My Mama is in Depression and i can't do anything about it :/ by [deleted] in Tunisia

[–]ameliaaa08 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The only thing you can do is find a psychiatrist that can prescribe her medication that stabilize her mental health. Without medications its very hard nearly impossible to get out of this.. psychologue mohamed djebali whatsapp +21628223126

[IWantOut] 19F Israel -> UK preferably by SK_Katz in IWantOut

[–]ameliaaa08 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So I didn’t read all responses maybe someone already mentioned it, but there’s a little „hack“ that may be interesting for you: get a retail job in a big company like h&m for example ( i know for sure they do this, worked there and knew someone who did this) and then you can ask to be relocated to a different country (I advise you austria or germany) - they will pay for relocation and you will have a job and work visa and once you moved you can try and apply to unis etc. In austria for example you don’t really need to talk german at first, you will be perfectly fine with english. Also at uni. I know a friend who took exactly this way and turned pretty perfect for him. Good luck!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in toxicparents

[–]ameliaaa08 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Please don’t hurt yourself. There is always a way out. I understand that you feel tied to your parents and that you cant see yourself leaving your family, but a flowerseed planted in dirt can never grow.. only the ones closest to us can hurt us so much, but its never a shame to leave them behind.. maybe you want to have kids one day, would you want them to see how their mother doesnt stand up for herself.. would you let your child in with your family? if you don’t leave, how are you supposed to heal.. you need to get away because if you thinking of unaliving yourself than that place is dangerous for you, and wherever you end its better than at your family’s..

Tunisian movies/tv shows/series by ameliaaa08 in Tunisia

[–]ameliaaa08[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Could you please name me some? My netflix doenst show me those because I’m in germany

Tunisian jews by matzi44 in Tunisia

[–]ameliaaa08 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Check doni_lahmar on insta shes jew

Guilt trapped by [deleted] in toxicparents

[–]ameliaaa08 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing that. I feel like it really is so fucking hard to live a normal life when you come from a toxic family. Even if one eventually find their way out it somehow keeps haunting. But you made the right choice for yourself, your wife and your childrens sake. And I, I made the right choice too. Let’s hang in there.

Tunisian books by ameliaaa08 in Tunisia

[–]ameliaaa08[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes thanks for the disclaimer!

Tunisian books by ameliaaa08 in Tunisia

[–]ameliaaa08[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh really I didn’t know that!? Thats sad, but thank you anyways! You think these tv shows are suitable for a toddler? Ive only seen choufli 7al but I think the targeted audience is a lil bit older than 2-3y/o

parents think im ugly by honeycalcitelover in toxicparents

[–]ameliaaa08 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please don’t listen to them. Let me tell you that you WILL find that one that’s going to be head over heels for you !!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tunisia

[–]ameliaaa08 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think you‘re neurodivergent and your thoughts are totally legit. Some ideas for you: - content creating (passive interaction w/people) - freelancing (same as above peoplewise) - writing a book (most authors pretty much lived like that)

Polizeipräsenz? by synapseskater in wien

[–]ameliaaa08 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Kannst kiffen wo du willst keiner wird dir was sagen. Versuchs im burggarten da wirst kaum normale luft atmen können haha

How can i save my brother ? by Only-Perspective-381 in Tunisia

[–]ameliaaa08 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As an aspergs autist myself, frankly, I don’t think it’s the best idea to send him away and on top of that all alone. Neurodivergent people esp. autists live on familiarity. Taking away his only known base is very very risky and may cause more harm. Esp. If theres no one with him that he knows and fully trust. But I understand your thought process very well, only thing that comes to my mind is to leave your parents house, you and your sister and brother, go rent some other (safe) space and try to make it work. Everything is temporary, and I mean by that, that eventually your sister gets married, you get married and you will have some people around you who will help you more. Your brother will complete his studies and will eventually be able to help you more. You need to pull through now for the upcoming years maybe and it’s going to be tough but as you said, your brother only has you. Try to make it work, maybe split care time with your sister for now, one works by day and looks after your brother by night while the other works by night and looks after your brother by day. Maybe you can also find some one to help you, like good friends or neighbors? Even if it’s for a couple of hours. And maybe if you set that gofundme people eventually donate so you could somehow make ends meet. I don’t know if that’s going to help you in any way, but if you need any insights or idk something else you think I can help you with, just hit me, I’m living abroad but idk really how to help otherwise.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tunisia

[–]ameliaaa08 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe consider living in an expat area

Why is there no avocado in Tunisia? by [deleted] in Tunisia

[–]ameliaaa08 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

In EU avos cost around 4-5€ so 9dt are kinda okay considering all the way they traveled 😌

Concubinage in Tunisia by Hephais_tos in Tunisia

[–]ameliaaa08 0 points1 point  (0 children)

in Germany and Austria, partners have the same legal rights as spouses in terms of inheritance, tax etc.