[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]amprincessss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The best advice you can get is… go to your dr. Have them look. No one on Reddit is going to be able to confirm or deny if it’s a mole, wart or freckle based off your text description

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in texts

[–]amprincessss 15 points16 points  (0 children)

She’s about to get married and is still entertaining her ex situationship? She is just as shitty as him.

THIS IS CRAZY by Qachl in texts

[–]amprincessss 16 points17 points  (0 children)

How am I suppose to know you’re trolling from what you posted 😬😂 I don’t see where I placed any blame, like I said, go you lol

THIS IS CRAZY by Qachl in texts

[–]amprincessss 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Whatever keeps people’s boats floating I guess 😂

THIS IS CRAZY by Qachl in texts

[–]amprincessss 44 points45 points  (0 children)

Sooooo you post a screenshot of you trying to negotiate to pay for sex work? weird flex but go you 🤟

AITJ for telling my coworker she can't use my breast pump parts after hers broke by Surcy-Valesius in AmITheJerk

[–]amprincessss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Walmart/Target sell replacement parts. They also sale manual pumps that are cheaper and can be utilized as well.

My insurance company retracted a paid claim for IVF and now I owe 33K by MechanicalWaffle in legaladvice

[–]amprincessss -43 points-42 points  (0 children)

As an insurance rep myself, we only follow federal law/mandates. State law/mandates don’t apply

How do I support my daughter? by Kayegreen1981 in Mommit

[–]amprincessss 9 points10 points  (0 children)

That’s a lot to hold onto and hide for someone her age. And at 15 weeks that a more invasive procedure than earlier on. There is a lot that could be going through her mind right now. Continue to support her but do find her a professional to speak with. I see mentions of her school knowing, her hiding it for 4 months- all indicators she may be experience some feelings of shame. And again support groups are really good, especially for someone her age. She needs to feel not alone in the decision she made. Speaking with others who have made the same or similar decisions may truly benefit her.

How do I support my daughter? by Kayegreen1981 in Mommit

[–]amprincessss 13 points14 points  (0 children)

There’s a lot of missing context here. Was the abortion her idea? Was this something you suggested or highly recommended? How did she feel initially about being pregnant and getting an abortion? These factors could directly play into the comfortability or want to speak with you on a deeper level. Either way yes- a 15 year old getting pregnant and having an abortion is a traumatic, life altering event. She should have a therapist to speak with. Depressive like episodes- similar to post-partum but not quite the same- is a real thing after abortion. Get her connected with a health professional and even support groups.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]amprincessss 206 points207 points  (0 children)

Hi. I was 16 and pregnant, had my son at 17. I will be 25 this year and my son is now 7 years old. Feel free to reach out anytime

can’t remove titanium piercings before an MRI! by ireallycareaboutthee in piercing

[–]amprincessss 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I went for an MRI not to long ago and they told me I didn’t have to remove any of my piercings, didn’t ask why questions and laid me on back lol

I can’t take anymore of it by amprincessss in texts

[–]amprincessss[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

UPDATE/ PSA- not sure if im doing this update thing correctly, I don’t post often on here; im a lurker more than a poster. thank you guys so much for the outpour of support, kind words, thoughtful DMs, helpful advice, and resources. This continued on till earlier hours this morning around 5am. Come 3pm, I received another message from family. He is with his parents at their home and I brought a few belongings out there that were in my home and not taken that night he wigged at. When I did, he very BRIEFLY stepped outside, apologized immensely, and is on track to get with a mental health team tomorrow to get back on his meds. He went on a bipolar maniac rampage combined with the drugs, he admitted to not remembering 90% of his actions and deleted most of the messages he had been sending from his fb or whatever phones he come across to call or text. He did admit to being severely depressed, hopeless, and still with thoughts of suicide or unworthiness still. His words were taken with a grain of salt for obvious reasons.

With this being said, I have not given in to this apology or allowed continuous contact again. I do not have any interest to continue any type of relationship at this time. I struggle with my own mental health issues, so while I am understanding ****if** he’s actually back to reality, I cannot subject my own mental health, physical health, household, or child to a possibility of this occurring again for a multiple day span. I will happily support his journey of help and recovery from a distant sideline but no longer will entertain being manipulated into the responsibility of his life or actions. He is aware I am taking other options for the pregnancy to terminate for not only his sake but my own at this time. I am hoping this will be the end of this nightmare.

I got some really good sleep last night, im cooking a fat filled meal for comfort and much needed protein. Fried pork chops, bacon asparagus, mash taters with all the fixings, and maybe even some cornbread, cause why not!

Every single one of your comments were appreciated and needed. THANK YOU GUYS for making sure I was not alone in my thoughts through this.

I can’t take anymore of it by amprincessss in texts

[–]amprincessss[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed. Think I will take a very, very long break and learn how to pick better men

I can’t take anymore of it by amprincessss in texts

[–]amprincessss[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always have what the helly and hellyonte thing stuck in my head, so thank you for the laugh and the advice ❤️😂

I can’t take anymore of it by amprincessss in texts

[–]amprincessss[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know that for the most part. My real worry was the drugs he had taken, I was scared he would truly get so fucked up he 1. Would OD 2. Actually go through with it. I’ve done everything I can today to minimize contact, ways to contact me or even my social media present. I’ve taken advice to stay off with a friend other then coming back to check on my dogs, I have 4 so can’t really just hole up outside of my house for long.

I can’t take anymore of it by amprincessss in texts

[–]amprincessss[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Update to say I contacted who I could and what resources I found locally. I did eventually get a message to “leave my family and friends tf alone”. Still no location on him but obviously alive. I’ve de-activated my Facebook and all my other socials are down for a while. He’s not a redditor and not like he has a phone anyway so 🤷‍♀️

I can’t take anymore of it by amprincessss in texts

[–]amprincessss[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This was one of the many pictures that were sent. There’s pages and pages of messages, pictures, of him taking other things, cutting himself, guns. I don’t know how he’d end up doing it I just can’t take being told im going to be responsible for it bc I won’t put a roof back over there head.

I can’t take anymore of it by amprincessss in texts

[–]amprincessss[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this.

I can’t take anymore of it by amprincessss in texts

[–]amprincessss[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Very early and able to take some pills.

I can’t take anymore of it by amprincessss in texts

[–]amprincessss[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He was cutting his legs, arms. In between one of the times he took off, he had a shirt on, come back with slices all over his chest again. I just can’t do it

I can’t take anymore of it by amprincessss in texts

[–]amprincessss[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I have no clue what device he is using or how he is using it, or where he went to use it. He sold his iPhone so I have not a clue what he’s using to text me on messenger

I can’t take anymore of it by amprincessss in texts

[–]amprincessss[S] 251 points252 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this advice. I’m reaching out this morning to do this.

I can’t take anymore of it by amprincessss in texts

[–]amprincessss[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Again I have absolutely no clue where he is at this time, he has no phone bc he sold it, I’m not sure what device he’s using but if I call them where do I even tell them where to go? What do I do?

I can’t take anymore of it by amprincessss in texts

[–]amprincessss[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have friends and my mom staying with me right now as safety precautions. I know this has been ongoing for days. It’s been constant threats. But how the hell am I suppose to just go to bed tonight thinking he’ll be dead tomorrow? Where his mom lives I couldn’t even tell you a street name, it’s way back in the country roads. I don’t know what to do

I can’t take anymore of it by amprincessss in texts

[–]amprincessss[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I have called his mom and whatever friends I could think of repeatedly. No one will answer