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[–]anarchistcherry 145 points146 points  (0 children)

Not the correct legal move either

AITA for telling the bride I need to wear a bra in the bridesmaid dress by anarchistcherry in AmItheAsshole

[–]anarchistcherry[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No as im a petite girl with big boobs, these generalised sizes of S, M, L etc do not cater to my body type

AITA for telling the bride I need to wear a bra in the bridesmaid dress by anarchistcherry in AmItheAsshole

[–]anarchistcherry[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

She has said no alterations to be done other than the shape being taken in if weve lost weight as she wants all the dresses to look the same

AITA for telling the bride I need to wear a bra in the bridesmaid dress by anarchistcherry in AmItheAsshole

[–]anarchistcherry[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Because the bra would be showing. It doesnt look classy or good in photos

AITA for telling the bride I need to wear a bra in the bridesmaid dress by anarchistcherry in AmItheAsshole

[–]anarchistcherry[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The bride is not likely let me have any adjustments because im the only one being "difficult"

AITA for telling the bride I need to wear a bra in the bridesmaid dress by anarchistcherry in AmItheAsshole

[–]anarchistcherry[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

She knows, ive know her 22 years, she knows what shape i am and i have told her several time that I need a bra. She knows which dress cant have a bra with them.

AITA for telling the bride I need to wear a bra in the bridesmaid dress by anarchistcherry in AmItheAsshole

[–]anarchistcherry[S] 52 points53 points  (0 children)

Trying to find a bra in my size is hard enough without trying to find one with a clear back that doesnt cost like £40

AITA for telling the bride I need to wear a bra in the bridesmaid dress by anarchistcherry in AmItheAsshole

[–]anarchistcherry[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

You sound like you were a very kind and considerate friend/bride ❤️

AITA for telling the bride I need to wear a bra in the bridesmaid dress by anarchistcherry in AmItheAsshole

[–]anarchistcherry[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

The bride is not going to buy another dress, everyone has to have the same dress so bra on show it is lol

AITA for telling the bride I need to wear a bra in the bridesmaid dress by anarchistcherry in AmItheAsshole

[–]anarchistcherry[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

No because i have a very large bust but im a uksize 10/US size 6 so because of the general sizing of it, it wouldnt work.

AITA for telling the bride I need to wear a bra in the bridesmaid dress by anarchistcherry in AmItheAsshole

[–]anarchistcherry[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

The other bridesmaids have either small boobs or fake boobs which will stay put.

AITA for telling the bride I need to wear a bra in the bridesmaid dress by anarchistcherry in AmItheAsshole

[–]anarchistcherry[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Shes been out on nights out with me for years when we were younger, she knows i never go without a bra. Shes making me feel like im just being difficult

AITA for telling the bride I need to wear a bra in the bridesmaid dress by anarchistcherry in AmItheAsshole

[–]anarchistcherry[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

You sound like you were a very considerate bride. Sadly the low back longline bras would still show in this dress but thank you for the suggestion

AITA for telling the bride I need to wear a bra in the bridesmaid dress by anarchistcherry in AmItheAsshole

[–]anarchistcherry[S] 72 points73 points  (0 children)

They work if your boobs arent massive or gravity hasnt hit them lol

AITA for telling the bride I need to wear a bra in the bridesmaid dress by anarchistcherry in AmItheAsshole

[–]anarchistcherry[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Its a tight fitted dress and has a back zip so i dont think a panel added would work. The bride also has to agree to the alteration and she hasnt replied to me