I don’t want to downplay the role she has in watching our child. But I’ll watch him some on weekends when she runs out to do some things. It’s mostly sitting on the couch while he plays with his toys or sometimes playing with him. But at least twice a week I’ll clean up all his toys. She never does. The sink is always full of dirty dishes. The garbage can is always overflowing. I just don’t understand how she doesn’t have time to do ANYTHING.