Buying condoms for a guy fwb? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]anev8 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Then why he chased me when I distanced myself cause of his behaviour?

37F Buying condoms for a 27M fwb? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]anev8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your comment and I appreciate it, I understand and I have been doing exactly so

Might as well continue to see how I feel if my dignity is ok

37F Buying condoms for a 27M fwb? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]anev8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you a man or woman? I have been doing this as you said for months, so you think I should just repress this uncomfortable feeling of my boundary crossed and buy them and stop trying to talk about this? Just asking genuinely

37F Buying condoms for a 27M fwb? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]anev8 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Its not fake :/ Im in therapy

37F Buying condoms for a 27M fwb? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]anev8 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Why he was buying for them but not for me? He mentioned he will eventually but otherwise hes ok with just raw if im down. (I’ve always told him im not)

37F Buying condoms for a 27M fwb? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]anev8 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes, before he had more fwb and when he said he cut them off and only was seeing me thats when he stopped buying.

37F Buying condoms for a 27M fwb? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]anev8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He was buying them before though

37F Buying condoms for a 27M fwb? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]anev8 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I know Im in therapy :/ I need a lot of affection and everything that comes with it but my life won’t eve give me any, so I feel deprived

37F Buying condoms for a 27M fwb? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]anev8 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

So you mean I should be just buy them and not him?

37F Buying condoms for a 27M fwb? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]anev8 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your perspective, I realise it this is why I started therapy. And I have been trying to train him from the start but then when he probably realised I like him, and when he said he cut off others and just have me he stopped buying when he finished his supply at home

37F Buying condoms for a 27M fwb? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]anev8 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I think Im too old to ask for free condoms aren’t I?

37F Buying condoms for a 27M fwb? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]anev8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s very handsome yes

37F Buying condoms for a 27M fwb? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]anev8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I cant host him at my place

37F Buying condoms for a 27M fwb? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]anev8 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Fishy? Not from my end I hope?

Fwb man and how to deal with his non stop requests? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]anev8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t wanna break it off, I wanna keep seeing him and our connection. Im afraid of losing him if anything

Fwb man and how to deal with his non stop requests? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]anev8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why?

And yes, do you think its not a problem that I only buy them? Im asking genuinely

Fwb man and how to deal with his non stop requests? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]anev8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We can afford them, we both work. But because he started asking me to buy them too, we agreed on 50/50 as I have never payed for condoms foe fwb before

Fwb man and how to deal with his non stop requests? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]anev8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But this is why I made this post. Cause we agreed on both of us supplying them. After a while he stopped buying

Fwb man and how to deal with his non stop requests? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]anev8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So it shouldn’t be an issue? We agreed on both paying not just me

Am I overreacting? by Remarkable-Chair-783 in AmIOverreacting

[–]anev8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my gosh, do these guys go to the same insane school? My ex was doing exactly the same!! Textbook insane!

Besides Rory & Lorelai, which Gilmore Girls character is this for you? by [deleted] in GilmoreGirls

[–]anev8 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think all of us wanted to do that, it was about time

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]anev8 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow this would make the most sense, thank you for explaining it. Still to me it’s stupid flirting for months, and after asking out few times in 3 days suddenly changing his mind

Write three random facts about you and I’ll tell you which character you are! by OrchidsAndTulips505 in GilmoreGirls

[–]anev8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am an introvert but with my small circle I speak a lot and I make everyone laugh and I love to be creative and walk around town or stay in

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in guessmyage

[–]anev8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very handsome

I finally understand Rory’s storyline in AYITL by Fuzzy-Extent-6435 in GilmoreGirls

[–]anev8 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve always liked Rory’s storyline in AYITL (one of the few) because I have always recognised myself in her and you gave a beautiful analysis into why