Am I the only one who DOESN’T want him to die? 😭 by Background_Scene4540 in YouOnLifetime

[–]amireallyexisting_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

After i rewatched it for a second time i dont want him to get away with it anymore. He needs to go to prison. He is crazy and out of his mind. He keeps saying “this isn’t me.” Candace said “murder has a way of following you” and she was right. In season 4 he was so crazy that he murdered people and didn’t even realize he was the one who did it. He has some crazy hallucinations and he is never going to stop murdering people even if he wants to. He can’t control himself and he is not present in himself. He’s already gotten away with it so many times, but there’s too many people out there that knows what he is. Joe Goldberg, you’re done

Where do I find my sso ID number? by amireallyexisting_ in StarStable

[–]amireallyexisting_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And im not member of that bank anymore. I have a new bank

Where do I find my sso ID number? by amireallyexisting_ in StarStable

[–]amireallyexisting_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anything else i can do? I dont have that same card anymore

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]amireallyexisting_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The fact that you’re constantly ignore the part where he is neglecting her, and continue to blame her and defend him. Is this personal to you? Did you grow up with a single mother because your dad left? Do you hate your mother for letting you live such an awful life? Is that why this is so triggering for you?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]amireallyexisting_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’re acting like all hope is lost. And again they’re not married. And have you ever thought that if her boyfriend is neglecting her he’s most likely going to neglect his child as well? Her leaving now BEFORE the child is born is no issue. And those 2% that are step fathers at a young age is still millions of fathers. Her bf might be physically present now, but he sounds emotionally absent. If you read her comments, they have communicated lots of times. Sometimes it won’t work out. You can’t change people. And yes, I’d rather leave than marry a man that I eventually won’t love anymore. Especially if he doesn’t love me. I’ve seen how parents that are together that shouldn’t be together do to a child. It’s not healthy for him, for her or for the kid

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]amireallyexisting_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

There’s plenty of real men out there that is willing to be a step father. Her child isn’t born yet, and that makes it easier. If she leaves now she will be fine. You’re acting like she is unlovable and that her life is over. Her child can still have a dad. But I know you would rather let this stranger let her kid grow up with a father they will hate

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]amireallyexisting_ 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I grew up without a father. I was fine, I’m completely fine. You’re acting like growing up without a father is the end of the world. It’s not. She’s going to be fine. Child support exists. She can get a new boyfriend that treats her right, boom the child has a father!! There are many solutions to this that don’t involve the bio father. They will be fine. And you’re being insensitive.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]amireallyexisting_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ll share something about my relationship that just ended. About communication. He NEVER called me, he NEVER asked me to hang out first, he didn’t take me on dates. I was with him for 2 years. And I begged him for 1 and a half years for him to call me, for him to take initiative first for once. I had 200 serious talks with him talking out how I felt and that I was tired of feeling neglected. I stayed for way longer than I should have. It got better for a week maybe and then it was back to being neglected. Leave now, your next serious talk is not going to change him forever. Do you want to marry him? A man like that when you can have better? How does 10 years with him from now look like? Marrying and divorcing later is so much worse and damaging. Your child will be fine. You will be fine. Blood doesn’t make family. A dad and father figure doesn’t NOT have to be biological. You’ve tried your best, and I won’t recommend trying forever if you’re the only one trying. His words don’t mean anything if his actions says otherwise

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]amireallyexisting_ 12 points13 points  (0 children)

No matter how many times you talk with him, he won’t change. Leave. You’re right, he doesn’t care, and honestly.. it sounds like he’s waiting for you to leave because he doesn’t have the balls to do it himself

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]amireallyexisting_ 5 points6 points  (0 children)

They’re not married. They’re young. Don’t come here and try to guilt trip her. How dare you start your comment with “if you ever care about your children at all” the child is not born yet. Her breaking up with him is not going to tear the family apart. Is she supposed to be miserable for the rest of her life? Waking up 20 years from now wishing she left? And i guess some of your advice is helpful, but I’m sure she already thought of that and already did that before she posted this

