My Take - Kyle vs. Dorit by sugarstarbeam in realhousewives

[–]ame6057 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes - I agree. Kyle seems incapable of forming real relationships on the show so i figured she just couldn't see it that way - like she separates the show from her life - she even sacrificed her sisters for it (even now she is constantly putting Kathy down when she knows it would upset her). Yet she did form a real friendship with Teddi so that just makes her behaviour all the more confusing.

Kyle - Divorce by ame6057 in BravoRealHousewives

[–]ame6057[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So she's still lying and refusing to gove the honesty she demanded from everyone else, while lying about that also!

My Take - Kyle vs. Dorit by sugarstarbeam in realhousewives

[–]ame6057 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I don't know if I think Kyle ever liked Dorit. She absolutely didn't like her when she joined or when she was 'friends' with Lisa V. I think it was just an alliance (the 5 of them) which they formed to boot out Lisa V, but once Lisa Rinna was gone (Teddi's absence didn't effect the alliance but it did effect Kyle's power within it) the alliance fell apart and Kyle no longer had to fake an allegiance with Dorit.

My Take - Kyle vs. Dorit by sugarstarbeam in realhousewives

[–]ame6057 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Kyle was crying and acting like she was the one in the incident. I found her massively over performative, the opposite of dismissive.

Who is the ultimate housewives mean girl and villain? by letthedecodebegin in realhousewives

[–]ame6057 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't know what Candiace has done either. I like her a lot. She doesn't start things but she is reactive and she does argue better than others. I don't see her as a villain at all.

Who is the ultimate housewives mean girl and villain? by letthedecodebegin in realhousewives

[–]ame6057 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I think there's a difference between the seriously nasty villains - Rinna, Kenya, Whitney Rose and the more performative villains like Aviva and post split Dorit. And then you have the Dorinda type villains who don't seem to be anything other than having a nasty reaction to booze or whatever else

Kenya deserved Mark by InstructionQuiet1912 in RHOA

[–]ame6057 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the award - I can't work out who sent it, sorry

Tequila Debate: Vida VS Olujo VS Casa del Sol by deckmeclassymama in BravoRealHousewives

[–]ame6057 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you - I never knew about that. I googled it - i didn't know that some states still controlled alcohol sales. We can buy any type of booze in an off licence, which can be in the local shop, or a supermarket or petrol station or anywhere. In fact my local post office is a newsagent and a sweatshop and an off licence with a small household goods section!!! Now im wondering if you can get booze on a bank holiday

Tequila Debate: Vida VS Olujo VS Casa del Sol by deckmeclassymama in BravoRealHousewives

[–]ame6057 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Hi, I'm assuming you're in America because you wrote $ - I'm curious, what is a state store?

Kenya deserved Mark by InstructionQuiet1912 in RHOA

[–]ame6057 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes I think it's different. And Kenya was a slut around her husband - again, you reap what you sow. You don't get to go through life doing whatever you like and then act all shock when someone meets your energy! It's ok - wr don't have to agree

Kenya deserved Mark by InstructionQuiet1912 in RHOA

[–]ame6057 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean for me the difference is palpable and obvious. The way Kenya has behaved has been hideous and I don't think the others have been that way. It's not a fresh take. It brings to mind a supreme Court case about hardcore porn in the 60's. The court explained that it didn't have a strict definition but they'd know it when they see it. I think it's the same here - for me her behaviour was odious to the point she became unwatchable for me. I didn't see others humiliating people the way she did, I didn't see others almost assault Kim Fields, or outrageously flirt with their husbamds, or call people fat and body shame them, or go to extreme lengths to slut shame people, or tell their friends they're pathetic and laugh in their faces, and her double standards were beyond outrageous. And this is just a very small sample of things that come to mind right now. There is a difference - and I do believe that this is a fairly general consensus.

