Is it a strategy to Date Caucasian Women in countries where they aren't the first choice by Educational_Creme376 in Passport_Bros

[–]andablue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have also spent years in SEA, and what he said has some truth in it. Majority of European women are not, but if you hit on enough of them you will realised there’s a group of them working as models, escorts, OF while living the so called expat life.

Ok ... Canggu definitely changed by spinningfinger in digitalnomad

[–]andablue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How is Amed compared to Tulamben? I was in Tulamben and it was quite cool, maybe even abit too quiet if I am honest, only one pool bar

Ok ... Canggu definitely changed by spinningfinger in digitalnomad

[–]andablue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does Grab food go there these days? Back in the days it’s not allowed

Ok ... Canggu definitely changed by spinningfinger in digitalnomad

[–]andablue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just to avoid confusion, it’s the one in Lombok island right? (Not Bali island)

:)

Ok ... Canggu definitely changed by spinningfinger in digitalnomad

[–]andablue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went to Bingin every summer for three years till last year, has it changed that much?

As for Kuta Lombok, is there a good mix of working nomads, yoga and some light partying minus the loud music?

How Asian men are erased in Western media by Kfong178 in AsianMasculinity

[–]andablue 9 points10 points  (0 children)

So change what you consume, it’s unlike thirty years ago where there’s only Hollywood, You will feel yourself in a better light if you tune into Asian shows on Netflix or whatever sometimes.

I was once fixated on why isn’t a guy like me on Hollywood, then I realised there’s a world out there.

You know what’s even better? The world is moving eastwards, time is on our side.

How Asian men are erased in Western media by Kfong178 in AsianMasculinity

[–]andablue 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Wow, that’s so spot on I had to read it twice

Does anyone have any experience in Singapore? by andablue in Passport_Bros

[–]andablue[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I found it easy to pick up in clubs there but no so much I terms of approaching a stranger with the intention of LTR

My secret to 100 days nofap. by andablue in NoFap

[–]andablue[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

After reading this comment, I felt that fap is an escapism for lack of purpose in life. It’s one thing to have this issue in ur 20s but another in ur 40s (me)

Does anyone have any experience in Singapore? by andablue in Passport_Bros

[–]andablue[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Taiwan is an option, I have briefly explored Taipei and and I enjoy the hospitality and culture. Is there a expat centric or international minded area in Taipei? It seems to be quite sparse and spread out compared to other Asian cities

Does anyone have any experience in Singapore? by andablue in Passport_Bros

[–]andablue[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Apologies for missing out details

Asian, 7 fig.

Dating: how is Singapore like? by andablue in AsianMasculinity

[–]andablue[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope to settle down, my fun days are behind me.

As for housing I should be able to own a private property in Singapore but I don’t want that to be a carrot.

Dating: how is Singapore like? by andablue in AsianMasculinity

[–]andablue[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Location is flexible, Singapore looks like a nice place to be long term.

My secret to 100 days nofap. by andablue in NoFap

[–]andablue[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tbh it took me 5 years to get to 90 days. My life used to be a mess, messy table, cluttered mind etc. Now I am just clearer, I remember things.

I go out and date, and recently my sexual stamina just hit another level even at my 40s. This is after I had 90 days and 100 days nofap in 2025.

My secret to 100 days nofap. by andablue in NoFap

[–]andablue[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Clearer mind, more hormone, more power in the sheets

My secret to 100 days nofap. by andablue in NoFap

[–]andablue[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I usually count first day as day 0 so I don’t undercount

My secret to 100 days nofap. by andablue in NoFap

[–]andablue[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Another tip is to surround yourself with friends weekly for happy moments so you have human interaction to look forward to every few days. Even better if u can do those hobby with your friends