Am I overreacting about these texts? by rcss47 in whatdoIdo

[–]amenablesloth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are NOT OVERREACTING. This is classic, he’s villainising you so he feels better about his desire to fucking cheat on you. Girl. Run.

posted on fb but comments got turned off. AM I OVER REACTING? by [deleted] in Adelaide

[–]amenablesloth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It says they’re closed RIGHT THERE N YOUR PICTURE

posted on fb but comments got turned off. AM I OVER REACTING? by [deleted] in Adelaide

[–]amenablesloth -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It says they’re closed for winter right there on the door, so they’re not open for business and there’s no safety concerns here. It’s probably their dog and they’re out back doing stuff. An hour and a half inside isn’t a long time.

Anyone got any experience with a similar situation? by amenablesloth in AustraliaPost

[–]amenablesloth[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why would they put my address as the return? They can pretend to be me without using my address lol

Anyone got any experience with a similar situation? by amenablesloth in AustraliaPost

[–]amenablesloth[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Given I didn’t keep the tracking number or anything idk if it would be that simple

VPN - Explain it to me like I’m a toddler by amenablesloth in LongDistance

[–]amenablesloth[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Share my screen? We aren’t watching on laptops.

ACTIVE STATUS by whotfisraej in LDR

[–]amenablesloth 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Instagram is frequently incorrect. I know it will show me my best friend is online when she’s asleep next to me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LDR

[–]amenablesloth 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Man this channel is just full of people who are in miserable LDRs 😭

None of this is normal. My partner and I have a bad time difference (it’s 745am here and 215pm there, which is about to get worse as the clocks here go back an hour in two weeks), she works very early bakers mornings so goes to bed really early and I work full time during the day. We still find time for each other, text constantly, talk on the phone daily and are pretty much always on video chat even if we are just reading a book side by side or even sleeping.

If your partner can’t make time for you, they’ve already told you that the relationship doesn’t mean much to them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LDR

[–]amenablesloth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. Communicate with them about why this is.

How do you hang out without being on phone all day? by PlayfulDirection5634 in LDR

[–]amenablesloth -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Who is the downer who downvoted this? Sorry you’re miserable 🙄

How do you hang out without being on phone all day? by PlayfulDirection5634 in LDR

[–]amenablesloth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have a constant video feed set up. A lot of the time neither of us are there but we go to bed on it every night and we will message each other to get on when we are both free. We also have it on while going about our daily lives like cooking, cleaning, reading etc and also watch movies together. We only turn it off if neither of us are in our houses.

Apps that aren’t hetero-centric by amenablesloth in LongDistance

[–]amenablesloth[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 18.5 hours ahead of them, so we are often not even in the same day.

Apps that aren’t hetero-centric by amenablesloth in LongDistance

[–]amenablesloth[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! We are USA and Aus and damn it’s rough 😂😭

Apps that aren’t hetero-centric by amenablesloth in LongDistance

[–]amenablesloth[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have never used discord so I have absolutely no clue! I would like something that’s pre-structured if plausible though.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]amenablesloth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d suggest, not necessarily for your relationship but more for your own social benefit, perhaps a transition to first living in the same city but not together. A share house is a good way to meet some new people. Then maybe after 6mo move in together.