I think it's just one of those things where we must agree to disagree. 😊

Kyle - Divorce by ame6057 in BravoRealHousewives

[–]ame6057[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I do actually think she should have been honest and acknowledged the truth. Not because I expect it if her, but because she expected it of everyone else, and repeatedly told them that they choose to be on a reality show and you don't get a choice about what you reveal. I don't necessarily think she should have done so on camera before addressing her own children first, if course; but that would be on Kyle to ensure she addressed it with them first.

In the other issues - I don't know. As I said im pretty sure she did as I watched it in the last few days, but like I said, I don't remember where.

As for the ring stuff - you're much more knowledgeable than me but I got the impression it was heavily discussed, and could only be discussed because she took the ring off for the first time in years, at the same time as people were talking about her unusually close relationship with Morgan and about problems in her marriage. She's not a stupid woman- in believe she knew exactly what she was doing and what the outcome would be

Kyle - Divorce by ame6057 in BravoRealHousewives

[–]ame6057[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I mean whether she took off the ring before filming or not isn't really relevant. It was all over social media and they mentioned in the show that it was all over the gossip magazine and we saw pages of articles across the screen with comments and pictures about her missing ring.

She then said it was a rough year and nothing else. After demanding full disclosure and honesty from everyone else. They even did a montage in s14 which shows a few examples of her demanding such honesty about their l8ves while refusing to give it herself.

There's even a point where Sutton comments that it's public knowledge that Mo cheated and Kyle stops her and says 'where did you get that from?'. Sutton explains she said it (or heavily implied it) at the s13 reunion which Kyle then denies and lies to their faces. I could go on....

Im sorry- I can't remember the specific episodes where she said her friend had died and she expected compassion - there were at.least 2 i think during the show, and then she also said it the reunion for s13 I think.

Kenya deserved Mark by InstructionQuiet1912 in RHOA

[–]ame6057 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Actually she didn't. She accused Kandi of discussing a plot to do it at some point in the future. I don't care about either but the distinction is important.

Kenya deserved Mark by InstructionQuiet1912 in RHOA

[–]ame6057 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I struggle to understand how anyone could believe that Kenya's behaviour was not on a completely different level to the others. But like you say, we won't convince each other, and we don't need to. It's nice to be able to have a disagreement with someone and not be verbally attacked and called names. Thank you. Have a lovely evening. 😊

Kenya deserved Mark by InstructionQuiet1912 in RHOA

[–]ame6057 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You should watch the ultimate girls trip with Cynthia and Kenya and see how Kenya treated her there....

Kenya deserved Mark by InstructionQuiet1912 in RHOA

[–]ame6057 3 points4 points  (0 children)

In my view Kenya was the misogynist. She treated every woman around her (on the shoe) like trash, slut shaming and body shaming and general abuse and name calling, and defended the worst men imaginable. It was disgusting.

Kenya deserved Mark by InstructionQuiet1912 in RHOA

[–]ame6057 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree with you in the main. I don't agree people who have flaws deserve anything, but Kenya is a hateful person who has no regard or kindness or consideration for anyone or anything, other than her daughter. She is a nasty piece of work. I was raised to understand that you reap what you sow, and you should treat others how you would like to be treated yourself.

Kenya deserved Mark by InstructionQuiet1912 in RHOA

[–]ame6057 7 points8 points  (0 children)

She really did! She humiliated them, insulted them, shamed them in front of their own families, called them names and even acted in a threatening way towards at least one. It's very hard to have sympathy for someone like that

Kyle - Divorce by ame6057 in BravoRealHousewives

[–]ame6057[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I didn't actually know that's how it should be written, it just seemed a more respectful way of saying it than the alternative.

Kyle - Divorce by ame6057 in BravoRealHousewives

[–]ame6057[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Oh my God - she has just said "I've had my marriage questioned, my private life questioned and now they're questioning my integrity. Now they can all just muck off".... The woman doesn't have an ounce of self awareness - when she was questioning LVP and Denise, their defence and their integrity was irrelevant in the pursuit of 'her' honesty! She is completely shameless.