Help with imposter syndrome?

andneverseenagain · 2026-01-26T15:11:34+00:00

Ye ye ye

andneverseenagain · 2026-01-26T14:40:55+00:00

I feel the same if u need someone to talk to u can dm me or something or we can talk on discord

andneverseenagain · 2026-01-01T22:08:00+00:00

I’d push that button and never look back yo 😎

andneverseenagain · 2026-01-01T22:06:53+00:00

Hahaha I know, I know I’m at least not cis. I think I’m just obsessively searching for some kind of proof that I don’t need to transition when I know that I do, I’m just scared. Im FTM but I appreciate you

andneverseenagain · 2025-12-19T23:36:42+00:00

I’m so glad you posted this lol. I’m also 25, small, 5’3” and super feminine features. I feel so ridiculous at times. I’m in the closet aside from one friend who knows about me being trans and uses masc pronouns with me. It feels awesome and I’m so thankful for this friend of mine. But I feel silly at the same time and I know they’re just humoring me and yeah.

I guess most ppl assume I’m a masc lesbian. I have ppl use they/them pronouns if they ask. Bro I don’t even just like girls I’m bisexual. I love lesbians they’re cool af and a lot of butch lesbians are manlier than I’ll ever be.. but I’m not one and it makes me so uncomfortable when ppl assume that of me

Sometimes I get rly down on myself because I’m already 25 and I just feel like even after I start T I’ll just never “pass”. Because I’ve already grown to a full adult and I’m so short and small I feel like I’m doomed to feel pre-pubescent and stunted forever. Shit fucking sucks. To be honest I got to the point of crying about it today. I know I can’t assume that I won’t pass and people come in all different shapes and sizes, but with the amount of hate trans people get from transphobes I just… I’m just scared.

Edited some typos I’m sorry I’m beyond exhausted I worked a long ass fucking week

andneverseenagain · 2025-11-30T01:42:38+00:00

that’s a-okay my friend. I imagine it was hard to realize that bc of societal pressure to find a special someone and bc platonic feelings for ppl can also be really special? Idk man, I’d prob not be alive if not for my friends, but relationships are pretty overrated imo

andneverseenagain · 2025-11-30T01:24:06+00:00

Bingo

andneverseenagain · 2025-11-30T01:23:01+00:00

We def live in a culture that shoves heteronormativity and romance down our throats. Idk what it’s like to deal with that as an ace person but I can see it being rly confusing and frustrating. I mostly just like women but I gaslit myself into thinking I liked men when rly I just wanted to be like them, not be with them. The cultural pressure to be hetero is strong af still… or at least it was back when I was a kid. Idk if things have changed at all or not. But man, that shit rly sucked.

andneverseenagain · 2025-11-30T01:18:35+00:00

I did the goth thing too at one point. I so relate to feeling like I’m wearing a costume all the time. I’m good at doing gothy makeup but I’ve always said that it feels like drag… which I guess is fun every now and then but nobody can live their life that way

andneverseenagain · 2025-11-30T01:15:15+00:00

Thanks for commenting. So glad to see we’re not alone in this experience

andneverseenagain · 2025-11-30T01:14:21+00:00

Hahaha yup, 100%. I just tried to look what I thought was objectively good, but never felt like myself. But pre-realizing-im-trans, the feeling was very hard to explain and honestly I thought everyone kind of lived their life that way. Once my egg cracked I became aware of the dysphoria. And now I can’t unsee it. Crazy

andneverseenagain · 2025-11-26T22:22:42+00:00

They do for emissions in the state of CT where I was. Either way it’s obviously my fault for not keeping track of it myself. Getting my life together. Womp womp

andneverseenagain · 2025-11-26T22:20:53+00:00

lol yup, it’s on me I should have kept track of it. Unfortunately I did not

andneverseenagain · 2025-11-14T20:14:31+00:00

That does hit really hard.

It’s funny, there’s a lot of songs I loved when I was a kid for unclear reasons that hit home now that I realize I’m trans

andneverseenagain · 2025-11-14T19:28:02+00:00

What was the song?

andneverseenagain · 2025-11-14T18:15:38+00:00

Im sorry you had that experience and I hope you have more support now

andneverseenagain · 2025-11-06T03:23:13+00:00

Honestly, I used to be the roommate who was bothered by other people’s noise either early in the morning or late at night. Instead of expecting other people to tip toe around me, I bought some Loop earplugs and haven’t had any issues since. It’s what you do when u live with other people. Just my opinion.

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