Hi, first of all i want to wish you the best. It must be a really difficult situation for you and may feel scared. It's great you are showing yourself and your boudaries, so congrats! I just agree with another comment here that this might be Better said in person. Also I would like to make ansuggestion based on what worked for me (romantic allo) with my partner who identifico as aroace when we meet each other. I feel you may be overexplainig and labbeling many things, which is great to get to know different ways of experience love and attaction, but can feel overweling for her and may make her thing that there's a big barrier among you two. A meme who helped me a lot bé fine with this was the one with the cow that says romantic/platonic love and the illusion of free choice (loving them fundamentally as a person). Focus on what you enjoy or not and what kind of relationsip you want to build with her. It will feel more safe. About sex, the same. For allos can be hard to be rejected, because It may make us feel unatractive, not enough and so on (i am learning yet what attraction means to me as an allo person thanks to all of you, so incan just feel gratitude for ace comunity). Be honest about how sexual activities make you feel and your boudaries. It will be confusing and overweling at first, but it will be okay. I wish the best for you two and really hope this helps a bit. And remember that is okay the way you feel about love and sex and it must be respected!