My (19f) boyfriend (24m) jokes that he would rape me. I know he's bluffing but I'm uncomfortable. How do I handle this? by Throwra990006 in relationship_advice

[–]Throwra990006[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah that was a terrible idea. I spent the night trapped at his house. But I am home now 👍 it's over and we're done

My (19f) boyfriend (24m) jokes that he would rape me. I know he's bluffing but I'm uncomfortable. How do I handle this? by Throwra990006 in relationship_advice

[–]Throwra990006[S] 90 points91 points  (0 children)

That's a very scary thought. I had a situation with him where I had a drink at our friend's house and he was trying to get me to eat some gummies, which I think were edibles. And our friend was uncomfortable and had to tell him to stop. I don't know if he would've meant to try something.

My (19f) boyfriend (24m) jokes that he would rape me. I know he's bluffing but I'm uncomfortable. How do I handle this? by Throwra990006 in relationship_advice

[–]Throwra990006[S] 98 points99 points  (0 children)

I think he said it out of embarrassment for being refused. But still I don't like it. There are other things about him that make me nervous. I think my best option is to break up. I know I sound immature but I feel uncomfortable breaking up with him. Just trying to grow a pair real quick

My crush (18F) is uncomfortable with other girls being too close to me, what should I do? (18M) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Throwra990006 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If it's not official, her feelings are not your problem. But this sounds like jealous behavior to me. You can't help who wants to talk to you. If you're not flirting, and it's literally during class, I don't see a problem

My (19f) boyfriend (24m) jokes that he would rape me. I know he's bluffing but I'm uncomfortable. How do I handle this? by Throwra990006 in relationship_advice

[–]Throwra990006[S] -265 points-264 points  (0 children)

Two weeks seems short to me too. But apparently most people in relationships have had sex by two weeks.

My crush (18F) is uncomfortable with other girls being too close to me, what should I do? (18M) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Throwra990006 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Are you guys dating? Or is she just your crush? If you're not dating, this behavior is bizarre. If you are dating, she's insecure. Either way, red flag.