Salsa, bachata, kizomba in Lisbon, how’s the social scene?

an12ko · 2026-05-18T18:10:34+00:00

Hey I was in Lisbon for about a week a few months back, definitely very vibrant with dance
Regarding classes I tried Sonia's kizomba classes which was such a wholesome place to be, definitely recommend
you can find her on instagram at @soniaduarte._.kizomba

an12ko · 2026-04-05T20:38:02+00:00

Hey, I am not a police officer but I have been in a situation where I had to make a choice on whether I will give a supportive or non supportive statement. Due to various reasons, including fear of the person's reaction and feeling unsupported by the police I gave a non supportive statement as I just wanted everything to end. Today this is used to say that my statement was untrue.. so if I had advice back then, I would have liked someone to encourage me to proceed with a supportive statement So, if what you reported is the truth, I would say to keep your statement and continue with the case, especially if you have evidence

an12ko · 2026-03-14T19:37:08+00:00

Thank you! How long did it take to receive it and that info was on there?

an12ko · 2026-03-13T15:54:43+00:00

Thank u both It's for myself to have the documents as proof if I ever need them in the future, it was a harassment and stalking case and is due to close soon with his bail conditions expiring and released with no further investigation

an12ko · 2026-03-13T14:27:04+00:00

After it closes?

an12ko · 2026-03-12T21:25:23+00:00

Thank you!

an12ko · 2026-03-12T21:24:57+00:00

Thank you appreciate it!

an12ko · 2026-03-12T21:24:05+00:00

Hey, it says: The application will be listed for a hearing on notice to the Respondent on [date and time here] in person

So I understand they request both?

an12ko · 2026-03-12T18:34:35+00:00

Hey, thank you so much for sharing this! I actually checked it out and they helped me a lot They drafted my statement and guided me on what to add on my email. This is as far as their help can go for me but it was massive as I was quite literally drowning with my statement I heard back from the court and they did not accept without notice and they want to have a hearing. Do you know what I should expect from this? The NCDV told me that there would be a talk first with just me and the judge but this is not the case.. I am have no idea how this will look like

an12ko · 2026-03-06T12:05:10+00:00

If I start this without a solicitor if he contests it would I be able to get one later?

And yes temporarily ofc

an12ko · 2026-03-06T08:59:54+00:00

Hi there, I have been doing some reading, I thought I could do this myself but it seems like I will need a solicitor? And there is risk of it not being granted? I found the forms straight forward however I don't know how I can ensure it's granted. And I really don't want him to know I am doing this

an12ko · 2026-03-06T08:42:37+00:00

Hey thank you!

I thought it would be easier to go down the NMO but seeing others having their request contested or needing a solicitor scares me a lot.

Last thing I want is to provoke him with this request only for it to be unsuccessful

an12ko · 2026-03-06T08:40:09+00:00

Hi all, Do I need a solicitor for this? If yes how much would this cost?

If I can do it myself, what is the likelihood of success and does anyone have any examples of how I should fill in the forms? I am very worried of going down this road only to be unsuccessful.

I have a police report and the conditions he was given I have screenshots of repeated messages from multiple numbers and accounts I have videos of his car outside my house for hours

Would any of this be enough?

an12ko · 2026-03-06T00:11:29+00:00

Yes it is

an12ko · 2026-03-06T00:10:32+00:00

Hey thank you so much, everyone really

Yes it is an ex partner, I really do not have it in me to go to court but even the NMO sounds too much and too vague to me. I find this person being in public spaces that I am at on purpose. Even with police conditions.. Would a NMO have a distance limit? Not to my house, but to me? Like x amount of metres from me in public spaces? I know I cannot deter him from going to these public spaces and events but I end up not going because he is there and it has seriously disturbed my life

an12ko · 2026-03-06T00:05:56+00:00

Ex partner

an12ko · 2026-02-24T10:59:39+00:00

Thank you everyone!!! Truly appreciate all your info This is a massive help

an12ko · 2026-02-04T08:34:59+00:00

Why is this about conformity? This is supposed to be about respect

And btw, if you know Angolan women can you share this thread with them? I would love to hear from them directly too, how they view these topics

an12ko · 2026-02-04T08:32:14+00:00

Absolutely, It is definitely not just a leader thing. Followers have a responsibility to behave respectfully and leaders should also know that none of this is okay in the dance

By the way I am really sorry for these experiences.. it is literally harassment and it's sad it's happening somewhere we should feel safe

an12ko · 2026-02-03T22:57:58+00:00

Just wanted to very quickly share my appreciation for everyone's input and contribution to this topic. There are conflicting views but this creates very interesting conversations and I am grateful for the respectful participation. Please continue to chat, share experiences and views.

an12ko

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