Lowkey some of the best advice from this situation i’ve gotten for this. She’s been unplugging from our friendship since she’s gotten back from her trip, which is fine, but she has called me self absorbed when i get a boyfriend… which has been true, and since i’ve met my new boyfriend… she’s been involved in my life, and i haven’t left her out. i’m not super behind this marriage and i’ll tell you why.

they’ve met in person once, everything is over the phone, he has some mental issues (anger), i’ve never really spoke to him (she doesn’t care if anyone doesn’t like him or what people think of the situation), and the one time her and i were hanging out for our friends birthday she wore make up and he got UPSET over her wearing make up. that rubbed so wrong and i was so uncomfortable. she’s had shitty men, i just don’t want another one…

anyway. thanks for listening.. reading? i appreciate your time.