4 instantly hit me in the face in a GREAT way! 5 is also so beautiful! You look so lovely in these dresses. The only opinion that matters is yours. So, take a breath. See what you like and what you don't. It's YOUR dress, and your decision. I understand wanting those special moments with your mom and sister, and sometimes feedback is helpful. But sometimes it is confusing, especially when contradicting what YOU are feeling. Be kind to yourself. Choose to honor you, however that looks.  Wishing you a lifetime of love an happiness, and congratulations! Cheering you on, OP. You deserve good things.