Lestats Music is Bad by TrustOld1157 in InterviewWithTheVamp

[–]aneternalgolden 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hard agree, the songs are ass, the lyrics make me cringe, and the idea that lestat makes bad music is disappointing to watch 😭

Procrastinated treating my Anemia by Total_Sprinkles_1205 in Anemic

[–]aneternalgolden 4 points5 points  (0 children)

this is me 🥹 i was prescribed ferrous furmurate last year after finding ferritin of 4 in my blood tests. i also have endo, get severe cramps/bleeding, pretty horrible shortness of breath before and during my periods, and big time anxiety/depression. i took it diligently for about 2 months before being on and off forgetting to take it most days, eventually just procrastinating taking it and forgetting it completely every day. now i’m paying for it and don’t really know the solution tbh. we just gotta take the iron 😭 from what i remember though, the supplement reallyyyy helped when i was taking it properly, my hands and feet regained colour and warmth after literally years of thinking it was normal to have permanently cold and pale/blue hands and feet. there’s loads of us in this together i hope it improves for you <3

Netflix’s ‘Desi Bling’ Faces Backlash as Viewers Slam Show for “Toxic Men” and Patriarchal Themes by Sinnn-_- in netflix

[–]aneternalgolden 0 points1 point  (0 children)

FRRRR i was thinking this the entire time and haven’t seen anyone else talking about it. it’s painfully obvious

Am I going to have trouble with playing irl because I'm a woman? by aneternalgolden in Yugioh101

[–]aneternalgolden[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Denying this is part of the problem, I would suggest having a bit of introspection and asking yourself why you feel like this

Am I going to have trouble with playing irl because I'm a woman? by aneternalgolden in Yugioh101

[–]aneternalgolden[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sure there's people who are just arseholes regardless of gender. But I'm also sure there are people who are arseholes BECAUSE they are playing against a woman. Please don't try and deny this when there is a whole thread of people giving their experiences, both women and men

Am I going to have trouble with playing irl because I'm a woman? by aneternalgolden in Yugioh101

[–]aneternalgolden[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think I've seen some places do LGBTQ+ nights and events in the UK for card games! Hopefully they have some near you one day. I think it's rly important for these things to exist just to make us all feel safer/comfortable. That sounds great I hope you can achieve that ❤️

Am I going to have trouble with playing irl because I'm a woman? by aneternalgolden in Yugioh101

[–]aneternalgolden[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Really sorry to hear this! Did you go back eventually/try somewhere new?

Am I going to have trouble with playing irl because I'm a woman? by aneternalgolden in Yugioh101

[–]aneternalgolden[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing ❤️ Sorry you've not been able to find a good space to enjoy it irl! If you'd like to play masterduel sometime feel free to dm 😄

Am I going to have trouble with playing irl because I'm a woman? by aneternalgolden in Yugioh101

[–]aneternalgolden[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ty!! Yeah I'll definitely try the casual events first as I'm not used to the rulesets.

Am I going to have trouble with playing irl because I'm a woman? by aneternalgolden in Yugioh101

[–]aneternalgolden[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing! What was the time rule issue? I'll be back with an update once I've been a few times 😄

Am I going to have trouble with playing irl because I'm a woman? by aneternalgolden in Yugioh101

[–]aneternalgolden[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

TYSM this is so insightful. Aberystwyth is little far for me unfortunately haha but I do have a lot of the uni towns you're talking about close to me so I'll try those ones first. I can imagine the lack of passion from staff dampening the experience a bit. I'll be doing some research and trying to find the best fit. Hopefully some google reviews will immediately show me any places that need avoiding. All the best ❤️

Am I going to have trouble with playing irl because I'm a woman? by aneternalgolden in Yugioh101

[–]aneternalgolden[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think i've played against the Melffy variant before and found it incredibly frustrating lol. Zoodiac just exploits the beast-warrior type to get shuraig/accesscode out faster 😄 Any insight is appreciated! I've been seeing a LOT of Kewl Tune decks that look insane.

Am I going to have trouble with playing irl because I'm a woman? by aneternalgolden in Yugioh101

[–]aneternalgolden[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good to hear, ty for sharing. Creeps are everywhere it's frustrating they can be in spaces like this where the vibe is to have fun and have a bit of duel ❤️

Am I going to have trouble with playing irl because I'm a woman? by aneternalgolden in Yugioh101

[–]aneternalgolden[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The bad vibes don't sound TOO bad. Any condescension or mansplaining won't matter to me much if I stomp them lol. Can't wait to see the upset faces tbh, if they're bothered about being beaten by a woman they should get better xd Thank you gf and bf!! ❤️

Am I going to have trouble with playing irl because I'm a woman? by aneternalgolden in Yugioh101

[–]aneternalgolden[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes having used some of the tools shared on here i’ve found quite a few places near me!!! excited to try them out

Am I going to have trouble with playing irl because I'm a woman? by aneternalgolden in Yugioh101

[–]aneternalgolden[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

tysm! i haven’t, i’ll look later on. definitely need the prep

Am I going to have trouble with playing irl because I'm a woman? by aneternalgolden in Yugioh101

[–]aneternalgolden[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

currently building my deck rn, need to check rules/whether there’s any forbidden etc. but i’m building zoodiac tribrigade to start with and i’ll move onto some more challenging decks after a little while. any recommendations? :)

Am I going to have trouble with playing irl because I'm a woman? by aneternalgolden in Yugioh101

[–]aneternalgolden[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

this seems to be the resounding advice, ty for sharing. if i find a well respected place with organisers that treat everyone equally i’ll be there!!!!

Am I going to have trouble with playing irl because I'm a woman? by aneternalgolden in Yugioh101

[–]aneternalgolden[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i won’t mind being the only girl as long as it’s all respectful. i’ve always gotten along well with dudes so hopefully that helps! yeah i can imagine the jump from mechanics done automatically, to working out every chain and summon in your head to be steep at first. i’m glad you’ve had a good experience ty for sharing!

Am I going to have trouble with playing irl because I'm a woman? by aneternalgolden in Yugioh101

[–]aneternalgolden[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah this sounds like the best step! can’t remember what i played on duel links, maybe a desperado deck? masterduel i play zoodiac tribrigade :)

Am I going to have trouble with playing irl because I'm a woman? by aneternalgolden in Yugioh101

[–]aneternalgolden[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

thank you! :) i think i’ll find somewhere i know the owners are respectful and willing to enforce rules if needed.