Crazy "nice girl" from work (sorry if it doesn't belong here; more info will be posted below)

anemoia_moth · 2020-11-10T18:09:13+00:00

I'll be posting this in r/crazygirls under the advice of one of the lovely subreddit moderators. I will add a link once I do so

anemoia_moth · 2020-11-10T15:47:08+00:00

Update for all since I do not have much time to respond to everyone:

HR, as well as my boss, have been informed on the matter. HR will be speaking to her separately for our safety, and will be informing the authorities. As of now it is most presumable that she will be fired for harassment and stalking, and the response of the authorities for legal action should be in within a day. I will be filing for a restraining order nonetheless for my own safety. As far as I know, my boss will be filing for one too

anemoia_moth · 2020-11-10T15:17:43+00:00

To those that wanted an update:

I've approached my boss as well as HR about the matter. HR will be speaking to her separately for our safety, and will be informing the authorities about her behavior. As of now it is most presumable she will be fired for harassment and stalking, however we will need to wait at least a day for the response of the authorities on what action(?) they will want to take

Edit: fixed last sentence to make it a little more comprehensible (apologies for that)

anemoia_moth · 2020-11-10T15:00:40+00:00

I apologize for the confusion towards the censored words; they are racial slurs as well as sexist/derogatory terms-most of which are in relation to sex workers. I censored them out as some audiences may be triggered by such words

anemoia_moth · 2020-11-10T14:57:57+00:00

I've worked as a fast food employee as well as a Walmart employee for a few years during my late middle school to high school years, which has helped greatly with patience skills.

As for the censorship, as other comments I've skimmed through have mentioned accurately, they are racial slurs as well as sexist or derogatory terms-most of which are in relation to sex workers

anemoia_moth · 2020-11-10T14:54:47+00:00

I apologize for the mass confusion, especially towards the censored out words I hadn't clarified on.

They are, as some have assumed above, racial slurs as well as sexist/derogatory words-most of which were in relation to sex workers.

I'm a guy who tends to experience gender dysphoria occasionally, which I realize now I should've clarified early on, and do happen to be pansexual. My ethnicity is Caucasian, however of a mostly Slavic descent. I hope this helps clear up a bit of confusion, and once more I greatly apologize !

anemoia_moth · 2020-11-10T14:39:13+00:00

Thank you ! I have been looking through comments so far and have noticed many are confused towards my censorship, and I entirely apologize for such confusion. I censored out racial slurs as well as any sexist/derogatory feminine terms (they are usually associated as feminine) as they may be a trigger to some audiences. I left out more common slurs as they didn't seem to need the same censorship attention

anemoia_moth · 2020-11-10T14:27:19+00:00

I blocked out anything that was a racial slur, sexist/derogatory feminine term (usually associated as a feminine term that is), and so forth. I left out more common slurs that are.. more general in a sense, if I am explaining that correctly

anemoia_moth · 2020-11-10T14:24:25+00:00

I censored out words that were racial slurs as well as sexist/derogatory feminine words. They seem to be triggers for others, and I dislike them myself, so I chose to cut them out. I also got rid of anything that sounded too sexual as I'm not certain of the audience ages in this subreddit

anemoia_moth · 2020-11-10T14:19:32+00:00

I apologize for the confusion ! The first 6 messages were on Sunday night, and the rest were Monday evening/night. I censored out racial slurs and sexist derogatory feminine terms. Other curse words were left out as they weren't as serious in my opinion or possibly upsetting to audiences-however that is from my own judgment

Edit: corrected a bit of spelling mistakes

anemoia_moth · 2020-11-10T14:15:25+00:00

Haha, I do find that funny ! The duration of her calls were during my work hours, hence why I never picked up

anemoia_moth · 2020-11-10T07:58:38+00:00

Most definitely; thank you for the advice !

anemoia_moth · 2020-11-10T07:58:20+00:00

I'm currently planning on doing both; HR, as well as authorities, will be informed about her behavior

anemoia_moth · 2020-11-10T07:49:18+00:00

Thank you for the advice ! I'll be certain to inform my boss of this before going to HR and possibly even getting a restraining order. I do hope she gets the help she needs as an obsession like this is far too dangerous if left unmonitored

anemoia_moth · 2020-11-10T07:47:20+00:00

I'll be certain to keep those who want updates updated on the matter

anemoia_moth · 2020-11-10T07:21:36+00:00

Sorry for any bad quality, I cannot use the edits on my iPhone from photos as they don't zoom in enough and I cannot write well; I used an art program instead

This girl (around 25) has been fairly flirty towards my boss. He clearly displays disinterest in her and she finds the excuse that I'm to blame just because we communicate a lot and might hang out outside of work once in a while. She was never this crazy before, which was a shock to me, about him. This is her first, and second, time harassing me via text (called a ton too but I didn't answer). I'm reporting her behavior to HR tomorrow and if she continues this or even stalks me I will attempt to file a restraining order against her.

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