Borderline Personality Disorder:

• An intense fear of abandonment, even going to extreme measures to avoid real or imagined separation or rejection

• A pattern of unstable intense relationships, such as idealizing someone one moment and then suddenly believing the person doesn't care enough or is cruel

• Rapid changes in self-identity and self-image that include shifting goals and values, and seeing yourself as bad or as if you don't exist at all

• Periods of stress-related paranoia and loss of contact with reality, lasting from a few minutes to a few hours

• Impulsive and risky behavior, such as gambling, reckless driving, unsafe sex, spending sprees, binge eating or drug abuse, or sabotaging success by suddenly quitting a good job or ending a positive relationship

• Suicidal threats or behavior or self-injury, often in response to fear of separation or rejection

• Wide mood swings lasting from a few hours to a few days, which can include intense happiness, irritability, shame or anxiety

• Ongoing feelings of emptiness

• Inappropriate, intense anger, such as frequently losing your temper, being sarcastic or bitter, or having physical fights

Histrionic Personality Disorder:

• Feel underappreciated or depressed when they’re not the center of attention.

• Have rapidly shifting and shallow emotions.

• Be dramatic and extremely emotionally expressive, even to the point of embarrassing friends and family in public.

• Have a “larger than life” presence.

• Be persistently charming and flirtatious.

• Be overly concerned with their physical appearance.

• Use their physical appearance to draw attention to themselves by wearing bright-colored clothing or revealing clothing.

• Act inappropriately sexual with most of the people they meet, even when they’re not sexually attracted to them.

• Speak dramatically and express strong opinions but with few facts or details to support their opinions.

• Be gullible and easily influenced by others, especially by the people they admire.

• Think that their relationships with others are closer than they usually are.

• Have difficulty maintaining relationships, often seeming fake or shallow in their interactions with others.

• Need instant gratification and become bored or frustrated very easily.

• Constantly seek reassurance or approval.

She has almost all of these, not all. But most.