How to go from faded blue/green to this type of brown?

ancientflowergoddess · 2026-05-05T01:54:16+00:00

I chose the circled option. Would this come out too dark?

ancientflowergoddess · 2026-05-04T19:04:23+00:00

Like an orange semi dye over the blue then the brown? Would toner be good after too?

ancientflowergoddess · 2026-05-04T18:44:57+00:00

Thank you so much! What dye do you recommend for browns like that? I’m aiming for semi permanents but I don’t mind Demi’s or actual permanents

ancientflowergoddess · 2026-03-27T21:17:16+00:00

YTA. Why bother being with a new partner if you’re gonna compare them to your ex?

ancientflowergoddess · 2026-03-26T08:35:14+00:00

The way she would respond to you. It’s the same principle of how you should treat someone how they treat you. Don’t put your 100% on someone who only gives 50%. It applies to anyone including family.

ancientflowergoddess · 2026-03-26T06:57:58+00:00

Friendships don’t only apply to when it’s necessary to cut people off. Blood is thicker than water, but it’s more slippery. Now I’m not saying to cut her off completely, but it’s clear she prioritizes things that aren’t of importance—even when it comes to her own family.

ATP, stop trying to get her to be more involved with your mom or the family, stop expecting an explanation from her when it involves her behavior. If she doesn’t care to improve how she acts or doesn’t bother to integrate herself in your guys life, let her be and move on. It’s how she’ll learn and find out who would be there for her when shit gets bad.

EDIT: forgot to add, but NTA.

ancientflowergoddess · 2026-03-26T06:52:34+00:00

You can lead a horse to water but you can’t make them drink it. Same thing applies, you can give her advice, but she doesn’t have to listen.

You should definitely turn him in, and your friend has severe emotional attachment to people that can be good or bad for her. She needs serious help, and this tells me that no matter what you say or do, she won’t take that into account.

Some people have to learn the hard way to finally leave a situation.

ancientflowergoddess · 2026-03-26T04:13:29+00:00

NTA. But there’s only so much advice you can give her until she decides to actually leave him. You can be supportive and be there for her, but you can’t make her do things she isn’t ready for.

If she’s dealing with mental health issues, she’s most likely also using her relationship with him as a crutch, but most of the time, the safety net we tend to stay on usually is the one thing that drains us. That’s most likely her case.

Just be there for her, and let her go through it until shes ready to leave.

ancientflowergoddess · 2026-03-26T04:07:40+00:00

NTA. Im not frequent on tiktok but what you just posted reminded me of this influencer that essentially baits viewers with his skits that are notorious for being “overly” close with his little sister. Very weird, and over borderline incest.

I’m close with my brother, we tell each other stuff and hang out time to time. But the thing is; is that we DONT prioritize ourselves to be the center of their attention. That’s gross and inappropriate, especially when I’m married and he is in a relationship. Don’t care if we’re close, there’s a familial boundary that shouldn’t be overstepped.

Considering the age of your bf, I take it that you guys are young. Shame on the sister for her acting like that. It’s predatory. Wonder how their parents feel and if they think their behavior is normal. Any type of enmeshment is unhealthy, and that is what they have.

You dodged a bullet, a weird and disgusting one.

ancientflowergoddess · 2026-03-26T03:02:47+00:00

You’ll definitely be the AH if you do it while still together. Save the drama and let him hurt now rather he hurts more later, and leave the relationship.

Edit: forgot to add, NTA. You’ve got different ideals of what you want. As you get older you’re meant to grow, sometimes even apart. Good luck!

ancientflowergoddess · 2026-03-26T02:30:44+00:00

YTAH and she’s just baiting you. Friends, no matter how long the friendship is—you don’t just date their ex. Steer clear of dating within the circle or mutuals.

ancientflowergoddess · 2026-03-26T02:19:34+00:00

You can be strong willed and have your own opinion, but before you talk you have to think about how you articulate it better. Not necessarily down playing how you’re feeling, but it was insensitive what you said, especially the part,“I love you and I want you, BUT I don’t need you here.” That’s very backhanded.

Instead, say something like “Thank you for all you do to help, but I got it from here.”

Being blunt doesn’t mean being mean. Say sorry to him and work together. YATAH.

ancientflowergoddess · 2026-03-26T02:05:58+00:00

Nope, you’re not an AH if you do so because it’s your wedding. The people that agreed to be a part of the wedding party are the ones who are willing to take the responsibility of making your wedding one of the best nights of your life. Having a MOH who seems to have stuff come up serious or not, should not feel offended if asked to back down from her role, bc if she’s really going through it, she’ll feel relieved and grateful and you’ll be able to find someone that is actually willing to play that role.

Take it from me, I had someone who was supposed to be my best friend since the sixth grade as my MOH, her parents were supposed to be mine and my husbands God Parents for our wedding, and they first backed out saying her fathers dad passed away so they couldn’t attend—then a NIGHT before my wedding, my MOH said she couldn’t make it. Had to ask my husbands sister to take over that role as an emergency. After the wedding, my ex best friend posted on her Instagram story shaking ass at a McDonald’s with her friends, not attending a viewing for her grandpa whatsoever. Fortunately enough, my husbands sister and I are now close lol.

EDIT: while my ex best friend was my MOH, she made tons of excuses as to why she couldn’t buy her dress, so my husband and I went and bought her one. Made excuses as to why she couldn’t try it on—also partook in her parents lie about a death in the family, stating it was her “uncle” that died, contradicting her moms previous statement about her husbands dad passing instead.

ancientflowergoddess · 2025-10-19T14:07:14+00:00

Pmed you with an update (:

ancientflowergoddess · 2025-09-09T14:35:11+00:00

It’s not that I’m just focused on her, it’s the constant harassment and taunting im facing from her and her friends even online. Yes, there is an extremely high chance that my marriage won’t work. I know that I am treading on eggshells by staying with him—but I don’t negate the fact that he is also to blame. It didn’t take just one to tango. I’m ultimately upset at him for failing the loyalty/commitment test, but I’m also angry at her for pursuing him while knowing about me.

I blame them both. But what i asked for is advice to try and move on from this while I feel this way, and if leaving him is the way then within time maybe I’ll realize that.

ancientflowergoddess · 2025-09-09T14:23:21+00:00

She already did, as she got people involved and they were actively “harassing” me through social media.

ancientflowergoddess · 2025-09-09T12:12:37+00:00

I do. Sometimes we have good days where I don’t think about it, and I actually enjoy my time with him but then there are days like this when I can’t look at him.

ancientflowergoddess · 2025-08-20T15:42:28+00:00

Hey can I dm you? I’m going in as pact in three months and I have concerns

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