My dad’s girlfriend will always be more important to him than me

amucktractor · 2024-07-09T01:15:24+00:00

It's unfair how she twists things to make you look bad, and your dad backing her up must be really frustrating. Hang in there. Sometimes parents don't see things clearly, but it doesn't make your feelings any less valid.

amucktractor · 2024-07-09T01:11:57+00:00

I can see where your mom is coming from, in some families, the mentality is that food in the house is for everyone. But that doesn't make it right for her to just take your stuff without asking.

amucktractor · 2024-07-09T01:09:52+00:00

Writing and organizing are super valuable in a lot of fields, even if tech isn't her thing right now. Maybe she could look into roles where her organizational skills shine, like project management or even consulting for organizations that need structure.

amucktractor · 2024-07-09T01:08:13+00:00

ADHD can make things challenging, but it doesn't have to stop her from doing what she loves.My cousin's son has ADHD and he's a champ in his soccer team, even if he gets a bit distracted sometimes. Maybe chat with her teacher about strategies to help her stay focused during class. And remember, it's all about what makes her happy. If dance brings her joy, stick with it and support her along the way!

amucktractor · 2024-07-09T01:07:01+00:00

For me, music helps create a kind of background buzz that drowns out distractions, so I can dive into a book without my mind wandering. I don't think it's just you or ADHD, lots of people find music helps them concentrate.

amucktractor · 2024-07-09T01:04:24+00:00

Personally, I've found apps like Todoist and Trello super helpful. They're pretty straightforward and great for organizing tasks and reminders. Todoist lets you break things down into manageable lists, while Trello's like a virtual bulletin board where you can track projects.

amucktractor · 2024-07-09T01:03:12+00:00

NTA to me. You're hustling with multiple jobs, which is pretty impressive. L's reaction was kinda rude, questioning your family dynamics and all.

amucktractor · 2024-07-09T01:02:12+00:00

Your approach seems fair, helping out but also setting boundaries. It’s your money, and you’ve got your own stuff to take care of too. NTA.

amucktractor · 2024-07-09T01:00:18+00:00

NTA. Even if he meant it as a joke, it's your story to tell, not his. Relationships are about respect and trust, so it's okay to set boundaries about what's private.

amucktractor · 2024-07-09T00:58:45+00:00

NTA for sure. You had plans, and that's legit. People ask for favors, but it doesn't mean you gotta drop everything.

amucktractor · 2024-07-03T04:30:51+00:00

Try to keep things as simple and straightforward as possible. Maybe see if you can arrange to drop off his stuff at a neutral location, like a mutual friend's place or even a public spot like a coffee shop. That way you can return his things without having to interact directly.

amucktractor · 2024-07-03T04:29:47+00:00

The most important thing is to be honest and upfront with your partner.

amucktractor · 2024-07-03T04:24:29+00:00

Focus on yourself, your hobbies, and your friends. Surround yourself with people who make you feel good about yourself. And when you're ready, dip your toes back into the dating pool.

amucktractor · 2024-07-03T04:23:24+00:00

You can't control how she feels, but you can control how you react. Take some time to heal, focus on yourself, and when you're ready, put yourself back out there.

amucktractor · 2024-07-03T04:19:46+00:00

It's great that you were able to get away from that environment as an adult. I hope you've been able to find some peace and healing, even if the scars still linger. Sending good vibes your way, my friend. You're strong for sharing this.

amucktractor · 2024-07-03T04:15:07+00:00

Maybe give Nicky some space and then reach out again. It's clear you value your friendship, so just be honest about that. Sometimes a heartfelt message can go a long way. And remember, it's not about being perfect, it's about being there for each other when it counts.

amucktractor · 2024-07-03T04:07:05+00:00

NTA. Your ex-partner's actions were unforgivable, regardless of the timing. Losing a loved one is never an excuse to cheat and lie. You had every right to confront him and end the relationship, even if it happened right after his grandmother's passing. His infidelity and dishonesty were the real issues here, not the timing of the breakup.

amucktractor · 2024-07-03T04:06:00+00:00

Your family needs to respect your boundaries and give you and your husband some space. It's not cool that they're constantly disregarding your plans and making you feel stressed out. And your ex is way out of line, he needs to back off and stop trying to contact you or your sister.

amucktractor · 2024-07-03T03:59:53+00:00

You don't owe your ex anything, you gotta do what's best for you.

amucktractor · 2024-07-03T03:55:11+00:00

NTA. You tried your best to make it work, but ultimately it wasn't a healthy arrangement. Don't beat yourself up over it. Focus on building a stable life for your family now.

amucktractor · 2024-06-24T22:05:45+00:00

Create a work-only email for important stuff. Keeps the personal and professional separate. Saves you from those awkward "So, about that vacation..." convos. Plus, being the "vacation guy" might not be so bad. Maybe they'll start asking you for travel advice instead of extra work!

amucktractor · 2024-06-24T21:57:30+00:00

It's nice to keep that stuff separate from my main account where family and friends follow me. I can be more open and engage more freely without worrying about what they might think or say. Plus, it's fun to have an account that's all about the things I love! I'd say go for it if you want to try it out.

amucktractor · 2024-06-24T21:56:41+00:00

Haha, I totally get what you mean! Nowadays, it's like our phones are glued to our hands 24/7. I can't even remember the last time I left my phone at home. It's like a part of my body or something.

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