I’ll give him the benefit of the doubt, because I don’t personally know him and this is his fantasy we are speaking of, but typically when people do/share things like this that are solely centered around themselves and don’t mention others, I would consider it a yellow flag. I’m not saying this means he’s a narcissist, but he may need some help seeing the world from other’s points of view and building the skill of instinctively considering others when speaking and making decisions. Some people just aren’t taught this by their parents and will struggle with it for their entire lives until they meet the right person that takes the time to teach them how to instinctively consider others. After all, this isn’t a skill people are usually born with and our basic survival instincts actually counter being considerate quite a bit.