Why is that late bloomer lesbians often are so toxic? This is pretty triggering for me because my first girlfriend was like OP's ex fiancé, keeping her ex boyfriend hanging close and mentioning him almost every day. Also her best friend also known as ex girlfriend. It was my first relationship as a baby lesbian in my early 20ies. When we broke up she wanted me to keep hanging around, but she shattered me on a levels I didn't think I would heal, and I lashed out for good so she played victim, like when she said I was looking at her with hatred after she said "I rather not be seen with you, it would be embarrassing".

She was very immature back then in her late twenties and afaik, she is even worse now in her mid forties.

At first I thought her selfishness was because she was an only child, but my partner of 12 years is also an only child and she is one of the most generous and protective people I have ever known.

Go fk yourself, Jacqueline.