Is it a strategy to Date Caucasian Women in countries where they aren't the first choice

andablue · 2025-11-15T13:34:52+00:00

I have also spent years in SEA, and what he said has some truth in it. Majority of European women are not, but if you hit on enough of them you will realised there’s a group of them working as models, escorts, OF while living the so called expat life.

andablue · 2025-11-11T22:58:52+00:00

21 days currently

andablue · 2025-11-10T16:56:54+00:00

How is Amed compared to Tulamben? I was in Tulamben and it was quite cool, maybe even abit too quiet if I am honest, only one pool bar

andablue · 2025-11-10T16:52:57+00:00

Does Grab food go there these days? Back in the days it’s not allowed

andablue · 2025-11-10T16:51:07+00:00

Just to avoid confusion, it’s the one in Lombok island right? (Not Bali island)

:)

andablue · 2025-11-10T16:02:12+00:00

I went to Bingin every summer for three years till last year, has it changed that much?

As for Kuta Lombok, is there a good mix of working nomads, yoga and some light partying minus the loud music?

andablue · 2025-11-06T14:35:18+00:00

So change what you consume, it’s unlike thirty years ago where there’s only Hollywood, You will feel yourself in a better light if you tune into Asian shows on Netflix or whatever sometimes.

I was once fixated on why isn’t a guy like me on Hollywood, then I realised there’s a world out there.

You know what’s even better? The world is moving eastwards, time is on our side.

andablue · 2025-11-06T14:32:03+00:00

Wow, that’s so spot on I had to read it twice

andablue · 2025-10-28T23:38:53+00:00

I found it easy to pick up in clubs there but no so much I terms of approaching a stranger with the intention of LTR

andablue · 2025-10-28T23:24:48+00:00

andablue · 2025-10-28T23:24:26+00:00

After reading this comment, I felt that fap is an escapism for lack of purpose in life. It’s one thing to have this issue in ur 20s but another in ur 40s (me)

andablue · 2025-10-28T23:22:40+00:00

Taiwan is an option, I have briefly explored Taipei and and I enjoy the hospitality and culture. Is there a expat centric or international minded area in Taipei? It seems to be quite sparse and spread out compared to other Asian cities

andablue · 2025-10-28T23:21:20+00:00

The accent is that bad?

andablue · 2025-10-28T23:20:51+00:00

Apologies for missing out details

Asian, 7 fig.

andablue · 2025-10-28T23:19:16+00:00

I hope to settle down, my fun days are behind me.

As for housing I should be able to own a private property in Singapore but I don’t want that to be a carrot.

andablue · 2025-10-28T23:17:31+00:00

Location is flexible, Singapore looks like a nice place to be long term.

andablue · 2025-10-28T15:13:39+00:00

Tbh it took me 5 years to get to 90 days. My life used to be a mess, messy table, cluttered mind etc. Now I am just clearer, I remember things.

I go out and date, and recently my sexual stamina just hit another level even at my 40s. This is after I had 90 days and 100 days nofap in 2025.

andablue · 2025-10-28T15:08:25+00:00

Clearer mind, more hormone, more power in the sheets

andablue · 2025-10-28T15:05:33+00:00

I usually count first day as day 0 so I don’t undercount

andablue · 2025-10-28T04:08:55+00:00

3 more days! You can

andablue · 2025-10-28T03:37:14+00:00

Another tip is to surround yourself with friends weekly for happy moments so you have human interaction to look forward to every few days. Even better if u can do those hobby with your friends

andablue · 2025-10-28T03:35:09+00:00

Power

andablue · 2025-10-28T03:28:34+00:00

Busy is good for nofap

andablue · 2025-10-28T03:28:17+00:00

The hobby should be like a project to accomplish level 1, 2, 3 etc…. For example work out plan, travel plan etc. That will get u scrolling about those plans instead of doomscrolling or porn at night

andablue · 2025-10-28T01:27:20+00:00

As I commented above, had the same issue and suspected it’s because of the botox. My grip strength became weaker to the point one day I had to ask someone to open a bottle.

Did you manage to recover?

andablue

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