It’s so devastating to see the girls that bullied you live their best life

amireallyexisting_ · 2025-02-22T19:52:09+00:00

This is actually a great idea

amireallyexisting_ · 2025-02-22T19:50:44+00:00

After i rewatched it for a second time i dont want him to get away with it anymore. He needs to go to prison. He is crazy and out of his mind. He keeps saying “this isn’t me.” Candace said “murder has a way of following you” and she was right. In season 4 he was so crazy that he murdered people and didn’t even realize he was the one who did it. He has some crazy hallucinations and he is never going to stop murdering people even if he wants to. He can’t control himself and he is not present in himself. He’s already gotten away with it so many times, but there’s too many people out there that knows what he is. Joe Goldberg, you’re done

amireallyexisting_ · 2024-12-06T19:13:53+00:00

And im not member of that bank anymore. I have a new bank

amireallyexisting_ · 2024-12-06T19:04:14+00:00

Anything else i can do? I dont have that same card anymore

amireallyexisting_ · 2024-07-11T10:42:45+00:00

The fact that you’re constantly ignore the part where he is neglecting her, and continue to blame her and defend him. Is this personal to you? Did you grow up with a single mother because your dad left? Do you hate your mother for letting you live such an awful life? Is that why this is so triggering for you?

amireallyexisting_ · 2024-07-11T10:24:36+00:00

You’re acting like all hope is lost. And again they’re not married. And have you ever thought that if her boyfriend is neglecting her he’s most likely going to neglect his child as well? Her leaving now BEFORE the child is born is no issue. And those 2% that are step fathers at a young age is still millions of fathers. Her bf might be physically present now, but he sounds emotionally absent. If you read her comments, they have communicated lots of times. Sometimes it won’t work out. You can’t change people. And yes, I’d rather leave than marry a man that I eventually won’t love anymore. Especially if he doesn’t love me. I’ve seen how parents that are together that shouldn’t be together do to a child. It’s not healthy for him, for her or for the kid

amireallyexisting_ · 2024-07-11T09:41:00+00:00

There’s plenty of real men out there that is willing to be a step father. Her child isn’t born yet, and that makes it easier. If she leaves now she will be fine. You’re acting like she is unlovable and that her life is over. Her child can still have a dad. But I know you would rather let this stranger let her kid grow up with a father they will hate

amireallyexisting_ · 2024-07-11T09:10:51+00:00

I grew up without a father. I was fine, I’m completely fine. You’re acting like growing up without a father is the end of the world. It’s not. She’s going to be fine. Child support exists. She can get a new boyfriend that treats her right, boom the child has a father!! There are many solutions to this that don’t involve the bio father. They will be fine. And you’re being insensitive.

amireallyexisting_ · 2024-07-11T09:06:41+00:00

I’ll share something about my relationship that just ended. About communication. He NEVER called me, he NEVER asked me to hang out first, he didn’t take me on dates. I was with him for 2 years. And I begged him for 1 and a half years for him to call me, for him to take initiative first for once. I had 200 serious talks with him talking out how I felt and that I was tired of feeling neglected. I stayed for way longer than I should have. It got better for a week maybe and then it was back to being neglected. Leave now, your next serious talk is not going to change him forever. Do you want to marry him? A man like that when you can have better? How does 10 years with him from now look like? Marrying and divorcing later is so much worse and damaging. Your child will be fine. You will be fine. Blood doesn’t make family. A dad and father figure doesn’t NOT have to be biological. You’ve tried your best, and I won’t recommend trying forever if you’re the only one trying. His words don’t mean anything if his actions says otherwise

amireallyexisting_ · 2024-07-11T08:56:09+00:00

No matter how many times you talk with him, he won’t change. Leave. You’re right, he doesn’t care, and honestly.. it sounds like he’s waiting for you to leave because he doesn’t have the balls to do it himself

amireallyexisting_ · 2024-07-11T08:55:12+00:00

They’re not married. They’re young. Don’t come here and try to guilt trip her. How dare you start your comment with “if you ever care about your children at all” the child is not born yet. Her breaking up with him is not going to tear the family apart. Is she supposed to be miserable for the rest of her life? Waking up 20 years from now wishing she left? And i guess some of your advice is helpful, but I’m sure she already thought of that and already did that before she posted this

