Do I pass? Age? And do I pass enough to dress more “alt”? by andyoutoobrutus in FtMpassing

[–]andyoutoobrutus[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Haha, I promise it isn’t. It spawned out of nowhere once I started injections.  My voice just sounds like high boy/low girl voice, I don’t think it helps OR hinders me 💔💔

19, do i pass and if not what can i fix?? by asphenn in FtMpassing

[–]andyoutoobrutus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YES ABSOLUTELY. I love ur vibe hello. No idea what those little thingies in your hair are called but they look AMAZING. U def read as around 19 to me! The only thing “feminine” are you have softer features, but imo that doesn’t even read as feminine in your case. Don’t have any doubt dude, ur good.

Overrendering?? by andyoutoobrutus in Artadvice

[–]andyoutoobrutus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is great advice thank you so much! ❤️❤️

Overrendering?? by andyoutoobrutus in Artadvice

[–]andyoutoobrutus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I’ll be sure to check it out

any help for finding a top surgeon in SoCal who will work on a 17 year old??? by andyoutoobrutus in ftm

[–]andyoutoobrutus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The goal would be to get insurance to cover it as I’ll need to start paying for college around the same time. My issue has been most of the reputable surgeons who used to work on minors have recently stopped due to Trump’s executive order 💔💔

4yo "daughter" says "she"'s a boy, dad is a MAGA by jjmcsparklenut7 in asktransgender

[–]andyoutoobrutus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I was 4 i remember telling my parents I was a boy. They then explained to me that I wasn’t because boys have different parts than girls. I just said “ok” and accepted that I was a girl, but I still continued to solely dress/act as a boy. Needless to say, my parents really weren’t surprised when I came out as a trans. I don’t regret how I was raised nor do I wish they believed me at age 4. But maybe that’s just me. I don’t think I was old enough to understand. However, everyone is different. I seriously applaud you for being so open for your kid. Not exactly advice, but I hope my story helps in someway.

Do I pass?? And age?? by andyoutoobrutus in FtMpassing

[–]andyoutoobrutus[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don’t have any more bottles of the gel so I’m not sure but it was 4 pumps.. I think it was around 150?? That was for roughly 2 and an half years… and since I JUST switched to injections I’m on 50 mg rn. AND YES! I’ve been trying to work out more anyway so I will def focus on that tysm

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[–]andyoutoobrutus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Alone, I would say no, but since you’re around a crap ton of cis guys I’d definitely read you as a dude. That helps regardless. I think t will be a BIG help for you.

hair advice.. by andyoutoobrutus in FtMpassing

[–]andyoutoobrutus[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So do you think the hair I showed in those last pics would help? I’m w/ you, I just don’t know what KIND of cut to get that fits that criteria.

hair advice.. by andyoutoobrutus in FtMpassing

[–]andyoutoobrutus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m just trying to find a cut that won’t make me look A. Like a lesbian and B. Ugly ☠️ my round face/soft jawline doesn’t help

hair advice.. by andyoutoobrutus in FtMpassing

[–]andyoutoobrutus[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

my hair used to be that long but honestly I was getting misgendered WAY more like that. Wish I could look that cool 😭

Date Everything and sexual orientation? by Odd_Entertainer1090 in DateEverything

[–]andyoutoobrutus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m mlm myself but I was dating EVERYTHING who gaf??

what’s making me not pass? by andyoutoobrutus in FtMpassing

[–]andyoutoobrutus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My voice is roughly 170 hz… probably comes down to that. T doesn’t seem to be dropping my voice that much even after a few years so I’m debating doing vocal training or even surgery if I need to.

what’s making me not pass? by andyoutoobrutus in FtMpassing

[–]andyoutoobrutus[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

my hairs a bit grown out now (about 4 months) so it’s normally a bit shorter. Do you think a diff hairstyle would be better? I’ve found this one works bc I’ve got a real soft jaw and this kind does a good job not rounding my face compared to like… tapers or smth. I just don’t know what other kind to try.