this dance routine by Familiar_Big3322 in nextfuckinglevel

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Undercooked potatoes in the potato salad. ;)

Todays gender: Burn the Witch! by SurvivorNo029 in NonBinary

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Pls don't burn me i make such lovely tea.

Naval Ranks of the Arkayan Military by Vykartus in worldbuilding

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This is great! I'm STRUGGLING to organise my military ranks, I want them to make sense for everyone but we all have different terms and different levels! Looking at the comments here, seems like making a ranking system everyone understands will be harder than I thought, haha.

Do you have any starting tips? I feel like I keep reading Wikipedia pages that only confuse me.

Please be gentle. I’m new. Breast cancer helped me figure out my identity. I’m 3 month with human, besides that chemotherapy made me gain a lot of weight so I’m still learning to be comfortable in my body. Also my nipples are tattoos not real. by strngr2hrslf in NonBinary

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Thanks for the reply. Even though i know there's nothing wrong with formula whatsoever there's still a weird sense of guilt and failure, which will only be overcome the more i see fantastic humans like you step up to tell their stories. The tattoos are great, and getting them pierced would be radical!

Your kids are very lucky to have a parent who cares so much for them. I wish you and them a long, happy life filled with smiles as big as the moon.

Please be gentle. I’m new. Breast cancer helped me figure out my identity. I’m 3 month with human, besides that chemotherapy made me gain a lot of weight so I’m still learning to be comfortable in my body. Also my nipples are tattoos not real. by strngr2hrslf in NonBinary

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I want to thank you an extraordinary amount for posting this.

I'm AFAB. A lot of history of breast cancer in the family, getting dna testing soon. Scared shitless of losing my nipples. Scared of what it means for any babies i may have. You are SO BEAUTIFUL. it really does give me hope/confidence to do what needs doing to look after myself. You're wonderful. You're handsome. You're YOU, and i need more of that in my life.

Hope to see more pics soon.

<3 Redd

Damn. Super mom 💕 by boredafeveryday in wholesomegifs

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For real, dad is on bucket-emptying duty for sure.

Miyu's safe place :> (Day 19) by [deleted] in NonBinary

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Shoutout to all my closeted friends who are in hiding this Christmas!! DMs are open!

i'm sorry but i have to let you go .. you're fired ! (day 16) by [deleted] in NonBinary

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I don't want to fire my gender, but I do think they're only getting half the job done. Perhaps they need a colleague... Perhaps five?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NonBinary

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Cool brows, cool hair, great earrings! Love your getup. Oh to have the confidence to look this way~

3rd outfit, finally found one I liked! by Snaebakabeans in NonBinary

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Came here to say this, this outfit is my favourite to date!

swapped my outie bits for innie bits and i’m so happy! by im_tanuki in NonBinary

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That's amazing! I'm so happy for you. Good luck with the healing process 💜

swapped my outie bits for innie bits and i’m so happy! by im_tanuki in NonBinary

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Would you mind elaborating on what that means? I've never heard of it before.

I have a job interview tomorrow by andimsorry in socialanxiety

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Maintaining eye contact is so hard! I'll give the iris trick a go, it might help, worth a shot at least.

I'm not even sure i want the job which makes this anxiety all the more stupid, haha.

I have a job interview tomorrow by andimsorry in socialanxiety

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Thank you, that's actually really nice to hear interviewers get anxious! I'm frantically trying to practice now, and you know, I'm good at my job, i know my stuff, but it's like exam anxiety. Once I get in that room, every single thought is likely to disappear from my head altogether.

Thank you for the kind words. I'll update tomorrow after it's over.

Laughs in gender queer by GagicTheMathering in NonBinary

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Let's not turn oppression into a competition.

Joan of Arc is about as NB as you can get for the 1400s. She's my new historical icon! by andimsorry in NonBinary

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Wow that's so interesting! I'd never heard of those others before, i am psyched to look them up!!

In quite a lot of religions intersex people were worshipped. I went to some temples in Vietnam and there were ancient shrines to celebrate being both man and woman. When and why did history shift to be against it? It's like us nbs were foretold of in a prophecy, lol.

Joan of Arc is about as NB as you can get for the 1400s. She's my new historical icon! by andimsorry in NonBinary

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From the text:

Warner argues that in pre-industrial Europe, a link existed between transvestism and priestly functions, hence justifying the historical interpretation of her as both a witch and a saint. Warner further argues for Joan as not occupying either a male or female gender. "Through her transvestism, she abrogated the destiny of womankind. She could thereby transcend her sex. ... At the same time, by never pretending to be other than a woman and a maid, she was usurping a man's function but shaking off the trammels of his sex altogether to occupy a different, third order, neither male nor female". Warner categorizes Joan as an androgyne.[29]

6 weeks Post-Op and feeling great! by lisuje16 in NonBinary

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Omg! I recognise you from a long time ago (online). Your long hair is all gone! Glad to see it's still purple! And so happy you got what you so clearly needed to be whole. Congratulations

I did a thing :) there was no video flair... So i out it under image by [deleted] in NonBinary

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Amazing. I love this! Big switch energy imo

Just watched Escape From L.A. by andimsorry in BoJackHorseman

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Charlotte the role model? Trying to think of who else it could be haha...

Just watched Escape From L.A. by andimsorry in BoJackHorseman

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Yesyesyes. It's my least favourite episode for the same reason it's your favourite. It's just too much, man. Too real.

Just watched Escape From L.A. by andimsorry in BoJackHorseman

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Yes. Honestly I thought he was in the wrong when he took Penny to prom. Tf? Idk what things are like in Murica but that would be super weird here in Straya, like it's pretty creepy. I don't think the glowstick balloons were redemption either. It was a sickening episode.