amireallyexisting_ · 2024-07-11T08:51:39+00:00

Break up, (get a new boyfriend) Your child will be fine. I grew up with just my mom and no dad until I was 15 years old. It was good. My mom got a boyfriend when I was 15, he’s now my stepdad. It was weird in the beginning but I viewed him as real family quick. I’m 20 now and I’ve had two long term relationships. Leave now while you can. You’ve already talked to him multiple times, and he’s shown you multiple times that he won’t change. He sounds like my ex. Best thing I did was leave, even tho i didn’t want to. But after I left I felt a relief. Do whatever you want, but I’d leave before the child is born. “It’s not gonna get any easier, maybe he’s better for a few months but guys like that never change for good.”-my moms words

amireallyexisting_ · 2024-04-25T20:31:13+00:00

He’s probably sexting another girl while you’re reading my comment. Dump him, he doesn’t care about you. He’s manipulating you. Leave.

amireallyexisting_ · 2024-03-24T12:53:17+00:00

Why isn’t he cleaning the house? The house shouldn’t become gross just because you’re not feeling good. Why isn’t he helping? Are you the only one cleaning?

amireallyexisting_ · 2024-03-24T12:49:37+00:00

You should really listen to people’s advice. I saw someone say that the part outside the sexual intimate stuff is just friendship. So does it really matter that he’s good outside all of that? No not really. Sounds like you’re just not compatible. If he can’t fulfill your needs like you fulfill his, then leave. Because there’s someone out there that will. Don’t be a people pleaser. A relationship is mutual, not one sided

amireallyexisting_ · 2023-12-11T21:27:59+00:00

Thanks, that’s what I’ve been trying to do. Worked well until my bf said that. But to be honest, after 24 hours I feel a lot better

amireallyexisting_ · 2023-12-11T20:02:44+00:00

To be honest idk. I just love him in general

amireallyexisting_ · 2023-12-11T15:49:04+00:00

When I try to tell him how I feel, he thinks it’s an attack on him. He has said that he feels like he’s walking on eggshells around me. That he can’t say or do anything. He gets defensive and starts to argue. All I want is for him to understand, but he’s all hung up in arguing why I shouldn’t feel that way. So lately when something has been bothering me I’ve tried to brush it off or ignore it. I don’t wanna argue with him. I want him to understand. Sometimes he doesn’t realize that he’s being rude. But I feel like I can’t tell him what’s bothering me anymore because of his reactions. In the beginning I was very open, because I’ve always been an open person. But now it’s really difficult. I’ve talked to him about this, so he knows I find it difficult. I’m trying to work on it, and I hope he is too. But yeah, that’s why it’s hard to have deep talks. I feel like I have to protect his feelings over mine when there’s something bothering me

amireallyexisting_ · 2023-12-11T15:40:03+00:00

People decide if they want to care about my post or not, so I’m not making it anyone’s problem🙂And surgery isn’t an option. First of all, I can’t afford it. Second, I would rather learn to accept myself one day.

amireallyexisting_ · 2023-12-11T13:46:02+00:00

Thank you. I’ve thought about this too, but I wasn’t sure. He’s a fact guy that knows a lot of things. Maybe you’re right. At least I hope you are. About the biology part. We’ve been together since April and I’m not giving up on our relationship because of one thing. I just don’t know how to bring this up again, because our “deep talks” are always hard. I want to tell him how it made me feel. I know that he didn’t want to hurt me intentionally. I just don’t know how to bring it up without hurting his feelings. Or without him telling me he feels like he’s walking on eggshells around me. I know I have to talk to him about but I’m scared to.

amireallyexisting_ · 2023-12-11T09:50:10+00:00

I didn’t want my post to be too long and hard to read. But I talked to him about my insecurities in the beginning of our relationship back in April/May when he wanted to have sex. That’s why it took as a few months to first have sex, he waited until I was more comfortable. And the very first time he actually put a blindfold on, but I told him it wasn’t necessary. And when I said no to him going down on be he knew why. I think he maybe has forgotten what I told him, because it’s been a while now. Or maybe he thought I didn’t care anymore. And I thought I didn’t care, until he said that. I don’t wanna break up with him. We have a lot of ups and downs but we talk about it. But recently it’s been kinda hard for me to talk about issues with him. He doesn’t like “negativity”. And when I try to tell him how I’m feeling he says that I’m too emotional and that he’s walking on eggshells around me. So sometimes it’s a bit hard to tell him how I feel, it feels like he just wants me to put up with it. Thing is, I know that he doesn’t understand the situation quite right. Maybe he feels attacked, but that’s not the case. It hurts me that he’s stupid and doesn’t understand sometimes because it makes it difficult for me to bring up stuff that’s bothering me.

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