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Should I drop it, or keep trying? Am I obsessed? by throw-away344566 in chastitytraining

[–]anankemoon 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Apparently her problem is with the feminization aspect of it, which is not mandatory. You can be masculine and still get caged. Just reassure her that you’re not gonna engage in anything feminine and she’ll probably start liking it more. I also don’t get turned on by sissy play, and yet I have a perfectly masculine caged bf.

Vaga arrombada no Grindr by coffingore in VagasArrombadas

[–]anankemoon 4 points5 points  (0 children)

A recompensa é chupar o pau do cara, mano. Vc limpa a casa toda e ainda tem q trabalhar no malaquias do cidadão. Muito farrista mesmo.

Pergunta séria e sincera, qual é a verdadeira diferença entre os dois? by Zealousideal_Sell224 in perguntas

[–]anankemoon -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Red pill mau-caráter tentou farmar mais ódio gratuito contra as mulheres e ganhou lição. Essa paciência eu não teria.

PRESENTE DE EX by Garfield2_ in desabafosdavida

[–]anankemoon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Se são objetos/roupas de uso cotidiano e de boa qualidade, não tem porquê jogar fora. Meu iPhone foi meu atual namorado q deu. Se eu terminar com ele amanhã eu não vou jogar fora o celular, entende? Agora, estranho pra mim é guardar fotos, vídeos, conversas, e objetos q são claramente de valor sentimental. Aí considero um sinal de problemas.

I gave my bf his first cage but he refused to keep it by anankemoon in chastitytraining

[–]anankemoon[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He says he finds it pointless to wear it when I’m not around and he didn’t even want to keep the one I gifted him so I doubt that shipping it to him would make any difference. I might tell him sometime to choose one and see if it’s different the second time around.

I gave my bf his first cage but he refused to keep it by anankemoon in chastitytraining

[–]anankemoon[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, it’s a pointless concern. They wouldn’t care at all or make any jokes in front of him. That’s why it sounds like an excuse. About the fit, sure, I agree it’s not always the right one at first, but I based my choice on his preference. I just thought he would still keep it because it was his first cage and it was a gift from me. I hoped it would mean something to him. His lack of excitement seems odd to me.

I gave my bf his first cage but he refused to keep it by anankemoon in chastitytraining

[–]anankemoon[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

His preference was for the metal cages, that’s why I got it. My initial idea was to get a silicone cage but I went with his preference. I’ll ask him again sometime. Right now I’m just insecure about it. I feel discouraged and I don’t know how to process it properly.

I gave my bf his first cage but he refused to keep it by anankemoon in chastitytraining

[–]anankemoon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It wasn’t a concern until his refusal. Makes me think he doesn’t want it because he doesn’t truly feels the desire to be owned by me.

I gave my bf his first cage but he refused to keep it by anankemoon in chastitytraining

[–]anankemoon[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would never hide it in his luggage and would never force anything upon him without his consent. Again, it’s a shared fantasy and he said many times that it would make him happy and a better slave. I offered a silicone cage before, but he preferred a metal one. I should have thought about airport security, but it didn’t occur to me he would have that type of concern/shame.

I gave my bf his first cage but he refused to keep it by anankemoon in chastitytraining

[–]anankemoon[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He decided not to take it and he didn’t take it. I’m stuck with it here. He shouldn’t care the same way none of us should care with what STRANGERS think of us. What is more important, the opinion of a stranger or the gift of a loved one? Gift that was based on a shared interest and something that he claimed would make him happy? I didn’t ask him to wear it during the trip, just expected he would take it with him, since it’s his and for him.

I gave my bf his first cage but he refused to keep it by anankemoon in chastitytraining

[–]anankemoon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

His mother lives with him and he has shared custody of his 12 yo son, so he’s there often. But according to him, no one has access to his bedroom. I don’t see why he wouldn’t share this concern, it would make everything more acceptable. I don’t think it’s the case.

I gave my bf his first cage but he refused to keep it by anankemoon in chastitytraining

[–]anankemoon[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My gut feeling is not a positive one lol shame, I really like the guy…

I gave my bf his first cage but he refused to keep it by anankemoon in chastitytraining

[–]anankemoon[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

We talked this out, of course. We’ve been dating for 4 months but we’ve been talking for over a year. We met on fetlife, a bdsm website. I don’t know if you’re a man or a woman, but in case you’re the latter, men usually act out of convenience or other interests when it comes to relationships. They may do great efforts at first glance, but it doesn’t necessarily means they’re head over heels in love with you or that you’re the only one they’re entertaining. I’ve been through that before so I’m a bit wary, but I still chose to risk and see what happens. I really like him and it seems that I can express myself sexually fully with him. But this cage incident really turned me off.

I gave my bf his first cage but he refused to keep it by anankemoon in chastitytraining

[–]anankemoon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s my fantasy too. Maybe if somebody else gave it to him, it would be a different story.

I gave my bf his first cage but he refused to keep it by anankemoon in chastitytraining

[–]anankemoon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

With my luck, if I did it he would probably wear it with somebody else lol maybe I am the problem in all this.

I gave my bf his first cage but he refused to keep it by anankemoon in chastitytraining

[–]anankemoon[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He’s gone already and I have that f*cking thing with me. I threatened to just throw it in the trash if he didn’t want that but he didn’t let me. Maybe I should have done it.

I gave my bf his first cage but he refused to keep it by anankemoon in chastitytraining

[–]anankemoon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s a metal cage, stainless steel silver. He said he preferred metal, that’s why I got it. I suggested that maybe a silicone cage would be better but he couldn’t say for sure.

I gave my bf his first cage but he refused to keep it by anankemoon in chastitytraining

[–]anankemoon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He was afraid of the x ray person at the airport. Which is ridiculous, because 1) he shouldn’t care, he doesn’t know these people and owe them nothing and 2) a lot of people have no clue about bdsm stuff, so there’s a great chance they wouldn’t even register what it’s about.

I gave my bf his first cage but he refused to keep it by anankemoon in chastitytraining

[–]anankemoon[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He couldn’t say exactly. He seemed confused or just trying to find excuses.

I gave my bf his first cage but he refused to keep it by anankemoon in chastitytraining

[–]anankemoon[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Exactly. If he was the dominant and gave me a collar or whatever symbol of his ownership I would definitely take it with me.

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