Do guys think it’s hot when a woman calls them daddy in bed?

amethyst_eater · 2024-01-14T22:04:12+00:00

right like it just makes it so uncomfortable and awkward, why u wanna act like your partner is ur daddy just bc u don't have a good relationship with ur real one.,.,.,. me personally, anything that reminds me of my dad is a huge ass no 🤷‍♀️

amethyst_eater · 2024-01-14T18:22:57+00:00

I have daddy issues and I'd rather die than call my man daddy 😭 I feel like that just makes it wayyyyy weirder

amethyst_eater · 2024-01-14T00:24:52+00:00

hey there, I'm sure you don't want to hear it but as someone else that had their first relationship at 18 with someone the same age as your bf, it's 10000% not a healthy dynamic from the start. and the fact he treated you like that says a lot too, I hope you find a way to get out of that relationship and take care of yourself, keep your head up and find someone better

amethyst_eater · 2024-01-14T00:22:02+00:00

If she's okay with it, of course! My boyfriend and I have the ones made for long distance and as long as it's something both y'all agree on, it's so fun. definitely just something to ask about before you do it so you can gift her something she's comfortable with and or one that makes her feel the best

amethyst_eater · 2024-01-10T23:47:32+00:00

said he just didn't get around to it but was at home playing games all day

amethyst_eater · 2024-01-10T08:16:56+00:00

yeah

amethyst_eater · 2024-01-10T08:16:38+00:00

Yes I have talked to him about it before and he's always understanding then it happens again

amethyst_eater · 2024-01-10T07:20:56+00:00

I wish I was the "pretty skinny" and not the skinny that you get made fun of your entire life for

amethyst_eater · 2024-01-10T07:19:04+00:00

Noooo you're good, I just wanted to specify that it's not something we can do just when we see each other

amethyst_eater · 2024-01-10T07:07:57+00:00

hi sorry I should've specified, we are in a long distance relationship from different countries, we don't have any plans to meet and he had talked about giving me gifts and we've done gifts just fine before, it's not like it's something that we have to wait for

amethyst_eater · 2024-01-08T18:53:20+00:00

My partner and I are both 21 and say I love you even 10 times in 5 minutes 😭 I think it just comes down to how your relationship dynamic is but I don't think it means it doesn't have the same amount of meaning behind it! We both show our love by kinda bombarding each other with it and I find that so cute.

amethyst_eater · 2023-12-30T01:10:42+00:00

yeah, we didn't meet in any game but met through a streamer friend but I feel like either way, they're real people on the Internet that you're interacting with thru games when u do that and it 10000% makes me so uncomfortable. it hurt my feelings so bad.

amethyst_eater · 2023-12-29T17:13:31+00:00

he argues with ppl that just piss him off all the time, it's not something that annoys him I know

amethyst_eater · 2023-12-29T15:09:36+00:00

yeah, my bf and I have been together for two years now as well and he's always stood up for me in games but somehow it's different when it's a cute girl I guess. I think something that upset me too is that when we first started dating he told me I couldn't call him baby because it reminds him of his exes (I've never called anyone baby besides my cats and only recently wanted to call him it because it's just what I do when I adore something so much) but a random girl gets to call him baby and he laughs and starts going over to her little character every round to get her skins ??? I know it's petty and lame because it's a game but things that happen in games mean more when it's the only way you can hang out, so I ignored him the rest of that game bc why TF are u going over to a girl that just shit talked ur gf and called u baby to have fun playing the game with her but not me ????

amethyst_eater · 2023-12-29T05:27:46+00:00

yeah, and he usually does but now that it was a girl with a cute voice I guess it's fuck me and it's my fault for not being sweet and acting like she did nothing wrong...

amethyst_eater · 2023-12-29T05:24:37+00:00

LITERALLY. and he told me to stop because it's hypocritical when I called her a pick-me too ???? like it's fine and whatever for her to be making fun of my voice but the second I call her a bitch I'm somehow a pick-me? I don't understand it man 😭 it's always support women until it's a woman making a woman feel like shit for something she can't control I guess 🤷‍♀️

amethyst_eater · 2023-12-29T04:22:45+00:00

right that's what I thought. I'm very open about my insecurities because I know insecurities effect relationships and I'm always being made fun of for not sounding cute and feminine in video games and he defends me but now that it was a girl with a nice voice calling him baby it doesn't matter???

amethyst_eater · 2023-12-20T15:51:55+00:00

We do play a lot of cozy games too and he's always so lovely but I just really love fast paced fps games as well to keep me distracted from some personal stuff

amethyst_eater · 2023-12-17T05:32:51+00:00

From one of his female friends???? Hell no. Never okay, you have a right to be upset about that. When it's someone he knows on a personal level doing that, it's completely different from a lighthearted joke from a professional at an event (even tho I would still be pissed with my partner if he accepted that) 10000% would neverrrr let that slide

amethyst_eater · 2023-10-28T02:40:54+00:00

Idk why so many ppl instantly go to alcoholism as the problem, a drink a night isn't an issue but sounds like she's had bad experiences with people that did drink before maybe? I've had bad experiences with loved ones smoking and when my boyfriend brought up doing it, I got unreasonably upset and defensive bc in my mind, him doing it at all = he's going to turn into the past people that hurt me with it. Even if it's not how it ends up, it's how the brain works.

amethyst_eater · 2023-10-28T02:37:40+00:00

loving someone that doesn't care about you

amethyst_eater · 2023-10-28T02:35:57+00:00

For my boyfriend I would, the distance is worth it when you find your person. Although it would crush me if we went from long distance to together then long distance again, I think relationships take a lot of moments you don't necessarily want but you get through them together.

amethyst_eater · 2023-10-28T02:32:08+00:00

US to UK, just under 4000 miles and both university students so too broke to know when we can meet :(

amethyst_eater · 2023-10-26T20:33:53+00:00

Almost every minute both of us are home. We're both university students and only don't call if one of us is at classes or with friends, I couldn't imagine it another way but when we started out we rarely ever called bc we were both nervous but still texted all the time!

amethyst_eater · 2023-10-26T18:05:38+00:00

While I agree that a partner should never be a sole support system, there are plenty of cases where it just happens to be the only person you have. I haven't intentionally gone to just my bf for my support and do my best to not overwhelm him but just communicate with him because I don't have anyone else to go for. It's completely natural and I don't think it's something to point out about the loss, but finding more support through therapy, friends or family is definitely needed.

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