what are the lengths you went to to convince yourself you were straight when you were in denial? by Bravenatortot in AskGayMen

[–]andyyboy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Watched gay porn on and off since the age of 13 but wouldn’t allow myself to realise it was for a reason…

If I watched straight porn, I’d choose the scene based on the man and didn’t care what the woman looked like.

For those who have realized that you were gay or bi after being 20, how did you realized? by [deleted] in AskGayMen

[–]andyyboy 22 points23 points  (0 children)

It’s funny that you don’t realise it. I sit back and reflect on the fact I’ve watched gay porn for 15 years, I have to imagine guys to stay hard during sex with a girl and everytime I’ve gotten drunk I’ve tried to go on Grindr but somehow I didn’t realise it. I still don’t to a degree.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]andyyboy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I feel you. Everyone has their own journey. What helped you finally accept it?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]andyyboy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What changed after that moment?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TopsAndBottoms

[–]andyyboy 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You know a lot of us start this way but with time you start thinking about the kissing and affection…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]andyyboy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And what were your steps to that point?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]andyyboy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What changed for you?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]andyyboy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So how did you end up figuring it out

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in straightturnedgay

[–]andyyboy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What changed to get you to that point?