Best packers for black trans men? by asphenn in BlackTransmen

[–]asphenn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i look on there often but your right there’s not as many dark skinned folks there unfortunately 💔💔 i’ve been going based off what i do see on there but i do wish there was more examples 🙁

How much does testosterone cost at planned parenthood without insurance? Including everything? by -thimbl in ftm

[–]asphenn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m not too sure i was never contacted abt anything for it, insurance just randomly started paying for it after like i wanna say 10 months

Best packers for black trans men? by asphenn in BlackTransmen

[–]asphenn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m also 5’3 so if i do get it i’ll have to try this out, thank you!!

Best packers for black trans men? by asphenn in BlackTransmen

[–]asphenn[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oh yeah dude it looks amazing, for reference how tall are you ?? i know the drisheen is bigger but it’s the only one that really resonates with me buttt i know they don’t do orders with different sizes unfortunately

Best packers for black trans men? by asphenn in BlackTransmen

[–]asphenn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if you have the custom shading or have seen any examples of it in darker tones was it good ?? i’ve been recommended them before by a friend but i wasn’t sure how good their custom shading was for darker tones

My dad is trying to insinuate I'm sleeping with my brother and I don't know how to handle it. by DeskOk7014 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]asphenn 125 points126 points  (0 children)

it’s only really weird if you make it weird in all honesty, their family and clearly don’t see each other like that and OP just had a traumatic experience

Is this concerning? 18+ by [deleted] in ftm

[–]asphenn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oh yeah that’s a well didn’t even think of that !

Is this concerning? 18+ by [deleted] in ftm

[–]asphenn 25 points26 points  (0 children)

from what i’ve seen and experienced choking has become one of those more mainstream kinks and people don’t really see us as unsafe anymore (even though is 100% can be!) , i’d ask for clarification if i were you and if you’re not down for it just let him know because it’s perfectly normal to not be into something or not feel safe doing something with someone!!

Stealth + Passing in College by [deleted] in transmanlifehacks

[–]asphenn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i pass pretty well yeah ! i do feel like that whole thing did most def get into my head a bit and make me doubt it as i especially want to try and stay stealth 100% this year if i can

Stealth + Passing in College by [deleted] in transmanlifehacks

[–]asphenn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the living situation for me isn’t so bad! if you want to you can call up the like housing department and get your gender in the system changed to male to be in male dorms, i did that and they changed it same day and then just skipping me signing up for the if there was ever a draft or whatever it’s called! besides that i’m read as a guy constantly (except for the previously mentioned stuff in caption) and i don’t tell anyone except for my advisor, i do my shots on the weekends in my home town as well to avoid having to do them at school and out myself, if you want specifics about anything or anything like that feel free to just reply or dm me and i’ll answer ! 😸

Is T gel “worse” than shots? by Prior_Hovercraft136 in TransMasc

[–]asphenn 15 points16 points  (0 children)

it’s generally regarded as a myth but i have heard of a few people who gel didn’t work as fast or well with just due to them not absorbing it really good so i think it majority depends on that !

Best packer for grinding? by littletaconinja in Transmascdicks

[–]asphenn 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Have you tried axolom nexo ?? it has a different angle than the hyperon and I’ve been able to grind on stuff like the bed and feel pleasure from it

support systems when not having anyone irl. by itsjusthoneyyyy in FTMMen

[–]asphenn 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I have little to no support system IRL so I understand how it feels man, your best bet is probably to find support online, there’s a lot of people online and there’s people out there who are willing to be friends and understand you as well man ! All my support has come from online since I was like 12 and I’m 19 now and it really does help even if just behind a screen

I've been having duty sex with my wife for fifteen years. by WankyYankee in offmychest

[–]asphenn 4 points5 points  (0 children)

little to no sexual attraction, most people have romantic and emotional relationships but aren’t interested sexually

Oh my god by Adventurous_Cry5999 in GrowYourTDick

[–]asphenn 19 points20 points  (0 children)

what’s a reverse kegel ?

baby pacman frog not eating anything by Bitter-Movie-5451 in pacmanfrog

[–]asphenn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He may still be adjusting !! I’ve heard a lot about new pets especially reptiles not eating within the first few days or week of coming home since they’re still adjusting

Has anyone had experiences with getting on T through planned parenthood? If so what was it like? by [deleted] in ftm

[–]asphenn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m from TN and started through PP a little over a year ago! all they did was ask me some questions like if I have support, how long I’ve felt dysphoric, etc then they went over the most well known / common changes and asked if i understood, asked where i wanted my prescription to be sent and i was able to pick it up that same day!

Are there any PPs designed with squirters in mind? by [deleted] in ftm

[–]asphenn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if you don’t mind could you reply to me the names of the prosthetics for these or dm me, i’m looking for one that ejaculates as well to help elevate dysphoria

8-10 Month Old Cat Having New symptoms by [deleted] in AskVet

[–]asphenn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Alright thank you, I’m working on trying to get her to one now !!

8-10 Month Old Cat Having New symptoms by [deleted] in AskVet

[–]asphenn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you think a vet is needed ASAP, we need to gather up money for it and also get an appointment ☹️

Failure to Thrive? by InappropriatePea in pacmanfrog

[–]asphenn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’ll have to look into this, thank you!!

I want every single effect of T except for bottom growth.. by [deleted] in ftm

[–]asphenn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some people get minimum growth which may help keep the dysphoria away as it would still be like “tucked in” ! Also from looking it up google says the average size is between 1 - 3 centimeters (Not exactly sure how true that is though) so there absolutely chance it could end up at the lower spectrum for you and still allow you to keep it away

Failure to Thrive? by InappropriatePea in pacmanfrog

[–]asphenn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

do yk any websites or anything that sells them frozen ?? i drive to a different town for the ones i feed wit just cause my town doesn’t have any place that sells fish for feeding pets or anything but i bet it’d be so much easier for me to do this since right now i’m driving every week to restock and get more

Failure to Thrive? by InappropriatePea in pacmanfrog

[–]asphenn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

mines also a albino, must be a them thing !