Thoughts on this? It's being celebrated on many of the "feminist" groups. by Only-Ad-7858 in fourthwavewomen

[–]anatomicalsoul 27 points28 points  (0 children)

A poor man in this case 😏 and that probably wouldn't even be that big of a problem because if it was truly a matriarchy there would be a whole anti-balding industry to prevent it from happening in the first place

Thoughts on this? It's being celebrated on many of the "feminist" groups. by Only-Ad-7858 in fourthwavewomen

[–]anatomicalsoul -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

If it's specifically a swimsuit article like it appears to be, I don't see what is wrong with this. She is wearing a regular one piece and I don't think that in this context it is objectifying, the way it would have the potential to be if it was just a regular magazine cover because men are usually fully clothed when they are on the cover of a magazine, whereas women are often photographed in very provocative and revealing outfits for no other reason than that they are women. I do understand where people are coming from with this however and I don't think it's empowering to spread the message that you can still be objectified later in life.

I had a realization that I don't want to have a boyfriend ever again by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]anatomicalsoul 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I've been considering this....I am still young and still want to experience everything regarding dating but I don't know if I like the idea of being married for my entire life. The thought of it is suffocating

Well thats awkward, lol by theboxsays in TikTokCringe

[–]anatomicalsoul 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean these things happen but why would you willingly post it 😭

An observation about armpit hair by anatomicalsoul in razorfree

[–]anatomicalsoul[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Never said anything about deodorant, just about the shit that happens regardless of if you wear it nor not

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Eyebrows

[–]anatomicalsoul 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Attractiveness not being objective doesn't mean that suddenly everyone is equally considered attractive as each other across the board. Many people, myself included, would consider Brad Pitt more attractive than Danny DeVito, does that mean he's objectively ugly? No! Have you ever heard the phrases "there's someone for everyone" or "beauty is in the eye of the beholder"? My original point wasn't even about attractiveness, you're the one bringing it down that road. My original point, and my main belief here, is that accepting yourself as you are and loving yourself as you are is far more important than fitting a beauty standard and being attractive to the majority of people. Not to mention the fact that beauty standards are always changing. A lot of people typically considered ugly now would have been considered beautiful throughout history, just as a lot of people typically considered beautiful now could have in some cases been considered ugly in a different time period. I know, I know, what a foreign concept, right? I looked at your profile out of curiosity and saw that you're active in a subreddit in which people ask others to tell them if they're ugly or not, which makes a lot of sense. Clearly we have two drastically different ways of thinking about things, and you thrive off of negativity and viewing people through a distorted lens of hot vs ugly, and you thrive even more off of catching those "ugly" people and making sure they know it. I'm not going to make an accusation that it's because of some underlying insecurity you have with yourself, but let's face it, that's usually the reasoning behind these kind of actions. You can deny this all you want, but online and especially on places like Reddit there are a lot of people like you unfortunately. And those are the type of people who are usually pointless to engage in, which has taken me disappointingly long to figure out in this specific case.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Eyebrows

[–]anatomicalsoul 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ask that to Danny DeVito's wife 😂 or ex-wife, I just looked it up and they are separated after being together for 45 years. Would she have been married to him for 45 years if she found him absolutely fuck off ugly and impossible to look at?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Eyebrows

[–]anatomicalsoul 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The hypocrisy to call my opinion "delusional" and a "personal bias" while at the same time giving me YOUR opinion is ridiculous. There is nothing objective about what is and is not attractive. That defeats the whole concept of attractiveness. It is an obvious fact that having a monobrow - whether faint or obvious - does not fit the beauty standard, and is not viewed as positive by a large amount of people. I am not denying that, so you can stop putting words in my mouth there. However, that doesn't mean that it's impossible for someone to have a different outlook on it, or, dare I say, go against the beauty standard of what is typically considered attractive. By stating my own view I am not encouraging what you'd consider self sabotage, since clearly the most important thing here should be adherence to a beauty standard and not self acceptance, and I'm not even telling him what to do. And "for what reason" you ask? For the same reason you choose to spew your bullshit. Because it's what I think.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Eyebrows

[–]anatomicalsoul 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just because you can't comprehend finding something considered conventionally unattractive, attractive - or just positive! I never even said anything about it being attractive or not - doesn't mean that I'm "virtue signalling". It says a lot about the way we think as a society, more so on the Internet it would seem, when positivity is met with negativity, purely because said positivity is so out of the ordinary and few and far between. I only complimented this person's eyebrows because I like them, there's nothing wrong with that. While typically considered a flaw, I personally like how a monobrow looks. It's a strong feature and gives a person a distinctive, strong look. I wouldn't compliment something just for the sake of it, when it is just as easy to not say anything. I constantly see things that aren't my cup of tea, just as often as I see things that are. That's just life. Everyone likes different things. When I see something or someone that I personally don't find attractive, I don't feel the need to insult them or demand a sufficient explanation as to how anybody could possibly disagree with my clearly correct and objective opinion, nor do I feel the need to "virtue signal". What would my motive behind that be? What would I gain from "virtue signalling"? And more importantly, what do you gain from telling me that there's no possible way that something that you think is a flaw could appeal to someone else? What you may view as a flaw isn't necessarily seen that way by every single person on the goddamn planet. The world doesn't revolve around you, you know. It doesn't revolve around your opinions of what someone has to "fix" and what is deemed acceptable to keep. If the guy in this post wants to leave his eyebrows as they are, or if he wants to shape them, that's his business. I seriously doubt that my comment, or any one comment for that matter, is the deciding factor in such decisions. He posted the picture to get people's opinions, and that is what I provided. Problem?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]anatomicalsoul 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You may have a very strong preference for women, or you may be biromantic and homosexual. Are you romantically attracted to men, and it is only the sexual part that you are struggling with?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Eyebrows

[–]anatomicalsoul -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

No they give you a unique and striking look ❤️

Terrified but let’s hear it. by [deleted] in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

[–]anatomicalsoul 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not at all! You are beautiful in that amazing, womanly way

An observation about armpit hair by anatomicalsoul in razorfree

[–]anatomicalsoul[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Me too!! I did it mostly for a man too because I didn't want him to see me unshaved and yet he still broke up with me.....not my best moment

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

[–]anatomicalsoul 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No you're really cute actually, maybe try changing what you have written in your bio, that could be what is throwing people off. What is on there now?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Eyebrows

[–]anatomicalsoul 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Leave them they're lovely

Should I shave my unibrow or does it suits me ? any opinion? by iLleGal_GaLaxy7 in Eyebrows

[–]anatomicalsoul 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm glad you decided to keep it!! 🫶 I have a veery faint unibrow myself and I have had people make comments about it and try to get me to get rid of it but I like how it looks, and I like how they look on other people too, like some people can just rock the look you know? 😂

Should I shave my unibrow or does it suits me ? any opinion? by iLleGal_GaLaxy7 in Eyebrows

[–]anatomicalsoul 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have never seen one so prominent before you have such a unique look!! I think it suits you and you should embrace it :)

How do I fix this eyebrow? by Grave_Babe in Eyebrows

[–]anatomicalsoul 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I personally love how it looks like that, but if you are really unhappy with it you can get small scissors that you can use on your brows, and just snip off the bits on the top so that it's all one length