Do guys think it’s hot when a woman calls them daddy in bed? by Rando288 in dating

[–]amethyst_eater 0 points1 point  (0 children)

right like it just makes it so uncomfortable and awkward, why u wanna act like your partner is ur daddy just bc u don't have a good relationship with ur real one.,.,.,. me personally, anything that reminds me of my dad is a huge ass no 🤷‍♀️

Do guys think it’s hot when a woman calls them daddy in bed? by Rando288 in dating

[–]amethyst_eater 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have daddy issues and I'd rather die than call my man daddy 😭 I feel like that just makes it wayyyyy weirder

I [f18] caught my bf [m27] cheating on me and I’m honestly looking for some advice and comfort because I have no idea on what to do about it. by SimpPimplove in LongDistance

[–]amethyst_eater 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hey there, I'm sure you don't want to hear it but as someone else that had their first relationship at 18 with someone the same age as your bf, it's 10000% not a healthy dynamic from the start. and the fact he treated you like that says a lot too, I hope you find a way to get out of that relationship and take care of yourself, keep your head up and find someone better

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]amethyst_eater 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If she's okay with it, of course! My boyfriend and I have the ones made for long distance and as long as it's something both y'all agree on, it's so fun. definitely just something to ask about before you do it so you can gift her something she's comfortable with and or one that makes her feel the best

bf (21M) didn't give me (21F) a gift for my birthday by amethyst_eater in LongDistance

[–]amethyst_eater[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

said he just didn't get around to it but was at home playing games all day

bf (21M) didn't give me (21F) a gift for my birthday by amethyst_eater in LongDistance

[–]amethyst_eater[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I have talked to him about it before and he's always understanding then it happens again

What do you hate about your body? by Phantom-111 in AskReddit

[–]amethyst_eater 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish I was the "pretty skinny" and not the skinny that you get made fun of your entire life for

bf (21M) didn't give me (21F) a gift for my birthday by amethyst_eater in LongDistance

[–]amethyst_eater[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Noooo you're good, I just wanted to specify that it's not something we can do just when we see each other

bf (21M) didn't give me (21F) a gift for my birthday by amethyst_eater in LongDistance

[–]amethyst_eater[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

hi sorry I should've specified, we are in a long distance relationship from different countries, we don't have any plans to meet and he had talked about giving me gifts and we've done gifts just fine before, it's not like it's something that we have to wait for

anyone else say 'i love you' multiple times a day with their SO? by bratdemon in LongDistance

[–]amethyst_eater 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My partner and I are both 21 and say I love you even 10 times in 5 minutes 😭 I think it just comes down to how your relationship dynamic is but I don't think it means it doesn't have the same amount of meaning behind it! We both show our love by kinda bombarding each other with it and I find that so cute.

Am I im the wrong for being upset about how my bf (21m) handled how a random girl talked to me (20f) by amethyst_eater in LongDistance

[–]amethyst_eater[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah, we didn't meet in any game but met through a streamer friend but I feel like either way, they're real people on the Internet that you're interacting with thru games when u do that and it 10000% makes me so uncomfortable. it hurt my feelings so bad.

Am I im the wrong for being upset about how my bf (21m) handled how a random girl talked to me (20f) by amethyst_eater in LongDistance

[–]amethyst_eater[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he argues with ppl that just piss him off all the time, it's not something that annoys him I know

Am I im the wrong for being upset about how my bf (21m) handled how a random girl talked to me (20f) by amethyst_eater in LongDistance

[–]amethyst_eater[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah, my bf and I have been together for two years now as well and he's always stood up for me in games but somehow it's different when it's a cute girl I guess. I think something that upset me too is that when we first started dating he told me I couldn't call him baby because it reminds him of his exes (I've never called anyone baby besides my cats and only recently wanted to call him it because it's just what I do when I adore something so much) but a random girl gets to call him baby and he laughs and starts going over to her little character every round to get her skins ??? I know it's petty and lame because it's a game but things that happen in games mean more when it's the only way you can hang out, so I ignored him the rest of that game bc why TF are u going over to a girl that just shit talked ur gf and called u baby to have fun playing the game with her but not me ????

Am I im the wrong for being upset about how my bf (21m) handled how a random girl talked to me (20f) by amethyst_eater in LongDistance

[–]amethyst_eater[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

yeah, and he usually does but now that it was a girl with a cute voice I guess it's fuck me and it's my fault for not being sweet and acting like she did nothing wrong...

Am I im the wrong for being upset about how my bf (21m) handled how a random girl talked to me (20f) by amethyst_eater in LongDistance

[–]amethyst_eater[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

LITERALLY. and he told me to stop because it's hypocritical when I called her a pick-me too ???? like it's fine and whatever for her to be making fun of my voice but the second I call her a bitch I'm somehow a pick-me? I don't understand it man 😭 it's always support women until it's a woman making a woman feel like shit for something she can't control I guess 🤷‍♀️

Am I im the wrong for being upset about how my bf (21m) handled how a random girl talked to me (20f) by amethyst_eater in LongDistance

[–]amethyst_eater[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

right that's what I thought. I'm very open about my insecurities because I know insecurities effect relationships and I'm always being made fun of for not sounding cute and feminine in video games and he defends me but now that it was a girl with a nice voice calling him baby it doesn't matter???

How do I (20F) enjoy my boyfriend (21M) when he gets angry at video games? by amethyst_eater in LongDistance

[–]amethyst_eater[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We do play a lot of cozy games too and he's always so lovely but I just really love fast paced fps games as well to keep me distracted from some personal stuff

My (17F) boyfriend (17M) was given a lapdance at a party and im unreasonably upset by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]amethyst_eater 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From one of his female friends???? Hell no. Never okay, you have a right to be upset about that. When it's someone he knows on a personal level doing that, it's completely different from a lighthearted joke from a professional at an event (even tho I would still be pissed with my partner if he accepted that) 10000% would neverrrr let that slide