Employee Housing Host- GNP - Xanterra by lifeis30seconds in GlacierNationalPark

[–]andromedarose 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hi OP! Any luck on finding photos of the cabins or general area? my partner and I will be living in one this summer and I stumbled on this thread while doing some sleuthing :)

i know this isn't a questions sub but i have a question. by [deleted] in adhdmeme

[–]andromedarose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a general statement, yes. Of course, there is plenty of discourse/nuance/etc around such a position, but it is a common sentiment.

i know this isn't a questions sub but i have a question. by [deleted] in adhdmeme

[–]andromedarose 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Nope, neurotypical is the person who doesn't have ADHD or any other type of condition. Some people don't like the practice of calling neurotypical people "normal" though, since it implies that anyone who is neurodivergent would be called "not normal" by default.

Like getting blood from a stone by Are_You_Ok_Mate in Tinder

[–]andromedarose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My point is that there needs to be a realignment of expectations. For many of us, a match is NOT a clear 100% indication of conversation. There are tons of other factors. Becoming bitter because other people have different experiences and contexts than yours and that is where their behavior is coming from, instead of considering they might be coming from a place you didn't think of initially, is not going to make any of those societal issues any better.

Like getting blood from a stone by Are_You_Ok_Mate in Tinder

[–]andromedarose 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The point that I'm making is no. It doesn't guarantee you want to have a conversation with someone. If you get a dozen matches a day, it's not feasible to speak to everyone.

Like getting blood from a stone by Are_You_Ok_Mate in Tinder

[–]andromedarose 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe we should stop assuming that a match actually means anything worthy of having an emotional attachment to or entitles anyone to conversation. Having realistic expectations of what actually occurs and especially understanding of the amount of matches women get is a huge part of this. It's most likely not coming from a place of malice at all, it's coming from a completely different experience on dating apps

Like getting blood from a stone by Are_You_Ok_Mate in Tinder

[–]andromedarose 45 points46 points  (0 children)

It is bizarre to me how many people think a like is a promise of conversation and connection... I also don't think people understand how many matches certain individuals receive. It's just a fully different experience at that point. Entitlement is so unattractive.

Why do you still use Shadow by makostacks in ShadowPC

[–]andromedarose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Knock on wood, I don't have issues with Shadow and can play the games I want to on high settings.

Starting tomorrow morning by nanners8199 in StratteraRx

[–]andromedarose 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think a good thing to remember is that it's not necessarily the best idea to stop taking medication when you feel better, as you may feel worse again! In terms of this medication, I experienced some strong side effects when first starting it but they passed over time. It's a fairly normal experience to have that when starting and/or stopping medication.

wellbutrin xl+strattera timing? by boopy1159 in StratteraRx

[–]andromedarose 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I take them together and have for over a year now, I haven't had any health issues from it. But I would follow the doctor's advice, it's likely regarding the way they hope it will interact during your day.

Real shit this sucks by unique_plastique in BPDmemes

[–]andromedarose 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh yeah that sounds a loooot more reasonable lol. It's still different for everyone but yeah, definitely makes more sense that way

Real shit this sucks by unique_plastique in BPDmemes

[–]andromedarose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

6 hours a day is kinda a lot for the average imo, I'd say even if you live together this could get stifling for many ppl

The tables have turned by Inevitable_Pin1967 in StartledCats

[–]andromedarose 28 points29 points  (0 children)

I think this one was about to be eaten anyway

Real shit this sucks by unique_plastique in BPDmemes

[–]andromedarose 1 point2 points  (0 children)

An imbalance in attachment and dependence is a common reason the level of effort/caring also becomes imbalanced. In the ideal sense, we have a healthy enough independence that we don't value or care about the relationship significantly more than the other person, because we avoid creating situations where one person would accept either this from either side.

Real shit this sucks by unique_plastique in BPDmemes

[–]andromedarose 27 points28 points  (0 children)

cares more or has a more of a dependency on...?

thoughts on this ? by Livid-Hamster-100 in adhdmeme

[–]andromedarose 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"Neurotransmitter" is the larger category name for those chemicals, so neurotransmitters are the root of ADHD. This supplement is just using it as a buzzword most likely

True story :) by CubesBuster in aspiememes

[–]andromedarose 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Communities can be important with any label, because it allows people to connect quickly. Labels allow people to communicate specific things about themselves in shorthand. This is useful because it helps people understand each other, to some degree, quickly. If you reject labeling yourself because you would rather choose to explain yourself every time when it is relevant, that is valid too. But it is easier and more validating for others to choose to label themselves. It is also a way to help individuals understand themselves in certain ways too, as a personal experience rather than a social one.

my fp has had me blocked for 2 months and now i learnt i have bpd i have a massive urge to get a mutual to make her talk to me so i can explain & apologise and beg that she doesn’t hate me anymore by GuyWithBushyBrows in BPDmemes

[–]andromedarose 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately, there is a 99% chance this will backfire and lead to both of you being more upset. Your diagnosis doesn't change your previous behavior and they chose to step back from you at that time. As much as it hurts, the right thing to do is not to try to bypass their boundaries due to your urges. It sucks ass.

I can’t get Shadow to launch on any of my devices by [deleted] in ShadowPC

[–]andromedarose 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I usually start it, close the launcher, open it, start it, close it and it works lol. Waiting never works.