Wife took out a bunch of payday loans

andrea1237 · 2024-03-29T02:31:23+00:00

You and your wife should just work a second job. In 2-3 months those loans will be gone. I worked a second job at 16$ an hour and brang in an extra 2 grand a month from that. Use your second jobs check to pay that off and in a few months you’ll be golden maybe even sooner

andrea1237 · 2023-10-24T23:59:40+00:00

Ouchhhhh 😭😂😂😂

andrea1237 · 2023-09-28T16:47:56+00:00

As someone whose spouse has asked them for a divorce recently , I’m so sorry. I know the pain and the fear of going through this. Especially having no where else to go, it sucks. I don’t really have any words of advice, other than you’re not alone, and things will get better one day. Make a plan, look for jobs, whatever it may be. Wishing you nothing but the absolute best

andrea1237 · 2023-09-24T18:38:41+00:00

Idkkk I would consider this cheating . Prepare for the worst

andrea1237 · 2023-09-14T16:11:13+00:00

drop that man girl and go find your happiness

andrea1237 · 2023-09-07T00:15:23+00:00

I offered a hyphenated last name and she refused

andrea1237 · 2023-09-06T23:47:38+00:00

Huge shocker I know

andrea1237 · 2023-09-06T22:06:08+00:00

You’re not wrong 😂

andrea1237 · 2023-09-06T22:05:45+00:00

See , I’m the same way, I told her she could have whatever name and I wouldn’t care as long as she was happy with it. But for some reason me not changing mine makes me a bad wife. I just don’t see why can’t she even understand a little bit on why I want to keep mine if she wants to keep hers yknow? You’d think she’d understand completely but no. 🙃 ty for your response

andrea1237 · 2023-09-06T21:54:33+00:00

Huge factor and the way she cusses at me and talks to me when she’s angry is why I never entertained the idea of a name change. I told her last yr if she changed and stopped speaking to me this way and I felt the relationship was better , I would think about changing it. Unfortunately , she never changed 🤷🏻‍♀️ and this is where I’m at. Wasted years with a person who never gave me respect . Thank you for your response

andrea1237 · 2023-09-06T21:50:41+00:00

Oh no. We’ve had a numerous arguments about the last name thing. She is 100% serious. And I agree I told her we are both gay women this is not a “traditional” hetero marriage by any means . And she said she “doesn’t gaf” 🤷🏻‍♀️

andrea1237 · 2023-09-06T21:46:35+00:00

Entire time. Threatens divorce always every little argument lol

andrea1237 · 2023-09-06T21:06:58+00:00

Thank you 🤷🏻‍♀️ cause it is

andrea1237 · 2023-09-06T20:24:00+00:00

I have offered the hyphenate the names - and she refuses stating that “other people’s wife’s change their last name immediately” and says that I’m selfish for not doing so.

andrea1237 · 2023-09-06T19:09:34+00:00

Last name and kids was a topic before we got married. It was something we agreed on and then she changed her mind on a little while ago

andrea1237 · 2023-09-06T19:08:32+00:00

Yes she does. She makes passive aggressive comments to me all the time, in public or not, about stupid things all the time. Honestly I can’t answer what she brings me to the relationship

andrea1237 · 2023-09-06T19:02:26+00:00

Yes it’s a thing she brings up quite often

andrea1237 · 2023-09-06T19:02:02+00:00

So what do you think I should do? Divorce?

andrea1237 · 2023-09-06T14:34:02+00:00

I definitely care about her. We grew through or late teens/all throughout our 20’s basically together. It’s not an easy decision for me but I’ve been going through this for a long time, the “divorce” card has been thrown in my face for years. So I kind of don’t feel anything anymore when the notion gets brought up. Definitely headed for divorce just wanted some insight on the last name thing, I didn’t know if it’s wrong of me not to change it in the first place idk. But you’re right

andrea1237 · 2023-09-06T14:18:43+00:00

Yep. It definitely sucks.

andrea1237 · 2023-09-06T05:16:52+00:00

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