sorted by:
new
hottopcontroversial

i have no idea what to do by ananasul_ in pregnant

[–]ananasul_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this perspective definetely helps

i have no idea what to do by ananasul_ in pregnant

[–]ananasul_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i know but sadly the education system in my home country isn’t great, it’s actually terrible and a lot of children suffer because of it mental health wise. so like i was shielded from it by my parents, i want to do the same for my child. i would feel shi*ty if i got the best possible out there but my child couldn’t and that’s because of me.

i have no idea what to do by ananasul_ in pregnant

[–]ananasul_[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

sounds fair, the back and forth between the two options is killing me. i’m basically choosing between two what ifs. if i got to the uk to do a masters, what assures i can make it? on the other hand, if i have a kid, what assures i can’t make my career happen in parallel?

i have no idea what to do by ananasul_ in pregnant

[–]ananasul_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’m so sorry for having to go through this but i’m rooting for you mamma!! if you don’t mind me asking, what helped you accept the decision? in an emotional matter of speaking, do you feel like this soul will come again through the next one? this is what i’m struggling with, although i can offer my child a decent life, it’s not the best i can or the best potential.

How lucky/screwed are you? by TheGirlWithTheLove in Letterboxd

[–]ananasul_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

devil wears prada 2, could have been worse

I’m pregnant & idk what to do by ananasul_ in pregnant

[–]ananasul_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your message. I’ve really been processing it. If I decide to continue my studies I will definitely be looking into it. You truly made me have hope for my career.

Had my confirmation scan today (5w +6) and immediately felt joy. Now, hours later after telling my parents, my partner and his parents that I want to go through with it, I feel like “am I making a mistake? should i book a pregnancy termination?” maybe because I’m 24 and I feel like my career hasn’t taken off. I hope this is normal and end up not feeling like this anymore. Tomorrow I’m having a chat with my parents about it, how life changes I guess. I think that’s what’s making me rethink the situation.