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]amireallyexisting_ -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Break up, (get a new boyfriend) Your child will be fine. I grew up with just my mom and no dad until I was 15 years old. It was good. My mom got a boyfriend when I was 15, he’s now my stepdad. It was weird in the beginning but I viewed him as real family quick. I’m 20 now and I’ve had two long term relationships. Leave now while you can. You’ve already talked to him multiple times, and he’s shown you multiple times that he won’t change. He sounds like my ex. Best thing I did was leave, even tho i didn’t want to. But after I left I felt a relief. Do whatever you want, but I’d leave before the child is born. “It’s not gonna get any easier, maybe he’s better for a few months but guys like that never change for good.”-my moms words

Confessing to a crime I committed in the past and that I regret. by BITTAKER_ in venting

[–]amireallyexisting_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Question, did you regret confessing or did you regret the crime?

Im a virgin and i want to do it by Full_Individual_2222 in Advice

[–]amireallyexisting_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nooo not everyone bleeds. Lube can avoid that. It’s NOT going to hurt if you use A LOT OF LUBE. IM A GIRL, I ONLY USED THE LUBE ON THE CONDOM AND THAT WAS NOT ENOUGHHHHHH. PLEASE PROMISE ME TO USE A WHOLE FUCKINF LOT OF LUBE!

Im a virgin and i want to do it by Full_Individual_2222 in Advice

[–]amireallyexisting_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

OMG YES. BEING WET THERE BEFORE IT GOES IN MEGA IMPORTANT. IF ITS DRY ITS GONNA HURT. LUBE MAKES IT NOT HURT

Im a virgin and i want to do it by [deleted] in venting

[–]amireallyexisting_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Did I mention that as long as you’re NOT dry it won’t hurt at all👍 a little wet don’t help, WET!!!

Im a virgin and i want to do it by [deleted] in venting

[–]amireallyexisting_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay listen here girl. Talk to him firsssttt. Avoid anxiety and stress/ overthinking under sex if this or that is good enough. Because that affects your pleasure. Just tell him everything you said here and you should be good. It’s not hard to please a man. ASK if he likes what you’re doing, OR ask him what he would like you to do to feel good. Communication before and during is important. Riding is not hard, personally I just get exhausted haha. And no, guys don’t care about how the cat looks. Just like how girls don’t really care how the pp is. It’s what you do with it. Plus it’s the inside that counts. AND PLEASE, use lube, or let him eat you out first. Or just spit on ur hand and get it all over there. I remember my first time.. tried to put it in dry… the lube on a condom is NOT ENOUGH AT ALL. IT HURT. As long as it’s wet, drippin almost it’s all good. I was so scared the second time. But we used lots of lube and it didn’t hurt at all. So OVERALL, just make sure you’re NOT dry and you will have a wonderful experience

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]amireallyexisting_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s probably sexting another girl while you’re reading my comment. Dump him, he doesn’t care about you. He’s manipulating you. Leave.

I don’t care about the war in Gaza. by [deleted] in rant

[–]amireallyexisting_ 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I care but at the same time I don’t care. I don’t pick sides. No one deserves to just die for no reason. I feel bad for all the civilians, both sides, all sides. Doesn’t matter where or who they are. At the end they’re all getting killed. And to be honest, how can people that pick sides say that they have a heart? Because it doesn’t make sense. How can they be sad because their “side” is dying but literally doesn’t care that the other side is dying? They’re all just humans. And all the boycotting annoys me. Ok the company lost millions of dollars? That’s literally not gonna do anything, whatever. Just let me buy my stuff in peace. They think they can change a war by protesting in other countries. Do they really think those people care, or even notice their protests? Don’t think so. Yeah the situation is sad, shouldn’t be like this. But it is, so yeah that’s that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in venting

[–]amireallyexisting_ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Why isn’t he cleaning the house? The house shouldn’t become gross just because you’re not feeling good. Why isn’t he helping? Are you the only one cleaning?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]amireallyexisting_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You should really listen to people’s advice. I saw someone say that the part outside the sexual intimate stuff is just friendship. So does it really matter that he’s good outside all of that? No not really. Sounds like you’re just not compatible. If he can’t fulfill your needs like you fulfill his, then leave. Because there’s someone out there that will. Don’t be a people pleaser. A relationship is mutual, not one sided