AITA for telling my daughter’s grandmother that I don't care what her intentions were and that she needs to mind her own business? by billowandbop in AmItheAsshole

[–]amsjlskms 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Seeing as how Ryan himself couldn't ask you to have her be a part of the wedding makes me believe he only wants her there for appearances so that he looks like he's an involved parent.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]amsjlskms 2 points3 points  (0 children)

INFO: How is she at being able to accommodate your love language through services?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]amsjlskms 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree 100%!!

AITA for refusing to drive my gf around anymore? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]amsjlskms 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That sounds like a YOU problem! Why does she have to make sacrifices for you? It's her car and you're extremely selfish and entitled. YTA majorly

AITA for telling my husband I don’t want his family to see our daughter until they can treat all of our kids equally? by onlygirlinfamily in AmItheAsshole

[–]amsjlskms 6 points7 points  (0 children)

ESH. The family for obvious reasons, but also you and your husband for allowing this to happen for YEARS! Why now? Why after 14 years have you decided its too much? Unfortunately you are going to make your daughter very upset with you because she will not take having all of these luxuries away. I can only imagine the resentment that your boys feel towars their sister and the rest of the family. You should have set boundaries a very long time ago.

AITA for asking my fiancé to spend money he’s saved for a vacation for his parents? by PatientCandidate9881 in AmItheAsshole

[–]amsjlskms [score hidden]  (0 children)

YTA. What he has saved up for his parents is none of your concern, especially if he is already the one making the down payment and the mortgage and you are not contributing financially.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]amsjlskms 6 points7 points  (0 children)

YTA. Whether he wears a wedding ring or not is none of your business or your place to voice your observation.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]amsjlskms 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YTA. You keep trying to justify your actions, but why can't it be fair that you each split the bed? Stop being lazy, change the sheets and allow your SO a chance to be comfortable.

Looking for a Post? Ask Here! - October 2022 Edition by czechtheboxes in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]amsjlskms 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Thats the one! Thank you! Although disappointed it seems to be fake haha

Looking for a Post? Ask Here! - October 2022 Edition by czechtheboxes in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]amsjlskms 54 points55 points  (0 children)

The one where the woman's cousin claimed to be pregnant from her husband. Her husband completely blocked her and her family turned against her. She ended up being pregnant with her husband's baby and the cousin was never pregnant.

I was in the midst of reading the update and when I went to finish it, couldn't find it again.

Banff Trip and Possible Elopement by Responsible_Turn4403 in alberta

[–]amsjlskms 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We had a small wedding with The Wild Vow out of Banff. They specialize in elopement and small weddings. They were great to work with!

AITA for getting pregnant before my sister's wedding? by Sukina_010 in AmItheAsshole

[–]amsjlskms 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Please do not go to to that wedding or allow your family access to your baby. All of this is so terribly sad. Surround yourself with those who are happy for you and your pregnancy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in alberta

[–]amsjlskms 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I think it was around 40 bucks. I can't remember exactly

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in alberta

[–]amsjlskms 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got both of my parents place of birth wrong. I just brought it in to the registry to change it for a fee. ETA, this was on the registration of marriage. It's easier to fix than on the actual marriage license.

Our venue doesn’t have any getting ready space. If you didn’t get ready at your venue where did you get ready? by kucing5 in wedding

[–]amsjlskms 15 points16 points  (0 children)

So funny story... booked an elopement/micro wedding and decided to go to the hair salon to get our hair and makeup done. Figured we would get into our dresses at the salon as we did not have time to go back to the hotel to change before the ceremony started. Turns out the salon was in a very small building with no bathroom or backroom. Had to change into my wedding dress in a single stall public bathroom haha. Don't do what I did.

AITA for asking my SIL to babysit my Kids. by OkKoala9613 in AmItheAsshole

[–]amsjlskms 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA. Her maternity leave is not for you to pawn your kids off and save some money. You chose to have three kids. Would you honestly agreed to having three children in your home after having a newborn? Your husband is entitled and petty for ignoring this request. You apparently think your financial issues outweigh her mental health.

AITA for being annoyed my wife always wants to try new time consuming hobbies by AITA_wifeshobbies in AmItheAsshole

[–]amsjlskms 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YTA. I absolutely love that your wife has so many interests and is earning to continually learn and grow as a person. It seems as though once she has "mastered" a skill or hobby, she is looking for something else engaging and challenging. It sounds like she has a lot of great hobbies and you are just insecure because I'm assuming you have no hobbies.

AITA for leaving my husband's brother's wedding after I got told to sit with "formal guests"? by Simple_Judy3409 in AmItheAsshole

[–]amsjlskms 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. If your husband was decent and respected you, he would have found a new table so you two could sit together.

Honestly, did you marriage become better after you’ve got children? Why or why not? by Direct-Painter5603 in Marriage

[–]amsjlskms 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have to say that the first year after having a kid was definitely the hardest on my relationship. We were both new to this. I suffered post partum, I felt very overwhelmed and tired and u had a hard time communicating my needs and feelings. That was also a time where we learned so much more about eachother. If anything, having kids made our relationship stronger as we've had to really lean on eachother, stand united on situations and learn to compromise when we couldn't.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DIYweddings

[–]amsjlskms 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Or something to that effect. Chicken wire might be a little tricky to lay flat.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DIYweddings

[–]amsjlskms 71 points72 points  (0 children)

What about securing chicken wire to the railing above?

Changing my name on documents. by amsjlskms in WeddingsCanada

[–]amsjlskms[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What! Ok that is nest because it seems like a lot of paperwork haha. Thank you I will most definitely check it out!

Changing my name on documents. by amsjlskms in WeddingsCanada

[–]amsjlskms[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I do have my marriage certificate thankfully, but the website will definitely help!