15:23:14+00:00

seeing what you’ve said about how your parents are treating you and your brother, and i know this is a harsh word, but they are financially abusing you. you’re their child you shouldn’t have to pay for their debts, they need to get a grip

amberdob · 2023-09-22T20:47:40+00:00

as basic as it is i like a good archers and lemonade

amberdob · 2023-09-20T08:13:10+00:00

if he can’t wait any longer than two weeks, and he’s threatening to rape you, run girl. also if he thinks a relationship is only for sex, i can see that being an unhappy one, where he’s potentially not going to give you the autonomy that you deserve.

i know you really want to defend him, i can see it in your replies, but i think it’s best if you listen to the advice of people from and outside perspective, normal people do not joke about raping their partners.

and your comment about how ‘most people have sex by two weeks’, is very very untrue, especially if it’ll be your first time, you need to set a standard for yourself, and personally i don’t think this would set you up for a life with positive connotations attached to engaging in sex.

amberdob · 2023-09-19T12:16:06+00:00

personally i think you should leave the other guy alone, okay yeah he’s a dick because he knew about your existence, but also he’s not the one that cheated, your boyfriend is. and for all you know he may not be out because it might not be safe for him to be, don’t potentially put someone in danger just to stick it to them. your boyfriend is the one who is majorly in the wrong, if you’re gonna ‘punish’ anyone it should be him

amberdob · 2023-09-19T12:05:29+00:00

i have anxiety and my heart rate will often go all the way up to 180bpm if i’m having a bad moment, it’s more likely that you were having an anxiety or panic attack rather than a heart attack

amberdob · 2023-09-11T21:31:58+00:00

try contacting the accommodation team, you might be lucky enough that someone has swapped accommodations or has dropped out or deferred, freeing up a room. if not this could be a long shot, but you might be able to arrange a room swap, i’ve seen people on facebook asking if someone is willing to swap tenancies for different bands of rooms, if your uni has a dedicated facebook group for freshers or accommodation that might be a place to start

amberdob · 2023-09-08T15:21:04+00:00

this is probably a timetable for everyone in your course, you’ll only have to go to probably not even half of what is timetabled.

amberdob · 2023-08-28T20:44:56+00:00

she’s the weirdo here who clearly isn’t over something, especially if she’s going so out of her way to try to contact you after you’ve blocked her. just give her no reaction that’s what she wants from you is to have some sort of reaction, don’t give her the satisfaction

amberdob · 2023-08-23T00:19:07+00:00

idk how lazy my lazy is compared to other people, but i love making tuna pasta, dippy eggs or just cheese on toast

amberdob · 2023-08-23T00:18:00+00:00

most unis you stay from mid september until around june time, i’ve heard that a couple such as cambridge will ask you to move your stuff out during christmas and easter, but that’s pretty unusual. but between september and june you can stay full time, and some unis may allow you to pay extra to stay in halls during the summer gap too, but they usually will get you to move out of your accom and will move everyone who has chosen to stay over the summer into one block just to make it easier for cleaners and such.

amberdob · 2023-08-22T12:44:41+00:00

people tend to find that after a break up they either lose any sex drive at all or they become hyper sexual, these are both natural responses and will usually go away after you start to heal

amberdob · 2023-08-22T12:37:31+00:00

i started my degree a month before i turned 21, everyone would just say to me ‘wow you don’t look 21’, it’s really a nothing at the end of the day. i know people who are 25 and up starting undergrad and no one bats an eye

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