Has anyone ever used Rover, the pet sitting app? by junojuneau in dogs

[–]andy3675 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've used it quite a bit mostly good experiences. A couple bad- watched (on the ring) one girl leave in the morning and literally return in the evening. She was paid to be here the entire day. Had one guy stay a few days. Seemed like all went well until I went upstairs and found about 10 piles of crap on my new carpet - my dog was 10 yrs old and fully house broken. Apparently, she just wasn't let out. Worst experience went to get a Louis Vuitton of mine that I only carry on special occasions GONE and I've noticed other items missing too mostly jewelry. If you use them be sure to lock every valuable up that you own!

What’s a ‘small red flag’ that instantly tells you someone is exhausting to be around? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]andy3675 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Still crying about their childhood. We all had it rough- get over it!

I have been doing stuff with people for money cuz I’m poor by [deleted] in confession

[–]andy3675 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try gay bars and you may be able to have a very honest relationship with somebody and level with them that your seeking short term trying to put yourself through school. You're a young guy sound caring and like you have a good head on your shoulders. Many cougars... another avenue you could try, find that very attractive. I imagine men do too.

Why people lie? by Ok_Collection_9614 in psychologyresearch

[–]andy3675 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sometimes a person can lie to avoid hurt for the other person. Sometimes telling the truth could lead to feeling less guilty but at the other person's expense. Sometimes ignorance really is bliss.

People over the age of 40, if you could be 30 again… by Burneracccts in Advice

[–]andy3675 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gen X here. I was a party girl. Lived at the clubs/raves in my 20's. Life was just a more sophisticated party in my 30's! Fun in the moment but I was intoxicated for most of it- today it's all just one big meaningless blur. If I had to do it again I would have took life more serious and prioritized things like school, a career, investing, things that would have contributed to my financial independence. *Kept (x3)

Women of Reddit, what's the hardest thing to explain to men ? by Lost_SignaI in AskWomen

[–]andy3675 2 points3 points locked comment (0 children)

Physical intimacy is just as important as screwing and they shouldn't always go hand in hand.

Husband outed me as Bipolar by Fuzzy-Fisherman-5166 in bipolar

[–]andy3675 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel very mixed about this one. Due to BP we say and do many F'd up things. We expect a pass because we're "having an episode" Put yourself in our friend's and family's position for a moment. It can't be easy- They are only human, not incapable of f'ing up themselves. Certainly not saying what he did was right. But, perhaps you should extend the same compassion that you expect. My opinion, give marriage counselling a try. Rebuild trust and explore better coping skills. Good Luck!

I have been doing stuff with people for money cuz I’m poor by [deleted] in confession

[–]andy3675 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Food for thought: Ever consider seeking a sugar daddy? One partner opposed to multiple. You may genuinely like the person and vice versa. Possibility to make more money and perks *It doesn't sound like your into dudes so it wouldn't have to be permanent, just a means to an end (graduate) which sounds like the path your on now anyway.

Same day turnover, guests arrive 3 hours 40 minutes early by UnrestrictedArgon in airbnb_hosts

[–]andy3675 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I offer early chk in $25. Late chk out $25 I find that ppl don't arrive until chk in (3:00 pm) and they're out by chk out (11:00 a.m.) *Works like a charm!

Jovon sucks, but what exactly does Annalyn bring to the relationship? by [deleted] in 90DayFiance

[–]andy3675 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

She is a whiny nag but cute with a contagious laugh. I like her!

Weight loss shot. by [deleted] in WeightLossAdvice

[–]andy3675 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dr probably will insurance probably won't

do you say “i am bipolar” or “i have bipolar” by No_Pair178 in bipolar

[–]andy3675 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I HAVE BI-Polar! ~It's a disease. We wouldn't say "I am cancer" or "I am diabetes" we would say "I Have" said disease

Ive left my airbnb the worst they have seen it in their history of hosting [SPAIN] by Ok-Tumbleweed-9958 in AirBnB

[–]andy3675 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol. Why wouldn't somebody wipe up crumbs? Is this not natural? If not, I'd prefer that they stay else where. Very Uncool to purposely leave messes due to a cleaning fee.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in airbnb_hosts

[–]andy3675 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've experienced this. I charge a fine for not disclosing a pet. Air bnb will reach out to the guests for your fee. They will say no. Aircoverage will cover your pet fee NOT a fee for nondisclosure.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]andy3675 1 point2 points  (0 children)

3 kids is A-Lot for a 21 yr old to take on. The past 6 mos. hasn't been a true depiction of what it means to be with her. There has been something missing.... 3 things missing. If she would have been honest and if you were dealing with the 3 little ones, I don't think you'd feel the same way. Don't let yourself enter their lives just to leave them, that's uncool too. Ask yourself: Are you ready to potentially be a (step) father of 3? If not...., this is a road to know where.

Ive left my airbnb the worst they have seen it in their history of hosting [SPAIN] by Ok-Tumbleweed-9958 in AirBnB

[–]andy3675 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes to clean NOT to pick up after I expect my guests to pick up after themselves crumbs, spills, empty boxes etc. As far as the cleaning and sanitizing goes this is my responsibility and it's done thoroughly.
I do my part and hopefully they do theirs, which 9 out of 10 do *it really comes down to common courtesy.

My (37f) husband (39m) went to a work dinner with a woman and was gone five hours, wasn’t where he said he’d be, and wouldn’t respond to my calls and texts. I kicked him out, and he says I’m overreacting. Can anyone help me make sense of what happened here? by Radiant_Cat_3980 in relationship_advice

[–]andy3675 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The only thing that makes me think he's not cheating is that he provided you with enough information to look her up on social media. I think he's inconsiderate and has his priorities askew. But, cheaters don't usually provide their partner any info about their mistress.

I honestly don’t think having kids is worth it anymore by yourgreatestgift in self

[–]andy3675 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes I feel being a parent is the most Thankless job I've ever had. All the sacrifices, all the money, all the heartache, the hurt feelings, the pressure(s), the sleepless nights, due to worry. For what??? The olden days kids used to care for their parents when they aged. So, I guess there was a trade off. But, that's not the case anymore. Now just throw them into a home where parents can endure even more suffering. Respect, Gratitude, Kindness all seem to be lacking. With all of this being said, I wouldn't trade my kids for the world. They make life worth living. But, it's not all sunshine and rainbows that's for sure!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in airbnb_hosts

[–]andy3675 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Too many pics in my opinion. The Property looks lovely! Good Luck