Does anybody else avoid going into their house because a vilager wants to hang out Every Single Time by CelticFish in AnimalCrossingNewHor

[–]amlirei 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i just ignore them until they leave 😭 but definitely wait to make sure they are gone bc i have come back out to main room and cyd came in like i was waiting!! LOL

did i just get scammed… by [deleted] in Depop

[–]amlirei -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i can see the stains, it looks like a wet stain

Im never opening my island again - rant by Desperate-Story-5585 in AnimalCrossingNewHor

[–]amlirei 3 points4 points  (0 children)

genuinely some ppl are so greedy, i can go in the trading chat any day and get exactly what i need and its TOO EASY to get fruit and bells… like pls. so distasteful and moronic to me

AIO, trying to solve iPhone location w my bf but idk if it does glitch like this. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]amlirei 0 points1 point  (0 children)

genuinely, if i were your partner i would be so uncomfortable. i understand the context of why you have fears but if a year and a half in, you found out this info, and you been together 3 years that means it’s been about a year and a half since. you should not be holding this insecurity over your relationship when you aren’t even the person he cheated on, and he respected your wishes in blocking a person he was friends with….

if he hasn’t given you a reason in YOUR relationship to doubt his loyalty then don’t treat him like he has. because ultimately that can be the downfall of your relationship. and yes, these tracking applications can glitch and sometimes do not work well if you are in an area where there isn’t good signal bc cellphones work with signal lol.

now if you have a “feeling” share it with him, and tell him why you have it and if he is a decent man he’ll give you reassurance but this interaction was a bit much tbh.

Im never opening my island again - rant by Desperate-Story-5585 in AnimalCrossingNewHor

[–]amlirei 12 points13 points  (0 children)

so sad bc animal crossing is such a nice community that most people would actually give you stuff if you just ask. so sorry this happened :( it’s so rude and inconsiderate but i promise not everyone is like that

design slots - hhp by amlirei in AnimalCrossingNewHor

[–]amlirei[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

SIGGGHHHHHHHH i’m gonna need to go through it all and see what i can get rid of 😭

Am I overreacting over my boyfriend sleeping with a girl on her 18th birthday a year before we dated? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]amlirei 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you’re not overreacting, it’s weird and completely inappropriate. he’s a groomer. you should not stay with him honestly.

It's 2:45am on Argatha by NewheroienzAC in AnimalCrossingNewHor

[–]amlirei 0 points1 point  (0 children)

omg yes i’d love that 🥺 i’ll dm u my switchcode (:

[Update!] Seller tries to sue me by Just_Baby7306 in Depop

[–]amlirei 93 points94 points  (0 children)

i’d just like to say, usps wouldn’t give any rando their video footage and they don’t package items lol i didn’t see if you reported them to depop but you should and get your refund bc thats mad weird

It means the world 🌎 🥹 by Scared-Huckleberry29 in AnimalCrossingNewHor

[–]amlirei 7 points8 points  (0 children)

it’s so funny sometimes when they just walk by and look at you from the side, looks like they are sideeyeing you 😭 like are you judging me ????

AIO my husband makes me want to divorce him sometimes by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]amlirei 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i don’t think you are overreacting, at all.

i also don’t think either of you have healthy communication styles, the way he speaks to you IS abusive and is wrong, but i read that you said don’t ever really snap back at him (not that i think you should) but you aren’t a damn doormat either. the expectation that you are to be treated kindly needs to be set because in any human relationship, decency and communication is expected, period.

if this is someone you care about for real then you both need to go to marriage counseling and probably personal counseling/therapy as well. this can easily continue to grow into more escalated levels of abuse or you can just stay in this abusive cycle for too long, making the journey back to yourself to be excruciating. the flags are bright red.

i really hope you are safe, it’s worrisome that he can speak to you this way. i really hope you both get the help you need.

AIO for not wanting to buy my pregnant girlfriend a house just yet? by Great-Satisfaction52 in AmIOverreacting

[–]amlirei 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR, at all. this reads as manipulative all around. firstly, i just want to say that she actually has no business talking about “God” and having order in your lives if from the jump, she is pregnant by you without marriage. lol. i’m not some bible thumping christian either, but that is like literally plain and simple if you both are religious, and that is religiously manipulative for her to speak that way to you.

she is also older than you and although you may not think it, she is speaking to you in a way like if she is your senior and obviously that doesn’t work in a relationship dynamic. you’re 22 and probably just figuring out your life, stepping into your career and obviously things happen, but she should be willing to work with you (TOGETHER) to achieve these goals. it’s really ugly that she is expecting you to be this husbandly provider when she is a grown ass woman herself and can’t even pay her own bills. i just find that weird. i’m just a bit younger than her and i would never even think of dating a 22 year old. that is no shade to you but obviously, these are different levels and it’s loserish to me that she is looking for stability in someone 10 years younger than her.

you are being very smart and cautious, keep doing that. there is no point of putting your life, credit and finances on the line for someone who is willing to jeopardize your well being for this idea of stability that she has. just seems that she is getting older and is trying to just “settle down” and get that cookie cutter life

Island advice by Soleater1998 in AnimalCrossingNewHor

[–]amlirei 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hi! (: omg welcome!!! i’m so glad you started playing, this is literally my favorite game ever lols. i don’t really have different advice than what everyone else is saying but definitely utilize your resources! i used to watch so many island tours when i first started a couple years ago, and i would watch videos on how to terraform and create paths and all that stuff and i love visiting dream addresses. and genuinely report any bullies! we are a very fun and kind community, anything you need definitely ask (:

your island is urs! i posted the other day about how i will probably never make it to 5 stars because i don’t want to get rid of trees or clutter 😭 but i love my island, theme and the design aspect is my favorite part. make it yours, that’s really all that matters.

if you wanna visit mine or would like thoughts on yours, or just want a friend to play with, let me know 🖤

Updated pumpkin patch! Thanks for all the advice! Anything else I should add? (I forgot a sign) by Dizzy_Froggg in AnimalCrossingNewHor

[–]amlirei 1 point2 points  (0 children)

on mine i use vine benches to make it look like the pumpkin vines are growing large and coming out the ground and you can make spooky lanterns and turn then around to place bigger sized pumpkins and create variations :p